In this episode, I’m taking you inside my vision for 2030 Addie—57-year-old me who’s strong, free, and living her rich, abundant AF life. We’re talking what wealth really feels like, why freedom is my ultimate currency, and how you can start building your future self now, no matter what your current circumstances look like.

You’ll walk away knowing how to:

• Get crystal-clear on what your future self actually looks and feels like
• Define your personal version of wealth and abundance (beyond just money)
• Find ways to live those abundant feelings now, so you draw them closer
• Turn big, dreamy visions into simple daily actions that create real results

This isn’t just my story—it’s a framework you can use to stop drifting and start intentionally creating the life you want to wake up to in 5 years.

💭 Ask yourself:

1. What does my future self look like in detail?
2. How does she feel when she wakes up each morning?
3. What does wealth and abundance mean to me specifically?
4. Which of those feelings can I start creating today, without waiting?
5. What’s one decision I could make this week that my future self will thank me for?

I’m also giving you the inside scoop on our upcoming MEfirst Guide live event in Phoenix, September 20, 2025—a small, powerful gathering for visioning, dreaming, and creating your next-level life. If you’ve ever wanted a day that could be the catalyst for the rest of your life… this is it.

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Becoming Her: Your Future Self Starts Now
A MEfirst Vision + Planning Experience
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Saturday, September 20, 2025
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What’s up, witches and bitches?! 🧙‍♀️✨ Today, we’re diving into the witchy woo of oracle card decks — because I get asked all the time what the hell to do with them.

I’m breaking it all down:
 🔮 How to find your first (or next!) deck
 💫 How I use cards in my MEfirst magic mornings
 📿 Why card pulls aren’t fortune-telling—they’re soul-whispering
 🧠 How decks like these help rewire your brain (and why that matters at midlife)
 🃏 Plus: I pull THREE of my favorite decks on air, just for you!

You’ll meet Dance’n Daisy, a flying Pegasus, and the sex goddess herself. You’ll also get a sneak peek at how I tie card pulls into my 90-day MEfirst Guide, visioning practice, and coaching strategy.

✨ Whether you’re woo-curious or a full-blown deck diva, this episode is here to help you tap into your inner guidance and maybe laugh along the way.

Oh—and guess what? Save the Date! The MEfirst live event is ON for Sept 20th in Phoenix, AZ. We’re gathering the witches and badasses to plan, vision, and slay Q4 with soul. Come be in the room. Your future self is waiting. 🖤 More Soon!

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Becoming Her: Your Future Self Starts Now
A MEfirst Vision + Planning Experience
Live in Phoenix/Tempe, AZ
Saturday, September 20, 2025
8:30 AM - 5 PM AZ Time
7017 S. Priest Dr., Tempe, AZ 85283 Cortland @ South Mountain Clubroom

What if the version of you you've been dreaming about… isn’t waiting in some far-off someday—but is ready for you right now?

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What if the life you're living now… is the reason your future self is screaming, “WTF are you doing?!”

In this raw, real, and fired-up episode, Slayer takes you on a walk down both sides of the fork in the road — the path where nothing changes (aka the soul-crushing same-old), and the one where you finally say yes to becoming your future self.

You'll learn:

• 🚨 3 signs you're at a major turning point (hint: your soul might be banging on the inside of your fat suit 👀)
• 🔮 Why reverse visioning is just as powerful as dreaming big
• 🧠 How to use your mind to rewire your reality (and get your head outta your ass daily)
• 🔥 Real talk about health struggles, food, burnout, and getting your spark back
• 💫 The power of emotional visioning, alter egos, and badass identity shifts
• 🧭 How to use “Preya” vs. “Reya” choices to create your aligned future self

Plus, a sneak peek into the upcoming in-person MEfirst event in Phoenix this September — packed with planning, pool hangs, and future-self magic. 🎉

If you’re tired of going through the motions, this episode is your permission slip to stop settling, start seeing, and slay forward into your next chapter.

