Depression often convinces us to stay silent, but silence can keep us stuck.

In this powerful conversation, Lystra shares her experience as a young mother navigating exhaustion, intrusive thoughts, and shame while living with depression. She opens up about the turning point when hearing someone else’s vulnerable story helped her realize she needed help—and gave her the courage to ask for it.

Together with co-hosts Terry McGuire and Dr. Anita Sanz, Lystra explores the energy it takes to suppress intrusive thoughts, the stigma of medication, and the transformative relief that comes when we allow ourselves to be vulnerable. This episode is a reminder that sharing our struggles not only helps us heal, but also creates safe spaces for others.

Primary Topics Covered:

• Why vulnerability is a gift in depression recovery
• Lystra’s story of postpartum depression and intrusive thoughts
• The hidden exhaustion of suppressing suicidal thinking
• How hearing another person’s story helped her seek help
• Stigma and shame around needing medication
• The surprising relief of starting antidepressants
• How lived experience bridges the gap beyond checklists
• The importance of safe spaces for mental health conversations

Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction: Why vulnerability is a powerful gift  
02:21 – Meeting Lystra: embracing the beginning of recovery  
03:15 – Realizing something was wrong: exhaustion and emptiness  
05:19 – Postpartum depression and intrusive suicidal thoughts  
06:37 – The hidden energy cost of suppressing dark thoughts  
07:27 – Depression’s impact on relationships and family life  
08:34 – Hearing another person’s depression story for the first time  
09:47 – Recognizing dangerous thoughts and why support matters  
11:19 – Finally seeking medical help and receiving a diagnosis  
13:10 – Considering antidepressants vs. birth control  
14:00 – Stigma and shame around taking medication  
15:03 – The powerful shift after the first dose of medication  
17:57 – Talking openly and discovering friends’ hidden struggles  
18:53 – The importance of normalizing conversations about help  
20:18 – Learning to be a safe space for yourself and others  
21:54 – Final reflections: depression as a full-time job to suppress  
23:38 – Closing thoughts: why lived experience saves lives  

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Too often, children grow up surrounded by silence when it comes to mental health. Without words for what they see or feel, kids may blame themselves, feel isolated, or miss the signs of depression altogether.

In this episode of Giving Voice to Depression, TJ, a father living with depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, and PTSD, shares why he chose to have an open, honest conversation with his young son about mental illness. From breaking stigma at home to teaching emotional expression, TJ’s story highlights why starting mental health conversations early matters — and how they can save lives.

This episode also underscores the importance of mental health education in families and schools so that children grow up with tools to recognize symptoms, seek help, and support others.

Link to resources on depression in children: 
https://www.webmd.com/depression/qa/what-are-signs-and-symptoms-of-depression-in-children

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/14938-depression-in-children

https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/depression-in-children

Primary Topics Covered:

• Why talking about mental health with kids reduces stigma
• The challenges of recognizing depression in children
• How depression and family history increase risk in kids
• TJ’s story of living with depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, and PTSD
• The dangers of untreated depression and suicidal thoughts
• Why medication and therapy matter — and the risks of stopping treatment
• Parenting while struggling with mental illness
• How TJ transformed his pain into open conversations with his son
• The role of schools and families in normalizing mental health education
• Why early conversations help kids understand, cope, and support others

Timestamps:
 00:00 – Introduction to the episode and podcast mission
 01:40 – Why depression in children often goes unrecognized
 02:52 – Signs of depression in children and teens
 03:25 – Guest TJ introduces himself and his story
 04:42 – Early struggles with depression and avoidance of treatment
 05:15 – Suicidal thoughts and seeking professional help
 05:51 – The medication cycle and stopping treatment
 06:36 – Personal crises, overdoses, and hospitalizations
 07:19 – Parenting with depression and its impact on children
 08:06 – Why TJ chose to speak openly with his son
 09:25 – Normalizing feelings and reducing shame in children
 10:29 – A powerful father–son conversation about emotions
 11:30 – Explaining depression to a child without fear or stigma
 12:31 – His son’s reaction and acceptance
 13:19 – Why mental health talks must be ongoing, not one-time
 14:44 – Balancing honesty with protecting a child from overwhelm
 14:59 – Why parents must be willing to listen when kids share
 15:59 – Teaching kids early to fight stigma and normalize care
 16:34 – Why focusing on children’s mental health is essential
 18:40 – Final reflections from the hosts

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Generational trauma leaves deep scars that ripple through families, cultures, and communities. For Native American communities, centuries of systemic oppression, land loss, and forced assimilation through boarding schools created wounds that continue to affect mental health today.

