💿 *Get my free newsletter with simple ideas to make life easier ⇢*→ Sign up: https://www.muchelleb.com.au/newsletter-signup☁️ *Join the Intention Community (it's replaced the Intention app)! ⇢*→ _Every month, two brand-new tools (meditations, worksheets, videos, etc) drop, usually built around a recent video - so that you can take what you’ve learned and do something with it._→ Join: https://intentioncommunity.circle.so/🪞 *Organise your Life with the Calm Productivity Notion Pack. ⇢*→ _"This notion pack is amazing!! I feel like it’s changing my life already and I’ve never been so impressed by a product." Alice Joyce_→ Get the pack: https://shop.muchelleb.com.au/products/the-calm-productivity-notion-pack💭 *Video timeline ⇢*00:00 Be Meaner Not Nicer00:31 People Pleasing Pendulum01:29 Not Manipulation Or Martyrdom03:10 Casual Boundary Setting05:07 Mindful Noticing Practice07:30 Find Your Feared Reality10:15 Membership And Weekly Challenge11:17 Wrap Up And Next Steps🔗 *Anything I mentioned ⇢*🔗 My podcast episode on prediction errors, limiting beliefs and learning by experiencing surprise: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7B9TElYLEoy99I3p9Ra1lh?si=56d38247022541b8

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💭 *Video timeline ⇢*

00:00 Limiting Beliefs 101: What They Really Are (Not Woo-Woo)

00:49 How Your Brain Learns ‘Safety’ Lessons (Dog Park Example)

01:36 Why ‘I’m Not Good Enough’ Isn’t the Whole Story

03:00 Feared Realities: The Hidden Engine Behind Your Patterns

03:45 Why Old-School ‘List the Belief, Disprove It’ Didn’t Work for Me

04:33 Find Your Limiting Beliefs: Patterns + ‘Symptom Deprivation’ Exercise

05:41 You Can’t Logic Your Way - You Have to Feel It

06:51 Rewiring Through Prediction Error (Deep Awareness Explained)

07:27 Real-Life Examples: Loud Laughs, Meetings, and Surprise Updates

10:48 Mini Moves: Spot Patterns, Name the Fear, Collect Disconfirming Moments

12:02 Rec of the Week + Resources (People-Pleasing Ep & Memory Reconsolidation)

13:08 Wrap-Up

🔗 *Anything I mentioned ⇢*

🔗  People Pleasing Ep: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1tNnu6xR2vgtM7PxueNm6V?si=4AsOyw56RNGaR75DAKi7PQ

🔗 Unlocking the Emotional Brain by Bruce Ecker - https://amzn.to/4aziq3O

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💭 *Video timeline ⇢*

00:00 Why Self-Trust Is the Missing Link in Productivity

00:24 The ‘Bad Boss’ Analogy: How You Lose Trust in Yourself

01:46 The 3 Building Blocks of Self-Trust (Honesty, Collaboration, Compassion)

03:02 High Self-Trust in Action: Neil’s Time-Blocking Mindset

04:38 Low Self-Trust in Action: Joanne’s Rigid Planning Trap

06:05 Why Rigid Productivity Systems Can Backfire (and Fuel Self-Sabotage)

07:16 Ingredient #1: Self-Honesty—Stop ‘Play Pretend’ Planning

09:49 Ingredient #2: Self-Collaboration—Check In Before You Commit

11:08 Ingredient #3: Self-Compassion—Recover From Mistakes Without Cruelty

11:38 Mini Move: Use Self-Collaboration When You Feel Resistance

12:20 Book Recs + Final Wrap-Up

🔗 *Anything I mentioned ⇢*

🔗 Procrastination Decoded by David Maloney: https://www.amazon.com.au/Procrastination-Decoded-Overcome-Self-Respect-Philosophy-ebook/dp/B08GB33MFD/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2LWQWS89ASEK9&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Y5b2-kqjDEz_VU_Kl46tepcQ8M9vtvs8dZMmv_Ceo2xF1Nol1dLYljLjMIqEFbqkPG_N2pJyZjeiEKTFF9WdSdJmLNjsKlSeG7WBGYPNJoMw_rVNbEXaGnQU4MdBqg4qboITi0gZbbit3NXpEEIwmpkRbz15XYulIi2d1tNPbc4O0WR-H8BX1MGN7EYj4hLX.n8jxovPKP1ljbCkPpwCGSt5xy5rqy_6-kud_vwW23eI&dib_tag=se&keywords=Procrastination+Decoded+by+David+Maloney&qid=1771060276&s=books&sprefix=%2Cstripbooks%2C231&sr=1-1