Resources & Mentions:

• Visioning book club + inspiration
• “Preya vs. Reya” — search Slayer's pod archive for deep dives!
• RSVP for the Sept 2025 event (details coming soon in the Namaslayer Facebook group!)

✨ Leave a review. Share with a witchy bitch. And remember: Your future self starts f*cking now.
 

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Becoming Her: Your Future Self Starts Now
A MEfirst Vision + Planning Experience
Live in Phoenix/Tempe, AZ
Saturday, September 20, 2025
8:30 AM - 5 PM AZ Time
7017 S. Priest Dr., Tempe, AZ 85283 Cortland @ South Mountain Clubroom

What if the version of you you've been dreaming about… isn’t waiting in some far-off someday—but is ready for you right now?

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 Slayer’s BACK in her full summer Pitta-powered glory — and this episode is a ride through alter ego land, future-self badassery, and reclaiming your fire. Inspired by a listener (shoutout to Deb a.k.a. Solera Crankfire), this episode dives deep into how to bring your superhero self to the surface and stop waiting for motivation to show up.

She gets real about the power of alter egos (and why Slayer still works), mental toughness, and the two keys to success from Brooke Castillo’s latest fire drop. You’ll hear Slayer's take on her current health journey, rebuilding from burnout, and making the small daily choices your highest self would make — like ordering groceries from the pool. 💁‍♀️💦

Spoiler: the in-person event in PHOENIX is officially on for the weekend of September 20th! So grab your planner, define that badass version of you, and let’s get to work.

🕓 Timestamps + Tea:

00:00 – Intro + Listener Shoutout
Deb aka Solera Crankfire reignites Slayer’s love for alter egos. Yes, podcasting can feel like screaming into the void — so hell yes for those messages.

01:30 – The Power of the Alter Ego
What is an alter ego? Why should you care? How Slayer came to life and what it’s time to evolve into next. (Also: listen to Episode 9 & 159 for the OG alter ego deep dives.)

03:34 – Visioning and Future Self Vibes
Batman visioning, Slayer’s woo-tech dream studio, and the mind-magic science behind visualizing who you’re becoming.

06:48 – Embodying Your Highest Self (Even When You Feel Like Crap)
From breaststroke brainstorming to poolside grocery orders — Slayer shares how she catches sabotaging thoughts and rewires them for badass action.

14:39 – Mental Toughness + Work Ethic = Badass Fuel
Inspired by Brooke Castillo’s “Be a Badass” series, Slayer breaks down the two traits every successful badass has — and where she's doubling down.

21:29 – Define the Damn Problem
What’s actually standing between you and that future you? Slayer breaks it down: obstacles, perfectionism, commitment, and planning.

28:15 – Upcoming In-Person Event (!!!)
PHOENIX. SEPTEMBER 20. Planning, floating, dreaming, hiking, vibing with your people — it’s happening. Message Slayer for early deets.

💬 Want In?

👉 Be the first to know about the Phoenix event – email [email protected]

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Becoming Her: Your Future Self Starts Now
A MEfirst Vision + Planning Experience
Live in Phoenix/Tempe, AZ
Saturday, September 20, 2025
8:30 AM - 5 PM AZ Time
7017 S. Priest Dr., Tempe, AZ 85283 Cortland @ South Mountain Clubroom

What if the version of you you've been dreaming about… isn’t waiting in some far-off someday—but is ready for you right now?

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Whoop whoop! Slayer’s back and fired the F up after her 90-Day Planning Event — and she’s bringing ALL the behind-the-scenes magic to this episode. From coaching insights and vision breakthroughs to booking not one, but TWO live events (Honolulu + Phoenix!), she’s living proof that motivation follows action.

In this episode, she shares:

• How planning became her power habit again (even after 7 years!)
• Why your vision might feel foggy and how to fix it
• Her next big dream: in-person summer camp-style MEfirst events
• Why planning, not perfection, is the game-changer
• The power of showing your kids what’s possible through your own growth

Whether you’ve fallen off your habits or you're just getting started, this one will light you up and get your future self back in the driver’s seat.

