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we are interviewing Colin Bye, the founder of Manscending. We delve into the problem that many young men face today: forming meaningful connections in a world where they often feel misunderstood and isolated. Referencing Equimundo's State of American Men 2023 report, we discuss the alarming statistic that two thirds of US men aged 18 to 23 feel that "no one really knows me well."
Keywords:
1. Manscending
2. Mindfulness
3. Male wellbeing
4. Meaningful connections
5. Community
6. Male loneliness
7. Honesty
8. Non-judgment
9. Compassionate men
10. Brotherhood
11. Positive social change
12. Personal growth
13. Equimundo's State of American Men 2023 report
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2. #Manscending
3. #Mindfulness
4. #MaleWellbeing
5. #MeaningfulConnections
6. #Community
7. #CompassionateMen
8. #Brotherhood
9. #SocialChange
10. #PersonalGrowth
11. #EndMaleLoneliness
12. #MentalHealth
13. #MensMentalHealth
14. #PositiveMasculinity
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Discover our guided meditation for pain management. This powerful, soothing session uses the power of visualization and breathwork to help manage pain. Explore a peaceful journey of healing, compassion, and self-understanding, transforming your relationship with pain. Dive into the healing power of a warm inner light that softens pain and promotes overall well-being. Available anytime, anywhere, this meditation supports your holistic healing journey and empowers you to cultivate a sanctuary of tranquility within yourself.
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Today, we're honored to host a truly esteemed guest, Dr. Frank Anderson. A renowned psychiatrist, psychotherapist, and authority in trauma treatment, Dr. Anderson is a guiding light in his field. His rich experience spans multiple institutions - from serving as a clinical instructor in psychiatry at Harvard Medical School to being a Lead Trainer at the IFS Institute alongside Richard Schwartz. He also holds a long affiliation with Bessel van der Kolk’s Trauma Center, where he conducts training.
(00:06:09) Grounding with five breaths
(00:09:20) Multiplicity of personality aspects
(00:11:44) Suicide's Positive Intention
(00:15:50) Embracing parts and offering solutions
(00:20:32) Trauma and substance use
(00:24:23) Trauma blocks love and connection
(00:29:53) Trauma and Fear Processing
(00:35:29) Middle child seeking validation
(00:38:31) Low self-esteem and military service
(00:44:28) Trauma passed down through genes
(00:46:27) Transgenerational trauma
(00:50:43) Seeking IFS therapy
(00:56:51) Psychedelics and trauma healing
(00:57:15) Psychedelics and trauma treatment
(01:02:23) Transgenerational trauma
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Find Dr. Anderson: www.FrankAndersonMD.com.
IFS Institute: https://ifsinstitute.com
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our special guest is Charles Freligh, a clinical psychologist with extensive experience in therapy, teaching, and spiritual practice. Charles shares his insights on learning to respond without reactivity, emphasizing the healing impact of honest and humble presence.
(00:08:26) Importance of mindfulness and non-reactivity.
(00:16:18) Trusting intuition in life's journey.
(00:18:14) Understanding the power of words.
(00:24:08) Let go of judgment and reactivity.
(00:27:51) Embrace failure, trust the process.
(00:33:02) Slow down and choose consciously.
(00:41:46) Importance of doing nothing.
(00:43:32) Develop pause button for clarity.
(00:48:06) Mindfulness quiets the default mode network.
(00:53:00) Presence over intellect for fulfillment.
(00:58:15) Reading is a meditative practice.
(01:02:46) Reading novels for meditative experience.
(01:12:23) Letting go of control is liberating.
(01:17:33) Permission to exist without doing.
(01:19:24) Embrace the present moment fully.
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"Men and Therapy" w/ Shauna Springer, Ph.D., Leading Expert Therapy Men Talking Mindfulness!!
Let's change the stigma surrounding mental health for EVERYONE including men!
As we discussed in our "Asking for Help Episode" - men are less likely to ask for help - well, men are less likely to seek help with their mental health! According to the American Psychological Association, “dozens of studies and surveys over the past several decades have shown that men of all ages and ethnicities are less likely than women to seek help for all sorts of problems–including depression, substance abuse and stressful life events–even though they encounter those problems at the same or greater rates as women.”
Join Jon and Will for a special "off schedule" episode of Men Talking Mindfulness as they discuss this topic with special guest, Dr. Shauna Springer ("Doc")!
