Men Talking Mindfulness

AI meditations are everywhere right now—apps, chatbots, VR headsets promising calm in 10 minutes or less—but are AI meditations actually helping guys handle real stress, or just giving you one more screen to hide behind?

In this episode, we get real about AI meditations, digital mindfulness, and whether any algorithm can truly replace a human teacher who sees you, feels the room, and knows when you’re about to lose it.

We sit down with guest expert Steve Haberlin, PhD, to explore the intersection of technology, meditation, and human awareness. Steve has spent years studying both traditional mindfulness practices and emerging tech—AI, virtual reality, and digital training tools—and asking hard questions about where mindfulness is headed.

Together, they unpack what technology can genuinely support in mindfulness practice—and what it can’t. They discuss the difference between guided experiences and embodied learning, why attention and nervous system regulation still require human relationship, and how men can engage technology without outsourcing responsibility for awareness.
This episode isn’t anti-tech. It’s pro-discernment.

In this conversation, you’ll hear:
• The rise of AI-guided meditation and VR mindfulness tools
• What technology can accelerate—and what it cannot replace
• Why embodiment and nervous system regulation matter more than insights
• The risk of mistaking consumption for practice
• How real teachers differ from algorithms
• Where mindfulness is likely headed in the next decade
• How men can use tech without avoiding responsibility or presence

If you’re curious about meditation apps, AI tools, or the future of mindfulness—but want grounded perspective instead of hype—this episode offers clarity.

You’ll walk away with:
✅ A realistic understanding of AI’s role in mindfulness
✅ Language to evaluate meditation tools critically
✅ A clearer sense of what real practice requires
✅ Perspective on presence in an increasingly digital world

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Links & Resources
Join the Men Talking Mindfulness team at the 2026 Spartan Race and take mindfulness into real-world challenge. This is about grit, presence, and brotherhood under pressure. Learn more and join the team here: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/spartan-race-2026

More episodes & resources: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com
Mental fitness & coaching with Will: https://willnotfear.com
Book Jon to speak with your team: https://jonmacaskill.com

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En este episodio en solitario de Men Talking Mindfulness, US Navy SEAL, Jon Macaskill deja atrás la conversación y entra en la honestidad silenciosa de estar solo, hablando directamente a hombres que saben cargar con la responsabilidad… pero que la cargan solos.

Este episodio explora la mentira de la autosuficiencia: cómo ser capaz, disciplinado y confiable puede parecer fortaleza por fuera, pero poco a poco drenar la conexión, la presencia y la salud emocional por dentro.

Jon comparte reflexiones personales de su propia vida —el matrimonio, el liderazgo, el servicio militar y la paternidad— y nombra patrones que muchos hombres nunca cuestionan: mantenerse ocupados en lugar de ser honestos, gestionar en lugar de conectar, y confundir la resistencia con la verdadera fortaleza.

Escucharás por qué la autosuficiencia funciona… hasta que deja de hacerlo.
Por qué la soledad no siempre se ve como aislamiento.
Y por qué muchos hombres no se quiebran… simplemente se aplanan.

En este episodio, Jon explora:
• Por qué la autosuficiencia es elogiada, recompensada y rara vez cuestionada
• Cómo los hombres altamente funcionales pierden poco a poco el acceso emocional sin darse cuenta
• La diferencia entre ser autosuficiente y estar emocionalmente cerrado
• Cómo el control, la ocupación constante y el “estoy bien” se convierten en estrategias de supervivencia
• Por qué pedir ayuda no es debilidad, sino conciencia de capacidad
• Pequeños cambios realistas que no requieren convertirse en alguien que no eres

Este episodio no trata de arreglar a los hombres ni de desmontar la masculinidad.
Se trata de decir la verdad… y de ofrecer una manera de dejar de cargar con todo en soledad.

Si eres un hombre que sigue funcionando, sigue proveyendo, sigue cumpliendo… pero se siente distante, irritable o silenciosamente agotado, este episodio es para ti.

