Rob and Tami dive into ADHD and its connection with trauma and addiction. Dr. Rob understands it can feel good to pinpoint something you were ‘born with’ to your addiction, but it’s rarely that easy. Rob and Tami also share resources for spouses whose addict has chosen their addiction over their family. Looking for help? There are support groups for partners of addicts to help you vent, feel heard, and know that you’re not alone.

 

TAKEAWAYS:

[0:35] I’m a love addict and separated from my husband. How do I stop obsessing over him?

[2:10] Dr. Rob, please share a success story. I’m losing hope my marriage won’t survive.

[5:35] Is ADHD a response to trauma?

[9:10] I’m a recovering SA. My wife wants sexual intimacy and I do too, but I’m afraid of triggering her. What can I do?

[12:45] My addict has chosen his addiction over our family. What resources are there for me?

[15:35] You deserve love. TRUE love.

[19:40] I met someone at an online recovery meeting and they approached me sexually. He disclosed everything to me within a few hours of meeting. Is this normal?

[24:15] I feel like my husband needs to address his trauma. Are my feelings correct?

[27:45] You’re not a bad person.

 

RESOURCES:

Seekingintegrity.com

Email Tami: [email protected]

Sexandrelationshiphealing.com

Intherooms.com

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