Love Over Addiction

We all love (or have loved) someone that suffers from addiction. It could be alcohol, illegal (or legal) drugs, prescription pills, pornography, or sex among other things. Regardless of who you are, and what role they (and their addiction) play in your life, it does have an impact on us.

It impacts our outlook on life, our trust, our relationship, that inner voice that we all have. Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be in a different relationship? If you decide to leave your partner, what does life look like afterwards? Is there hope? Will you trust again? Could you ever find a different partner that didn't have addiction issues? What about the kids?

These are serious questions, and today, I talk with my husband Brian about our life, our relationship, and our kids. Addiction actually helped our relationship. Listen to the whole story (or at least 1 hour's worth) here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/ask-me-anything-3/

We have a free guidesheet for you here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/compassion125/

And if you're ready to join the Love Over Addiction movement, and see our free offerings and online programs, join us here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/courses

Super Bowl is a huge drinking and partying weekend. Everyone seems to have an excuse to drink or smoke, or whatever a little extra with the celebratory (or defeatist) vibes in the air on this particular weekend.

All the snacks are out, the TV is on, and the drinks are flowing. How do we handle situations like this when our loved one loves to drink a little too much? We talk serious questions and advice about the parties, what to do if they start drinking, and how to handle it when your children are involved.

We can be prepared together. We're a sisterhood, and we're ready to support you every step of the way in this judgment-free zone. We do have it harder than most women. That's certainly not your fault. You've found the right place for answers and support. Welcome.

Get the episode notes here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/super-bowl-game-day/

Find a free guide here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/124/

And to discover more free tips, online programs, and other offerings, join us here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/

We're back with another Ask Me Anything episode - all about my ex-husband. I was married to a good man that drinks too much and suffers from substance abuse disorder.

It's a real conversation filled with tough questions, real answers, and hopefully some new insights for you.

When you're in a relationship with someone that suffers from addiction, it's hard to see the light. I felt like I was in a prison, and wasn't sure if or how to get out.

If you have questions for me (about my ex-husband or not), send them to us at [email protected]. We might feature them on an upcoming episode. This podcast is for YOU - so we really want to hear from YOU. We hope you'll share your feedback + send your questions to us.

Today on the podcast I review one of my favorite books that has everything and nothing to do with addiction. I was married to a good man that drank too much and suffered from addiction for 10+ years. After reading this book, I walked away with new insights from our relationship, and how it truly was an opportunity for me.

Read the blog or listen to the podcast to learn all about it. And we're doing a free book giveaway. Listen for details.

When you love someone that drinks too much or suffers from addiction it's easy to be wrapped up in their disease, their actions, and their situations.

We are high achieving women, and we can develop unrealistic expectations (yes, that means too high of expectations) for yourself and those around. These unrealistic expectations you can steal your joy and make it hard enjoy anything.

But what if you start to make peace with who you are right now. Take some time to look around and notice all of the good things that are happening.

Listen to the podcast or read the blog to hear how to get rid of the expectations that may be holding you back.

Holidays can be filled with baking, shopping, and sipping hot cocoa while watching your favorite movies. But when you love someone suffering from addiction, the holiday season can be tough.

We reached out to the women in our community to share how they make the holidays enjoyable and less stressful.

Listen to the podcast or read the blog for their insights. You'll feel inspired and encouraged by their ideas.

Creating a safe space when you love someone suffering from addiction is a must. Truly, it's non-negotiable. When I was married to a good man that drank too much and suffered from addiction, my safe space was my island. It was my sanctuary. I'll tell you what it is, how I created it, and tips for creating your own today.

Read the blog or listen to the podcast and we'll talk all about it.

We did something different this week: My friend Olivia is on the podcast - and she's asking me personal questions from women in our community. Some questions are related to addiction - but others aren't. We talk motherhood, raising children, social media, and of course, stranded on an island.

It's the first episode in our mini Ask Me Anything series.

It's different than what we normally do - so if you're new, don't run away!

Listen for something a little more fun, and a bit different.

Do you have questions for me? Email them to [email protected].

When you love someone that suffers from alcoholism or addiction, the holidays can be unbearable. This season that's supposed to be family oriented and joyous can turn into a nightmare of anxiety and stress because of your loved one's behavior.

You deserve to have a good holiday. Their behavior is not your fault. I have 6 tips for you today.

There are many blessings of loving someone who struggles with addiction. Yes, you read that correctly.

I know it feels dark and hopeless sometimes. But addiction can be a gateway: an opportunity to grow into the women we are meant to be.

Hear from 18 women in our community and how addiction has been a blessing in their lives. These women know exactly what you're going through. They understand, and we do too.