Te llevarás:

• Lenguaje para entender qué es lo que realmente estás cargando

• Permiso para dejar de confundir resistencia con salud

• Herramientas simples de conciencia que interrumpen el patrón a tiempo

• Un recordatorio de que la conexión no requiere colapsar

Enlaces y recursos
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Most men don’t grieve by sitting in circles and talking about feelings. They grieve by working harder, staying busy, isolating, or pushing pain down until it shows up as anger, anxiety, exhaustion, or illness.

In this powerful episode of Men Talking Mindfulness, Will Schneider and Jon Macaskill sit down with Michelle Ann Collins—grief coach, mindfulness teacher, and survivor of profound loss—to explore how men actually process grief and why “try harder” is not a plan.

Michelle shares her personal journey through her husband’s suicide, PTSD, dissociation, and recovery through somatic, body-based mindfulness. Together, they unpack why men are conditioned to suppress grief, how shame and regret keep men stuck, and why embodied practices—not forced emotional expression—are often the safest entry point into healing.

This conversation offers real tools men can use in their truck, at work, or at home—without needing to relive the trauma or perform vulnerability.

In this episode, you’ll hear:
• Why men and women feel grief similarly but process it differently
• How action-style grief shows up as overworking, isolation, or emotional shutdown
• Why suppressing grief often leads to anxiety, panic, illness, or burnout
• How embodied mindfulness helps men stay present without dissociation
• What post-traumatic growth actually looks like in real life
• A simple grounding practice men can use anywhere
• How to move from the grief cave toward meaning without rushing the process

If you’re a man carrying loss silently—or supporting someone who is—this episode offers a grounded, compassionate path forward.

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Links & Resources
Join the Men Talking Mindfulness team at the 2026 Spartan Race and take mindfulness into real-world challenge. This is about grit, presence, and brotherhood under pressure. Learn more and join the team here: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/spartan-race-2026

More episodes & resources: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com
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Learn more about Michelle’s work: https://inhabitjoy.com

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In this solo episode of Men Talking Mindfulness, Jon Macaskill steps out from behind conversation and into the quiet honesty of being alone—speaking directly to men who carry responsibility well, but carry it alone.

This episode explores the lie of self-sufficiency: how being capable, disciplined, and dependable can look like strength on the outside, yet slowly drain connection, presence, and emotional health on the inside.

Jon shares personal reflections from his own life—marriage, leadership, military service, and fatherhood—and names the patterns many men never question: staying busy instead of honest, managing instead of connecting, and confusing endurance with strength.

You’ll hear why self-sufficiency works… until it doesn’t.
Why loneliness doesn’t always look like isolation.
And why many men don’t break down—they simply flatten out.

In this episode, Jon explores:
• Why self-sufficiency is praised, rewarded, and rarely questioned
• How high-functioning men slowly lose emotional access without realizing it
• The difference between being self-sufficient and being self-contained
• How control, busyness, and “being fine” become survival strategies
• Why asking for help isn’t weakness—it’s capacity awareness
• Small, realistic shifts that don’t require becoming someone you’re not

This episode isn’t about fixing men or dismantling masculinity.
It’s about telling the truth—and offering a way to stop carrying everything alone.

If you’re a man who’s still functioning, still providing, still showing up—but feels distant, irritable, or quietly exhausted—this episode is for you.

You’ll walk away with:
-Language to understand what you’re actually carrying
-Permission to stop confusing endurance with health
-Simple awareness tools that interrupt the pattern early
-A reminder that connection doesn’t require collapse

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Links & Resources
Join the Men Talking Mindfulness team at the 2026 Spartan Race and take mindfulness into real-world challenge. This is about grit, presence, and brotherhood under pressure. Learn more and join the team here: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/spartan-race-2026
-More episodes & resources: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com
-Mental fitness & coaching with Will: https://willnotfear.com
-Book Jon to speak with your organization: https://jonmacaskill.com

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What if staying in a relationship without fully choosing your partner causes more harm than leaving?
In this episode of Men Talking Mindfulness, Will Schneider and Jon Macaskill sit down with Bryan Withrow Reeves—former Air Force captain, men’s coach, and author of Choose Her Every Day or Leave Her—to unpack one of the most uncomfortable truths men face in modern relationships.
Bryan speaks candidly about emotional absence, masculine shutdown, and the quiet ways men betray intimacy—not through infidelity or abandonment, but through disengagement. He shares his own story of staying in a relationship while no longer choosing it, and the damage that caused both partners.
Together, they explore how mindfulness, nervous system awareness, and men’s work help men develop the capacity to stay present during conflict, repair after rupture, and lead relationships with honesty rather than avoidance.