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Becoming Her: Your Future Self Starts Now
A MEfirst Vision + Planning Experience
Live in Phoenix/Tempe, AZ
Saturday, September 20, 2025
8:30 AM - 5 PM AZ Time
7017 S. Priest Dr., Tempe, AZ 85283 Cortland @ South Mountain Clubroom

What if the version of you you've been dreaming about… isn’t waiting in some far-off someday—but is ready for you right now?

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Mold face (I'm like a superhero), hormone mayhem, and the magic of visioning your way to a better you. From poolside pep talks and pizza guilt to future-self dreaming and midlife health chaos, it’s all here. Plus, she shares how the 90-Day MEfirst Planning Event is helping her (and you!) get your badass life on track.

✨ Highlights:

• Upcoming 90-Day Planning Event (and why you need to be there)
• Coaching school, practice sessions & the power of being coached
• Mold detox, meds, hormones, and healing the body holistically
• Creative visualization & visioning practices
• Ordering food without guilt & embracing convenience without shame

🕓 Timestamps:
00:00 – Showing up anyway: life, chaos, and consistency
02:40 – Why the 90-Day Planning Event is a must
05:30 – Coaching class, getting coached, and crafting a new future
10:18 – Allergies, yoga space drama, and spiritual clutter
13:45 – Visualization deep dive: Dr. Joe, Francesca Amber, and more
19:00 – Skin healing, future-self practices & daily rituals
24:10 – Food guilt, pizza ease, and Uber Eats confessions
28:00 – Detoxing mold & Addie’s new supplement protocol
34:15 – Hormone updates & navigating midlife health mysteries
38:00 – Making work fun again with book clubs & intentional leadership
41:40 – The power of non-negotiables and showing up
47:00 – Self-talk, healing, and staying hopeful in the mess
50:35 – More testing, more learning, more becoming

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Becoming Her: Your Future Self Starts Now
A MEfirst Vision + Planning Experience
Live in Phoenix/Tempe, AZ
Saturday, September 20, 2025
8:30 AM - 5 PM AZ Time
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What if the version of you you've been dreaming about… isn’t waiting in some far-off someday—but is ready for you right now?

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SHOW NOTES:

Yep. I did the damn thing. I signed up for a legit coaching program. After years of coaching without the piece of paper, I’m going for my ACC accreditation through Lumia, and I am LIT UP about it. Why? Because I wanna keep leveling the hell up. Because growth feels so good. Because we are never done becoming.

In this episode, I spill the tea (okay, more like the green juice and maybe some salted chocolate caramel) on:

• 🎓 Why I finally decided to go all-in on coaching and invest in my craft
• 🧠 The wild signs that job-hunting wasn’t it—and how the universe kept pushing me back to MEfirst
• 🧬 My mold toxicity test results (spoiler: it’s a shitshow), my gut health, and why you should care about toxic load after menopause
• 🏊‍♀️ My pool workouts, glucose monitors, new goggles, and how I'm bribing myself into movement
• 🍕 The weird-ass wheat challenge I’m doing for Celiac testing—yes, I’m eating gluten on purpose
• 💫 My chakras, future vision, and how I’m plotting my runway to high-priestess-level badassery
• 📆 Why June 28th is your date with your future self (a.k.a. planning party time!)

I talk healing, habits, coaching, body love, food weirdness, and what it really means to intentionally create your life instead of just surviving it. Midlife isn’t a dead-end—it’s a damn launch pad.

Come hang with me, grab your planner, and let’s make some magic.

✨ Slayer out.

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Becoming Her: Your Future Self Starts Now
A MEfirst Vision + Planning Experience
Live in Phoenix/Tempe, AZ
Saturday, September 20, 2025
8:30 AM - 5 PM AZ Time
7017 S. Priest Dr., Tempe, AZ 85283 Cortland @ South Mountain Clubroom

What if the version of you you've been dreaming about… isn’t waiting in some far-off someday—but is ready for you right now?

