It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People

High Conflict in Court: Managing Charm, Control, and Challenging Testimony


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Mastering High-Stakes Legal Testimony: Confronting High Conflict Behavior in the Courtroom

Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter analyze a compelling murder trial where a defendant who demonstrated high conflict behavior attempted to control courtroom dynamics through charm, intelligence, and confrontation. Drawing from this case study, they explore how legal professionals can maintain composure and authority when facing witnesses who exhibit traits common to high conflict personalities, including extreme confidence, bullying tactics, and sophisticated manipulation techniques.

The episode then addresses two listener questions: a therapist's observation about clients who show limited empathy in human relationships yet demonstrate intense care for animals, and a co-parent seeking strategies for responding quickly to seemingly rehearsed demands from challenging individuals. The hosts provide practical insights for handling both scenarios while maintaining healthy boundaries.

Questions Answered in This Episode:

  • How can attorneys maintain control with high conflict witnesses?
  • Why do some individuals show more empathy toward animals than people?
  • What strategies help maintain composure during hostile interactions?
  • How can someone respond effectively to rehearsed demands?

Key Takeaways:

  • Thorough preparation is essential when dealing with challenging witnesses
  • Maintaining calm and redirecting focus are crucial strategies
  • Approximately 3-4% of adults demonstrate antisocial personality traits
  • Charm and confidence often mask high conflict behaviors
  • Setting clear boundaries requires both preparation and consistent implementation

This episode offers valuable insights for legal professionals, mental health practitioners, and anyone navigating interactions with high conflict individuals. The discussion highlights the importance of understanding behavioral patterns while maintaining professional composure in challenging situations.

Additional Resources

Expert Publications

  • The Archaeology of Mind: Neuroevolutionary Origins of Human Emotions
  • Visit our bookstore

Personal Growth

  • Conflict Influencer® Class (6 weeks on Zoom)

Professional Development

  • Inquire about training for your organization
  • Domestic Violence Video: Conversations About Domestic Violence with 16 Experts

Connect With Us

  • Visit High Conflict Institute: highconflictinstitute.com
  • Submit questions for Bill and Megan
  • Browse our complete collection of books and resources in our online store—available in print and e-book formats
  • Find these show notes and all past episode notes on our website

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Important Notice

Our discussions focus on behavioral patterns rather than diagnoses. For specific legal or therapeutic guidance, please consult qualified professionals in your area.

  • (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault
  • (00:43) - Back from Hiatus
  • (01:26) - High Conflict in Trials
  • (10:08) - Prepare Some Phrases
  • (13:34) - Personality Types
  • (19:11) - Listener Question: Empathy and Pets
  • (31:15) - Listener Question: Asserting Ourselves Quickly
  • (35:17) - Wrap Up
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