In this episode of Giving Voice to Depression, Oneida Nation member Mark Powless shares his lived experience of how historical trauma has shaped his family, his community, and his own mental health. From the painful legacy of boarding schools to the challenges of substance abuse, anger, and mistrust passed down through generations, Mark offers an honest look at inherited trauma — and the long road to healing.

He also discusses how reconnecting with Indigenous traditions, raising his own sons with awareness, and engaging in cultural healing practices like the sweat lodge are helping to break harmful cycles and bring hope for the future.

This powerful conversation sheds light on the connection between generational trauma and depression, while showing that healing is possible through acknowledgment, cultural pride, and resilience.

Links to more information, provided by Mark:
Oneida Nation Website  https://oneida-nsn.gov/
Resources Mark recommends to learn more: https://www.amazon.com/Sky-Woman-Lives-Roberta-Capasso/dp/1483443469
https://www.amazon.com/Boarding-School-Seasons-American-1900-1940/dp/0803264054
Healing the Soul Wound: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TKVTzJYyyRY

Primary Topics Covered:

• What generational and historical trauma means in Native communities
• The link between depression, substance abuse, and inherited pain
• Boarding schools and their lasting impact on Indigenous families
• How silence and shame perpetuate trauma through generations
• The role of anger and mistrust in community dynamics
• Substance abuse as a coping mechanism for trauma
• Hair and culture as central to Native identity and resilience
• Parenting while addressing generational trauma
• Indigenous healing practices, including sweat lodges
• Why healing requires patience, compassion, and community support

Timestamps:
 00:00 – Introduction to the episode and hosts
 01:07 – Why this episode was re-released for Native American Heritage Month
 01:47 – Understanding trauma and its impact on identity and safety
 03:22 – Guest introduction: Mark Powless on generational trauma
 03:42 – Growing up on the Oneida Reservation and what felt “normal”
 04:34 – Realizing the historical roots of current struggles
 05:14 – Pain and trauma still present in Native communities
 05:41 – Boarding schools and their cultural destruction
 06:19 – Disconnection from language, family, and traditions
 07:18 – How elders’ silence perpetuated pain and mistrust
 08:14 – Alcoholism and substance use as generational coping mechanisms
 08:43 – Defining historical trauma and its effects
 09:10 – The cultural importance of hair and identity
 09:47 – How a modern school policy triggered generational pain
 10:32 – Trauma reactivation and its emotional impact
 11:20 – Personal reflections on his great-grandfather’s suffering
 14:24 – Breaking cycl

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When veterans return home, the adjustment can be overwhelming. Transitioning from military life back into civilian routines brings unique challenges — trauma, mental health struggles, and uncertainty about where to turn for help. Families, friends, and communities play a critical role in this reintegration.

In this episode of Giving Voice to Depression, Dr. Don Sanz — a combat veteran, psychologist, and advocate for veterans’ mental health — explains how we can better support veterans as they navigate life after service. He outlines practical ways to show compassion and provide meaningful support: listening without judgment, observing changes in behavior, encouraging professional help, and practicing patience as veterans heal.

Whether you’re a family member, friend, or neighbor, this conversation will help you understand how to show up for the veterans in your life in ways that truly matter.

Primary Topics Covered:

• Unique challenges veterans face when transitioning to civilian life
• The importance of listening without judgment
• How to observe veterans’ behavior and mood with care
• Encouraging veterans to seek available mental health services
• Why patience is critical during reintegration
• The role of families in learning about available resources
• How neighbors and coworkers can show nonjudgmental support
• The value of welcoming veterans and expressing gratitude
• State-run veteran service offices and how they help
• Why healing and adjustment take time after returning home

Timestamps:
 00:00 – Introduction to the podcast and episode focus
 01:07 – Why this week’s episode centers on veterans’ mental health
 02:06 – Introducing guest Dr. Don Sanz, combat veteran and psychologist
 02:54 – Why many veterans don’t disclose their service experience
 03:20 – Understanding unique pressures across different wars and conflicts
 03:52 – Veterans’ mental health challenges after returning home
 04:34 – Three key supports: listen, observe, and encourage
 05:43 – Why nonjudgmental listening matters
 06:59 – Learning about resources before a veteran returns home
 07:32 – How neighbors and communities can support veterans
 08:46 – State-run veteran service offices explained
 09:53 – The difficulty of navigating resources after service
 10:17 – Why the transition home is often overwhelming
 11:06 – The importance of patience with reintegration
 11:37 – Closing thanks and reflections

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The transition from military service to civilian life brings challenges that many veterans aren’t fully prepared for. While not all veterans develop a mental health condition, most experience some form of adjustment — whether it’s learning how to rebuild structure, manage relationships, or cope with trauma.