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In this episode, I’m sharing about visualization as I'm climbing back out of my slumber on my path to unlocking my greatness. We’re talking about the science-backed magic behind becoming your future self—and the 4 core principles that can literally rewire your brain to start living that life now.

✨ Here’s what we dive into:

• How neuroplasticity helps your brain become the version of you that already hit the goal
• Why mirror neurons let you rehearse greatness before you ever hit the stage
• How emotional encoding locks in your vision with fierce energy (yes, feelings matter!)
• And how cognitive priming gets your subconscious working overtime to make it all real

I also open up about what’s shifting in my life—from considering a coaching certification to leveling up my biz and facing some real health stuff with courage and clarity. If you’ve ever felt stuck or scared to act, this episode is your cosmic kick in the ass.

🔥 You don’t need to wait to become her—you start by seeing her. Feeling her. BEING her.

Hit play, grab your MEfirst planner, and let’s light it up.

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Becoming Her: Your Future Self Starts Now
A MEfirst Vision + Planning Experience
Live in Phoenix/Tempe, AZ
Saturday, September 20, 2025
8:30 AM - 5 PM AZ Time
7017 S. Priest Dr., Tempe, AZ 85283 Cortland @ South Mountain Clubroom

What if the version of you you've been dreaming about… isn’t waiting in some far-off someday—but is ready for you right now?

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Well shit- I'm still getting back up you guys! Latest update. Hopefully hormones soon and I'll be shooting rainbows again...meanwhile, this is where I'm at. And I'm missing you guys! xoxo Addie B

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Becoming Her: Your Future Self Starts Now
A MEfirst Vision + Planning Experience
Live in Phoenix/Tempe, AZ
Saturday, September 20, 2025
8:30 AM - 5 PM AZ Time
7017 S. Priest Dr., Tempe, AZ 85283 Cortland @ South Mountain Clubroom

What if the version of you you've been dreaming about… isn’t waiting in some far-off someday—but is ready for you right now?

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In this episode, Slayer lays it all out—how we make life way harder than it needs to be and how to flip that sh*t around. Feeling stuck? Playing the victim? Resisting the flow? Yeah, been there (here and now, heh). But guess what? Shifting your vibration is actually so fing easy (once you stop fighting it).

Slayer breaks down how she’s ditching the struggle and stepping into ease, using tools like meditation, yoga, easy meal prep and intentional visioning. She’s pulling inspo from Francesca Amber’s Law of Attraction magic and some high-vibe jams from Abel Heart to keep the energy high.

Expect real talk, daily practices to help you shift into effortless manifestation, and an invite to an upcoming planning event where you’ll craft your ultimate badass future. Get ready to let go of the struggle and step into flow, because—spoiler alert—it’s all so f*ing easy.

🔹 TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 – Welcome, you gorgeous badass!
00:09 – Why we overcomplicate everything (and how to stop)
00:37 – Dreaming bigger: Kool Future Dreamers group
02:21 – From resistance to peace (yes, it’s possible!)
06:13 – Planning + visioning = manifestation magic
07:08 – Law of Attraction: how to actually make it work
09:59 – Creating a high-vibe environment (because energy matters)
12:20 – Food prep hacks so future-you isn’t hangry
17:20 – Daily visualization + manifestation tips
20:21 – Wrapping up & exclusive event invite

🔥 Ready to make life so fing easy*? Hit play and let’s do this!

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MEfirst Guide Vision & Planning Experience Fall 2025

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Becoming Her: Your Future Self Starts Now
A MEfirst Vision + Planning Experience
Live in Phoenix/Tempe, AZ
Saturday, September 20, 2025
8:30 AM - 5 PM AZ Time
7017 S. Priest Dr., Tempe, AZ 85283 Cortland @ South Mountain Clubroom

What if the version of you you've been dreaming about… isn’t waiting in some far-off someday—but is ready for you right now?

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