Dr. Rob and Tami answer a question from a betrayed spouse on what to do when your SA partner is trying to coerce you into having intimate sex again, or else there will be consequences. Dr. Rob has some choice words for this person that he will refrain from using. Kidding! He didn't hold back in this episode.

TAKEAWAYS:

[:30] Suggestions on how to find a CSAT for my betrayed spouse?

[1:30] Can you help me understand forgiveness?

[9:10] What you're feeling is accurate. Trust it.

[10:50] I don't want to sleep in the same bed as my husband. I'm actually enjoying it. What does that mean for our relationship?

[15:30] Addict says if he doesn't have sex with me, he'll be tempted to cheat again. What do I do?

[18:50] You're being manipulated! Tell him off!

[20:30] Johnny Depp and Amber Heard. Dr. Rob, what are your thoughts on that dynamic?

[25:35] Trust is like a plate. Once it's broken, there will always be cracks.

[27:10] How do you do a formal disclosure?

[30:25] Dr. Rob is wearing sunglasses indoors. Why is that? He's got a special announcement.

RESOURCES:

Seekingintegrity.com

Email Tami: [email protected]

Sexandrelationshiphealing.com

Intherooms.com

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