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Fawning is one of the 4 responses the brain has to a threat (Fight, Flight, and Freeze are the other three).

The brain chooses this option when it doesn't believe it can fight or escape the threat. It often comes after a freeze (aka play dead) episode with the individual. The brain believes its survival is dependent on the other person's approval and satisfied state, so it begins to try to appease or please the person. This is often attempted by trying to be perfect for them. The brain tries to shape itself to the ideal it believes the other person wants.

This cycle of trying to become what the survivor thinks they want is where they lose themselves. It is where the chronic habits of codependency emerge, including: people-pleasing, avoiding conflict, constant apologizing, giving up wants and needs, retreating to the shadows (aka being invisible), perfectionism, feeling worthless and unlovable, and craving their love and approval.

Listen to training for deeper insight into fawning and how we get out of it.

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I discuss the 3 types of relationships that result in codependency. Below is a synopses of each: The 3 causes of codependency:

Codependency is the result of 3 specific dynamics:

1) Toxic relationships that run on the Seduction-Abuse-Discard cycle, creating an emotional rollercoaster ride of euphoria, distress, and despair for the target

2) Emotionally Unavailable relationships that run on a chase/control-run/withdraw loop, creating immense distress for the anxious attached and deep frustration and hurt for the avoidant

3) Well-intentioned-but-neglectful relationships that run on a pattern of "the basics but nothing more" interaction, where the codependent feels invisible, unknown, and unwanted due to the lack of attentiveness, presence, and emotional attunement of the other individual (most common with parents and children)

I specialize in helping survivors of #1 (narcissistic abuse) restore their sanity, safety, and self so they go on to know, love and live who they are and create happy relationships.

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I share my intention for the podcast and a bit about my history with narcissistic abuse.

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