🔗 The Now Habit: A Strategic Program for Overcoming Procrastination and Enjoying Guilt-Free Play by Neil Fiore: https://www.amazon.com.au/Now-Habit-Overcoming-Procrastination-Guilt-Free/dp/1529146682/ref=sr_1_1?crid=KX9J8QT7EBA6&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.sWd9Ue2Z1_9bMA0LPFyuowPx0hJYTmEm8C0YNT4OCwHcYXUsQrjlgM0UIatDfVuasLKm9yrrWehnnH7yzls3h8dPmutYzEZwEEUSCDuV2XY.ZmSQkXMVhejQh_wba8aV7r6z-E0M5OqSXOiN3GPHRa8&dib_tag=se&keywords=The+Now+Habit%3A+A+Strategic+Program+for+Overcoming+Procrastination+and+Enjoying+Guilt-Free+Play+by+Neil+Fiore&qid=1771060287&s=books&sprefix=the+now+habit+a+strategic+program+for+overcoming+procrastination+and+enjoying+guilt-free+play+by+neil+fiore%2Cstripbooks%2C213&sr=1-1

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💭 *Video timeline ⇢*

00:00 Introduction: The One Thing That Changed Everything

00:58 Understanding True Desires vs. Wanting to Want

02:08 Identifying and Overcoming Your 'Yes, Buts'

04:31 Transforming Goals by Addressing Fears

06:30 Practical Steps to Align Your Goals with True Desires

09:52 The Importance of Non-Arbitrary Goals

11:30 Mini Move and Record of the Week

12:52 Final Thoughts

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💭 *Video timeline ⇢*

00:00 Introduction to Self-Trust

00:41 The Imagination Exercise

01:46 Real-Life Examples of Self-Sabotage

03:28 The Power of Self-Trust

03:36 Self-Trust Quiz

05:29 Manager and Doer Relationship

08:01 Mini Move for the Week

09:20 Recommendation of the Week

🔗 *Anything I mentioned ⇢*
🔗  David Maloneys YouTube Procrastination Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLxNUjBcf91Re_TJRJlGhlmzgmBeRCPWiZ

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💭 *Video timeline ⇢*00:00 Introduction to Procrastination and Self-Sabotage

00:54 A Story of Addiction: Ted Baldwin

02:49 Connecting Addiction to Procrastination

04:36 Understanding the Helplessness Loop

09:14 Breaking the Pattern

09:50 Conclusion and Recommendations🔗 *Anything I mentioned ⇢*🔗 The Heart of Addiction: https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Addiction-Understanding-Alcoholism-Addictive/dp/0060198117

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00:00 Welcome to Grow With Intention 2026

00:15 Podcast Updates and New Goals

01:15 Understanding Habit Loops

08:33 Common Habit Loops in Productivity

12:41 Managing ADHD and Productivity

13:49 Recs of The Week

15:16 Membership Details
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Hey!This month I’m sharing a “Best of 2025” series, with repeats of some of the most loved episodes from this year that are particularly relevant around the Christmas / New Year period! Please enjoy these episodes. I’m taking the first half of Jan off, so new episodes will return in the second half of January.A heads up on some 2026 changes that you'll see come the new year: → The podcast is moving to audio-only! Video will appear exclusively on my main channel, http://www.youtube.com/muchelleb. I'll upload the audio podcasts to the YouTube channel for you to listen to if you're a dedicated YouTube listener rather than a Spotify listener. This keeps my main channel and my podcast more distinct and allows for more sustainable content creation. Plus, I love a little audio yap!→ I'll continue sharing short deep-dive style episodes focused on just one topic per ep, treating this podcast as a bit more of a playground for my main channel videos - as I did for the November experiment.→ I'll also be integrating these episodes with my newsletter a lot more, so if you aren't signed up for that already, be sure to: https://www.muchelleb.com.au/#:~:text=look%20forward%20to-,How%20to%20create%20a%20life%20that%20feels%20good,-Sign%20up%20toIf you want to see me in December, I’ll still be uploading on my main YouTube channel (MuchelleB): http://www.youtube.com/muchelleb. Otherwise, I’ll see you back in Jan! 💛TIMELINE ⇢0:00 Best of GWI December Series0:27 Start The EpisodeLINKS ⇢🔗 Michelle Segar: The Joy Choice - https://www.amazon.com.au/Joy-Choice-Finally-Achieve-Exercise/dp/0306826070FIND GWI ⇢☀️ On Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2HqznNA2v9McYirvqmUVvO☀️ On Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grow-with-intention/id1720890847☀️ On Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@growwithintentionCONNECT WITH ME ⇢🧚 Instagram ⇢ http://instagram.com/muchelleb🧚 Website ⇢ http://muchelleb.com.au/🧚 MuchelleB YouTube Channel ⇢ https://www.youtube.com/@muchelleb