In this episode of Giving Voice to Depression, psychologist and combat veteran Dr. Don Sanz provides an overview of the most common mental health challenges veterans face, from PTSD to survivor guilt, substance use, and difficulty adjusting to civilian routines. Drawing from both his lived experience and decades of clinical work, Dr. Sanz explains the symptoms of post-traumatic stress, how to recognize when functioning is impaired, and why early intervention is critical.

This conversation highlights the importance of awareness, compassion, and resources for veterans navigating life after service.

Primary Topics Covered:

• Why the transition from military to civilian life is so challenging
• Common adjustment issues after deployment
• How PTSD symptoms develop and impact functioning
• Four symptom clusters of PTSD: intrusion, avoidance, mood changes, and arousal
• Survivor guilt, shame, and anger in veterans
• How substance abuse can mask unaddressed trauma
• Recognizing when functioning is impaired
• Why listening to feedback from loved ones is essential
• The importance of professional help and community support
• Why not every veteran develops a mental health condition, but all need adjustment support

Timestamps:
 00:00 – Introduction to the episode and podcast mission
 01:07 – Why November episodes focus on veterans’ mental health
 02:05 – Guest introduction: Dr. Don Sanz, veteran and psychologist
 02:53 – Don’s military service and transition into psychology
 03:50 – How Vietnam trauma led him to focus on veterans’ care
 04:35 – Common struggles veterans face when returning to civilian life
 06:20 – The overwhelming challenge of readjustment
 07:03 – PTSD as the most common condition for combat veterans
 07:55 – The four PTSD symptom clusters explained
 10:03 – When PTSD becomes diagnosable and life-disrupting
 10:18 – How functioning is impaired across life areas
 11:11 – The role of feedback from family and partners
 11:43 – Why awareness and listening are essential
 11:52 – Closing reflections and thanks

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For anyone living with depression, even the smallest daily actions can feel impossible. But routines—done consistently—can create a foundation for stability, confidence, and healing.

In this episode, mental health advocate Paul Marlow shares how building intentional morning and evening routines helped him recover from two of the darkest years of his life. From improving sleep to reframing therapy, fitness, and nutrition, Paul explains how small, repeatable habits became the building blocks of his recovery.

This conversation is both practical and hopeful, offering simple strategies you can use today to improve your mental health and take real steps toward depression recovery.

Link to Paul's website/resources: https://weareneveralone.co/

Primary Topics Covered:

• Why routines can be transformative for mental health
• Paul’s two-year battle with depression and how he found tools for healing
• The connection between quality sleep and reduced depression symptoms
• Building evening routines that improve rest and emotional balance
• Creating morning routines that build confidence through “small wins”
• The role of therapy and honesty in recovery
• How fitness can reshape self-talk and reduce anxiety
• The impact of nutrition on mood and resilience
• Why setbacks are part of recovery—and how to push through them

Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction and context for the episode  
02:07 – Lessons from past guests on coping tools for depression  
03:01 – Paul Marlow’s story: two years in a dark place  
03:44 – The power of morning routines for mental health  
04:34 – Why sleep plays a critical role in depression recovery  
05:43 – Learning to track sleep and its effects on mood  
07:00 – Building a healthy evening routine to prepare for rest  
08:13 – Waking up rested for the first time in years  
09:00 – Starting a morning routine one small step at a time  
09:55 – Why avoiding your phone first thing matters  
11:18 – Therapy as a cornerstone of recovery  
13:06 – How honest conversations with therapists make progress possible  
14:59 – Facing setbacks in therapy and persisting anyway  
16:10 – Fitness routines as a confidence and resilience booster  
17:36 – Exercise as practice for facing fear and anxiety  
18:06 – Nutrition, food choices, and their effect on mental health  
19:26 – How small wins and habit changes shift self-talk  
20:26 – Redefining limits and discovering your strength  
21:22 – Closing reflections on persistence, recovery, and hope  

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Depression is more than sadness — it’s a condition that can affect every part of life, from how we think to how we connect with others. For Paul Marlow, once a professional athlete and personal trainer, depression reshaped his mind, body, and relationships, leaving him feeling disconnected and uncertain of who he was.