Check out Doc's book on her website: drshaunaspringer.com
Check out the Master Guide to Mental Wellness on redefiningyourmission.com
(0:00) Preview
(1:00) MTM Intro
(2:00) Welcome to the show!
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(4:00) Introducing Doc Springer
(5:00) Will leads Opening Grounding Practice
(9:00) Who is Doc Springer? (She’ll kick your ass)
(12:30) What are the obstacles of getting people into therapy?
(16:30) Developing trust is key, but requires different approach
(22:30) What is the role of therapy in growth?
(24:00) Why going to therapy might destroy a warrior’s career.
(32:00) Venting to your buddies is not therapy
(33:45) Doc Springer calls Will out
(35:00) Therapy is work and a therapist is there to help you get shit done.
(36:30) Doc is playing Legend of Zelda ‘86
(38:00) If you’re going to play a video game, you need a gamer by your side.
(41:30) Confined masculinity is just avoidance.
(46:00) How do you display compassion without bruising egos?
(49:15) How do you find the right therapist?
(54:00) CW: Suicide
(55:00) Taking away someone’s weapon is a delicate but crucial matter
(59:00) Warriors are constantly in Fight-or-Flight
(1:04:00) There are a LOT of therapies, but it’s all about the doctor
(1:09:30) Get started with redefineyourmission.com
(1:12:00) Jon leads Closing Grounding Practice
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Welcome to "Men Talking Mindfulness", where we strive to demystify and make mindfulness relatable. My name is Jon Macaskill, broadcasting from Colorado Springs, and my wonderful co-host, Will Schneider, is joining me from New York City.
Our topic today is "Self-Sabotage", a term aptly described by author Alyce Cornyn-Selby as the instance where we express a desire for something, yet inadvertently ensure it does not come to fruition. To help us delve into what self-sabotage is, why it's so pervasive and destructive, and how to mitigate it in our lives, we're excited to welcome back Dr. Robb Kelly, a guest from our previous episodes.
Dr. Robb Kelly, a celebrated addiction expert and CEO of Robb Kelly Recovery, boasts a dual PhD, one in Philosophy from Oxford University and the other in Behavioral Science from the University of Southampton. Having graced several TV Talk shows, Dr. Kelly makes his second appearance on our platform today. We are thrilled to have him back, given his reputation as an excellent educator on understanding self-sabotage, its roots, and strategies to overcome it.
For those keen on exploring more of Dr. Kelly's insights and learning more about his background, we invite you to check out our initial podcast interview with him on "Understanding Addiction". The link to this episode will be provided in the comments. (Pod link: https://pod.fo/e/f0dc4)
Estimated Time Stamps:
(01:00) Self-Sabotage with Dr. Robb Kelly
(03:30) Introducing Dr. Robb Kelly
(05:00) Jon leads Opening Ground Practice (~3 min)
(08:00) Dr. Kelly’s experience with self-sabotage
(11:30) The power of your internal dialogue
(17:00) Fear of Failure or Fear of Success?
(18:00) How early trauma shapes your inner guide
(22:30) Will's journey towards living his dream
(25:30) The significance of a routine and a checklist
(28:00) Content Warning!!! - Story of kidnapping and sexual assault
(29:30) The missing buttons
(32:00) Content Warning!!! - Child abuse
(33:30) The belief that everything happens for a reason
(35:00) Everyday self-sabotage and pattern creation
(40:00) The mind and the brain as distinct entities
(48:00) Influence circles
(55:00) Will leads Closing Grounding Practice (~1 min)
About our hosts:
Will Schneider is eager to guide you towards self-mastery. He enjoys teaching and has been doing so for the past 19 years, working with both experienced practitioners and beginners. His ability to simplify esoteric language has enabled his students to meaningfully incorporate these practices into their lives, earning him recognition as one of New York City's most sought-after teachers (ClassPass 2017). Contact him via email at [email protected], or visit his website, willnotfear.com.
Jon Macaskill, a former Navy SEAL Commander, has transitioned into a mindfulness and meditation teacher. He is a Naval Academy graduate with a Masters in Operations Research from the Naval Postgraduate School. After serving in Iraq, Afghanistan, Somalia, and Panama, Jon ended his 24-year military career in June 2020 and has since committed to sharing meditation and mindfulness practices to help others lead happier and more fulfilling lives. Reach out to him at [email protected] or visit his website, macaskillconsulting.com.
Opening and closing Music: "Malecon" by Soyb & Amine Maxwell,
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