In this episode, you’ll hear:
• Why staying without choosing is more damaging than leaving
• How shame and fear drive men to emotionally withdraw
• Why presence is not the same as proximity
• How mindfulness creates the pause required for repair
• When leaving is actually the most loving choice
• Why men need other men to do this work well
• How to begin choosing your partner—or choosing truth—today

If you’re a man in a relationship, coming out of one, or trying to understand why intimacy feels harder than it should, this conversation offers clarity without judgment—and responsibility without shame.
You’ll walk away with:
✅ Language for emotional presence and honest leadership
✅ A framework for conscious commitment
✅ Tools to interrupt shutdown and avoidance
✅ Encouragement to do relationship work with courage and integrity

Sponsor:
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Links & Resources
More episodes & resources: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com
Mental fitness & coaching with Will: https://willnotfear.com
Book Jon to speak with your organization: https://jonmacaskill.com
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Want fewer injuries, better readiness to train, and athletes who can actually handle pressure?
In this episode of Men Talking Mindfulness, Will Schneider and Jon Macaskill sit down with Chad McGehee, Director of Meditation Training at University of Wisconsin Athletics and co-founder of Inner Edge Meditation. Chad works directly with elite athletes and coaches to train attention, reduce injury risk, and improve performance—without adding more volume, stress, or drills.
Together, they break down how mindfulness functions as strength and conditioning for the mind, why attention is involved in every rep and decision, and how short, consistent meditation practices are linked to better readiness, recovery, and resilience in high-pressure environments.

You’ll hear how Chad went from meditation skeptic to leading mindfulness inside a major Division I athletic department, how teams like Wisconsin Volleyball integrated daily practices, and why mental training supports both performance and mental health for athletes and coaches alike.

In this episode, you’ll hear:
• How training attention supports injury prevention and recovery
• Why mindfulness improves mood, energy, and readiness to train
• How meditation helps athletes bounce back faster after mistakes
• How coaches can introduce mindfulness without losing buy-in
• Why the teacher’s personal practice matters as much as the technique
• Simple practices teams can use this week

If you’re a coach, athlete, parent, or leader who wants sustainable performance without burnout, this conversation is a practical blueprint.

You’ll walk away with:
✅ A clear understanding of how mindfulness impacts performance and injury risk
✅ Simple meditation tools for warm-ups, cooldowns, and meetings
✅ Language to help skeptical athletes and coaches engage
✅ Encouragement to treat mental training like physical training

Sponsor:
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Medical Edition Vol. 1: December 22, 2025
Consumer Edition Vol. 1: January 20, 2026
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Offer Windows
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Consumer Edition: Jan 20 – Feb 20, 2026
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Links & Resources
More episodes & resources: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com
Mental fitness & coaching with Will: https://willnotfear.com
Book Jon to speak with your team: https://jonmacaskill.com

If this episode helps you, follow the show, leave a rating and review, and share it with one coach, athlete, or parent who needs it.

This episode was co-produced by Robert Lopez of https://www.cratesaudio.com/

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What if the most game-changing shift in your life is a three-letter word you’ve been afraid to use?

In this episode of Men Talking Mindfulness, hosts Will Schneider and Jon Macaskill sit down with Jim Alling—former President of Starbucks, COO of T-Mobile USA, and CEO of TOMS—to explore how the simple word yes, paired with gritty gratitude and servant leadership, can transform the way men lead, live, and relate.