In this episode of Giving Voice to Depression, Paul shares his raw story of living with PTSD, anxiety, grief, and depression. He explains the invisible symptoms — like loss of joy (anhedonia), overwhelming fatigue, and emotional numbness — that made daily life nearly impossible.

But Paul’s journey also highlights resilience. Through lifestyle changes, therapy, and learning to be honest about his struggles, he found ways to reduce depressive episodes and rebuild his identity. This episode is a powerful reminder that depression changes us, but with time and support, healing and growth are possible.

Link to Paul Marlow's website and resources: https://weareneveralone.co/

Primary Topics Covered:

• Common depression symptoms beyond sadness
• How depression impacts the mind, body, and relationships
• The experience of anhedonia (loss of joy)
• Why stigma hides the real face of depression
• How PTSD, anxiety, and grief overlap with depression
• The physical toll of depression on daily functioning
• Honesty and vulnerability in mental health recovery
• Rebuilding identity after depression changes who you are
• Lifestyle tools that supported Paul’s healing journey

Timestamps:
 00:00 Introduction to the episode
 01:46 The stigma of what “depression looks like”
 03:17 Guest introduction: Paul Marlow’s journey
 04:42 Paul’s first public disclosure of depression
 05:24 Living with anxiety, PTSD, and grief alongside depression
 06:39 Daily struggles: waking, crying, and pushing through work
 07:22 Hiding symptoms from the outside world
 08:05 The loss of joy (anhedonia) explained
 09:18 Realizing how long joy had been missing
 09:52 Reflecting on who he was before depression
 10:49 Growth and transformation after mental health struggles
 11:37 How depression still shows up in certain seasons
 13:42 Learning to reduce depressive episodes through lifestyle changes
 14:47 The importance of honesty with oneself in healing
 15:10 Breaking down facades and rebuilding a new identity
 17:14 Choosing which parts of yourself to carry forward in recovery
 18:13 Closing reflections and preview of part two

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Recovery from depression can feel overwhelming—especially after years of pain, trauma, and loss. But sometimes the way forward isn’t a giant leap—it’s the smallest possible step.

In this inspiring episode, Jenni shares her 8-year battle with unrelenting depression, compounded by grief, trauma, and exhaustion. Through therapy, self-compassion, and a daily commitment to “baby steps,” she slowly rebuilt her life and rediscovered peace and joy she never thought possible.

Her story is a powerful reminder that even when depression tells you nothing will change, tiny steps forward can lead to transformation.

Jenni's Facebook page- Barefoot, Brave and Bold:  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61565516246115

Primary Topics Covered:

• Jenni’s 8-year struggle with chronic depression and trauma
• Why depression convinces us nothing will ever change
• The role of PTSD and EMDR therapy in her healing journey
• The importance of “baby steps” and soul rest in recovery
• Practical examples of small steps: music, reading, saying “yes” to friends
• How self-care and persistence build momentum over time
• The breakthrough moment that reignited her joy and peace
• Why recovery is ongoing maintenance, not a finish line

Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction and opening reflections  
02:01 – Why even a single step can feel impossible in depression  
03:09 – Jenni’s 8-year battle with unrelenting depression  
03:35 – Losses, chronic pain, and trauma piling up  
04:45 – Depression’s exhaustion: “I had no fight in me”  
06:31 – PTSD diagnosis and starting EMDR therapy  
07:21 – Realizing the need for daily baby steps  
08:31 – Examples of baby steps: reading memoirs, music, learning  
09:12 – Saying yes to invitations instead of isolating  
09:56 – Joining therapy groups, trying yoga, traveling  
10:39 – The breakthrough moment: finding her “House of Peace”  
11:53 – Depression disappears after consistent baby steps  
13:11 – Why maintenance and daily self-care remain essential  
13:46 – Living joyfully and peacefully after recovery  
14:43 – Jenni’s message to those who feel hopeless  
17:21 – Reflections: why baby steps and hope are essential  
20:17 – Believing things can get better as a survival tool  
22:55 – The cumulative power of small daily choices  
24:22 – Final reflections: hope and recovery are real  

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What does it mean to live with depression every single day — not just in episodes, but as a constant presence? In this powerful episode of Giving Voice to Depression, advocate and writer Didi Hairston (known online as Diva with Depression) shares her raw experience of managing chronic, treatment-resistant depression for more than two decades.