Hey!This month I’m sharing a “Best of 2025” series, with repeats of some of the most loved episodes from this year that are particularly relevant around the Christmas / New Year period! Please enjoy these episodes. I’m taking the first half of Jan off, so new episodes will return in the second half of January.A heads up on some 2026 changes that you'll see come the new year: → The podcast is moving to audio-only! Video will appear exclusively on my main channel, http://www.youtube.com/muchelleb. I'll upload the audio podcasts to the YouTube channel for you to listen to if you're a dedicated YouTube listener rather than a Spotify listener. This keeps my main channel and my podcast more distinct and allows for more sustainable content creation. Plus, I love a little audio yap!→ I'll continue sharing short deep-dive style episodes focused on just one topic per ep, treating this podcast as a bit more of a playground for my main channel videos - as I did for the November experiment.→ I'll also be integrating these episodes with my newsletter a lot more, so if you aren't signed up for that already, be sure to: https://www.muchelleb.com.au/#:~:text=look%20forward%20to-,How%20to%20create%20a%20life%20that%20feels%20good,-Sign%20up%20toIf you want to see me in December, I’ll still be uploading on my main YouTube channel (MuchelleB): http://www.youtube.com/muchelleb. Otherwise, I’ll see you back in Jan! 💛TIMELINE ⇢0:00 Best of GWI December Series0:27 Start The EpisodeLINKS ⇢🔗 The Highest Goal: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/1576753522?ref_=mr_referred_us_au_auFIND GWI ⇢☀️ On Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2HqznNA2v9McYirvqmUVvO☀️ On Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grow-with-intention/id1720890847☀️ On Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@growwithintentionCONNECT WITH ME ⇢🧚 Instagram ⇢ http://instagram.com/muchelleb🧚 Website ⇢ http://muchelleb.com.au/🧚 MuchelleB YouTube Channel ⇢ https://www.youtube.com/@muchelleb

Hey!This month I’m sharing a “Best of 2025” series, with repeats of some of the most loved episodes from this year that are particularly relevant around the Christmas / New Year period! Please enjoy these episodes. I’m taking the first half of Jan off, so new episodes will return in the second half of January.A heads up on some 2026 changes that you'll see come the new year: → The podcast is moving to audio-only! Video will appear exclusively on my main channel, http://www.youtube.com/muchelleb. I'll upload the audio podcasts to the YouTube channel for you to listen to if you're a dedicated YouTube listener rather than a Spotify listener. This keeps my main channel and my podcast more distinct and allows for more sustainable content creation. Plus, I love a little audio yap!→ I'll continue sharing short deep-dive style episodes focused on just one topic per ep, treating this podcast as a bit more of a playground for my main channel videos - as I did for the November experiment.→ I'll also be integrating these episodes with my newsletter a lot more, so if you aren't signed up for that already, be sure to: https://www.muchelleb.com.au/#:~:text=look%20forward%20to-,How%20to%20create%20a%20life%20that%20feels%20good,-Sign%20up%20toIf you want to see me in December, I’ll still be uploading on my main YouTube channel (MuchelleB): http://www.youtube.com/muchelleb. Otherwise, I’ll see you back in Jan! 💛TIMELINE ⇢0:00 Best of GWI December Series0:27 Start The EpisodeLINKS ⇢🔗 Book: Forgive For Good by Fred Luskin https://amzn.to/4cMQFps🔗 Book: How to Stubbornly Refuse to Make Yourself Miserable by Albert Ellis https://amzn.to/4jdA68p🔗 Let Them Peom: https://www.instagram.com/cassie.phillips.letthem🔗 Let Them Book: https://amzn.to/4lMithN🔗 Interview with Fred Luskin: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-become-happier-and-healthier-through/id1720890847?i=1000638711731FIND GWI ⇢☀️ On Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2HqznNA2v9McYirvqmUVvO☀️ On Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grow-with-intention/id1720890847☀️ On Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@growwithintentionCONNECT WITH ME ⇢🧚 Instagram ⇢ http://instagram.com/muchelleb🧚 Website ⇢ http://muchelleb.com.au/🧚 MuchelleB YouTube Channel ⇢ https://www.youtube.com/@muchelleb