Jim shares how saying yes to the right things—family, values, service, and curiosity—helped him navigate massive responsibility: tens of thousands of employees, billions in revenue, and the pressure of leading globally recognized brands. He also gets honest about the real cost of hustle culture, what burnout feels like at the top, and why the most effective leaders are often the most human.

In this conversation, you’ll hear:
• How one mentor at Starbucks taught Jim the “power of yes”
• Why he chose family and his child’s health over a secure corporate path
• What gritty gratitude looks like when life is hard—not polished
• The difference between performative leadership and servant leadership
• Why men who “have it all together” often feel empty inside
• How to say yes without becoming a doormat (values, boundaries, clarity)
• How humility, humor, and service kept Jim grounded across Nestlé, Starbucks, T-Mobile, and TOMS

If you’re a man caught between success and burnout—or you lead people and want to make a real difference without losing your soul—this episode is for you.

You’ll walk away with:
✅ A new understanding of yes as a doorway to purpose
✅ A servant-leadership blueprint that still delivers results
✅ Tools to integrate gratitude into pressure and responsibility
✅ Encouragement to lead as your whole self—not just your title

Sponsor

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• Medical Edition Vol. 1: December 22, 2025
• Consumer Edition Vol. 1: January 20, 2026

Discount Code: PFH25

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• Medical Edition: Dec 20, 2025 – Jan 31, 2026
• Consumer Edition: Jan 20 – Feb 20, 2026

Proceeds support the development of the Children of Veterans Program.
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Links & Resources
🔗 More episodes & resources: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com
💼 Mental fitness & coaching with Will: https://willnotfear.com
🎤 Book Jon to speak with your team: https://jonmacaskill.com

If this episode resonates, please follow the show, leave a rating and review, and share it with one man who needs to hear it.

This episode was co-produced by Robert Lopez of https://www.cratesaudio.com/

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If you’ve been dealing with constant dizziness and brain fog and you can’t figure out why you feel off, spacey, or not fully in your body, this episode is for you.

Dizziness and brain fog are not just random symptoms or signs of aging – they’re often your brain’s way of screaming that your balance system is overloaded and undertrained.

Constant dizziness and brain fog can also quietly wreck your focus, drain your energy, spike your anxiety, and sabotage how you show up at work, in the gym, and in your relationships.

In this episode, you’ll learn why what feels like a “mind problem” is often actually a balance problem – and how to start changing it from the ground up.

Human Performance Specialist Caydrick Bloomquist breaks down the hidden role of your brain’s balance network in mood, focus, stress, and sleep, and why most guys never get taught how to train it on purpose.

Caydrick’s work in Neuro-Functional Training and Mental Fitness shows that when you start working directly with your balance and awareness systems, you can shift how you feel faster and more powerfully than just trying to “think positive” or meditate harder. Instead of floating through your day half-present and half-dissociated, you learn how to get back in your body, stabilize your system, and actually feel like yourself again.

You’ll hear how balance drills and vestibular-focused work – including spinning, head movements, and targeted visual-vestibular exercises – can literally help rewire your brain. These inputs tell your nervous system, “You’re safe and in control,” which can calm anxiety, clear brain fog, and reduce that ongoing dizzy, floaty feeling in a way that sitting still often can’t touch.

If meditation has felt too slow or frustrating for you, this conversation gives you a more active, body-based way to train awareness, presence, and emotional regulation.

We also explore why your balance system is really your awareness system – constantly feeding your brain information about where you are in space. When that system is off, your brain feels unsafe and ramps up symptoms like dizziness, weird vision, brain fog, irritability, and emotional overreactions. When you tune this system up, you don’t just stand steadier; you think clearer, react calmer, and sleep deeper because your brain finally trusts your body again.

If you’re a man who’s tired of living with constant dizziness and brain fog, feeling like your brain is always half a second behind, this episode gives you a new map for what’s actually going on – and a path forward. You’ll walk away with a new understanding of why you feel the way you feel, plus practical ideas and a fresh respect for the “hidden hardware” driving your mood, focus, and performance.

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This episode is a deep dive into why having fun is not optional for men’s mental health—it is the silver bullet that so many guys are missing. From the outside, men are told to grind harder, stay stoic, and carry everything alone, but inside, loneliness, stress, and emotional exhaustion are quietly stacking up. 