Didi describes her depression as “The Monster” — an active force that impacts her relationships, work, and daily functioning. From childhood trauma to postpartum struggles and the ongoing challenges of loneliness, she speaks candidly about the reality of living in darkness while still finding ways to parent, run businesses, and advocate for mental health.

She also addresses the stigma around mental illness in Black and Brown communities and why culturally aware conversations about therapy and medication are essential. Despite the pain, Didi emphasizes resilience, connection, and the possibility of functioning — even when depression never fully lifts.

Link to Didi Hairston's website: https://www.divawithdepression.com/my-story

Primary Topics Covered:

• What it’s like to live with chronic, treatment-resistant depression
• Naming depression “The Monster” as a way to describe its constant presence
• The role of childhood trauma and postpartum struggles in long-term depression
• Parenting while managing daily depression
• Coping strategies: therapy, medication, and advocacy
• The added weight of loneliness and isolation
• Cultural stigma around mental health in Black and Brown communities
• Why empathy and support matter more than platitudes

Timestamps:
 00:00 – Introduction to the podcast and hosts
 01:31 – Introducing guest Didi Hairston, “Diva with Depression”
 02:13 – Her platform: Mental Illness with No Filter
 02:31 – Living in “the meat in between” of depression
 03:07 – Depression beginning in childhood trauma
 04:09 – Postpartum struggles and worsening symptoms
 05:09 – Raising children while battling depression
 06:26 – Naming depression “The Monster”
 08:10 – Finding moments of joy alongside pain
 09:04 – Coping with therapy, medication, and advocacy work
 10:16 – Focusing on Black and Brown communities in mental health advocacy
 11:14 – Challenging cultural stigma around therapy and medication
 11:49 – The loneliness of depression and empty nest struggles
 14:15 – Depression’s impact on relationships and social connections
 16:32 – The need for accessible support systems and active listening
 18:01 – Living, functioning, and advocating while in chronic depression
 20:54 – Reflections on acceptance, management, and resilience
 22:43 – Closing thoughts and invitation to continue the conversation

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When natural disasters strike, the physical destruction is only part of the story—the emotional and psychological scars can last for years. In this episode of Giving Voice to Depression, guest Tara Pyfrom shares her harrowing survival story of Hurricane Dorian and the long road of recovery that followed. From PTSD and depression to finding ways to rebuild hope through therapy, writing, and resilience, Tara offers a powerful look at what it means to heal after unimaginable trauma.

If you or someone you know is struggling in the aftermath of a disaster, this conversation is a reminder that recovery is possible, even when the journey feels endless.

Link to Tara's website with information about her book: https://tarapyfrom.com/about-me

Primary Topics Covered:

• Risk factors for depression, PTSD, and trauma
• First-hand survival account of Hurricane Dorian
• The mental health impact of losing a home and community
• The slow process of recovery and therapy after trauma
• The role of writing, art, and creativity in healing
• Coping strategies for depression and PTSD symptoms
• How to measure progress when recovery feels stalled

Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction to the episode and podcast mission
 01:26 – Understanding depression risk factors and trauma triggers
 03:04 – Tara’s background and initial experience with Hurricane Dorian
 04:49 – When the storm hit: survival and impossible choices
 06:41 – Fear, panic, and making life-or-death decisions
 07:22 – Escaping to the attic and waiting for the storm to pass
 08:36 – The moment of survival and evacuation
 09:38 – The immediate mental health aftermath: PTSD and depression
 11:01 – Long-term struggles with hopelessness and therapy
 12:10 – Writing as therapy and the role of poetry in healing
 13:27 – Building a new home and creating hope through goals
 14:13 – Reflections on time, recovery, and measuring progress
 15:32 – Finding resilience through small steps forward
 16:35 – Living with trauma while reclaiming happiness
 17:17 – Clinical reflections on PTSD and natural disaster survivors
 19:07 – The importance of moving pain out of the body through expression
 20:17 – Tara’s ongoing healing and sharing her story in a book
 21:02 – The reality of long-term recovery from PTSD and depression
 21:46 – Closing thoughts: resilience, survival, and moving forward

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