Having fun becomes a radical act of rebellion against isolation, shame, and emotional numbness. John and Will unpack how having fun and playful presence can pull men out of their heads and back into their hearts, bodies, families, and communities, opening the door to real connection, creativity, and relief.

Loneliness in men is now recognized as a genuine health risk, not just a feeling to tough out, and it is strongly linked to anxiety, burnout, depression, and even physical illness. 

In this conversation, John and Will explore how lightening up and making space for joy can interrupt that spiral. When men stop treating life as a never-ending performance review and start allowing play, silliness, and hobbies that feel good, their nervous systems calm down, stress chemistry shifts, and it becomes easier to open up, reach out, and let people in.

You’ll hear how simple practices—like reclaiming old passions, trying new playful activities, or bringing a sense of humor into daily routines—can build resilience and emotional flexibility. 

Research shows that enjoyable leisure and playful mindsets boost mood, sharpen focus, improve problem-solving, and enhance relationships, all of which are crucial for men who feel stuck, burnt out, or alone. This episode connects those insights directly to real life: how having fun with friends, partners, kids, or even solo can be the bridge from isolation to intimacy, from rigid seriousness to grounded presence.

The tone is honest, unpolished, and real—no fake positivity, no macho posturing. 

If you’re a man feeling the weight of loneliness, or you love a man who seems checked out, this conversation offers both language and tools to shift the story. You’ll walk away with a new understanding of why having fun is not childish or trivial—it is a serious strategy for protecting men’s mental health, rebuilding friendships, and rediscovering what it feels like to be fully alive.

Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. 

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Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction

02:54 - Playfulness as a Tool for Connection

05:45 - The Consequences of Losing Playfulness

08:57 - Creativity and Brain Development

11:51 - Playfulness in Adulthood

14:51 - The Role of Fun in Mental Health

17:41 - Breaking Free from Societal Expectations

20:36 - Finding Joy in Everyday Life

23:41 - The Courage to Be Playful

26:53 - The Connection Between Play and Success

29:47 - Embracing Vulnerability and Fun

32:44 - The Adventure of Playfulness

35:28 - The Playful Spirit of Jesus

38:32 - Final Thoughts on Playfulness

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Produced by Robert Lopez | https://www.cratesaudio.com/

If you’ve ever laid in bed wired, exhausted, and dreading tomorrow’s alarm, this episode is your playbook on how to improve sleep quality as a man who actually has things to do.

In this no‑BS conversation, we dig into how to improve sleep quality so you can boost recovery, calm your mind, and stop feeling like you’re running on fumes. You’ll hear how to improve sleep quality using simple, repeatable habits instead of gimmicks, and why better sleep might be the most powerful “performance enhancer” you’re not truly using yet.

Sleep is way more than closing your eyes; it’s your nightly reset for testosterone, mood, focus, and emotional resilience, and guys who short-change sleep pay for it with anxiety, irritability, weaker gains, and a higher risk of burnout and health issues.

That’s why this episode with Sleep Genius founder and former Navy SEAL Robert Sweetman goes deep on practical sleep hygiene, stress management, and recovery tactics designed for high-performing men who still want to show up strong for their families, teams, and missions.

You’ll learn how to lock in a consistent sleep schedule without feeling like a monk, how to set up a “sleep cave” that’s dark, cool, and distraction‑free, and how to use light, timing, and movement during the day so your brain actually wants to shut down at night.

Rob unpacks battle-tested tools from elite environments—like deliberate wind‑down routines, mental off‑loading, breathing, and mindfulness—to help calm your mind before bed so you’re not replaying your to-do list at 2 a.m.

You’ll also hear how better sleep accelerates muscle recovery, reduces injury risk, and improves decision‑making and reaction time, giving you an edge in training, career, and life. We link the science to real‑world habits you can use tonight—no magic supplements required. By the end of this episode, you’ll have a clear, simple plan for how to improve sleep quality, boost recovery, and calm your mind so you can wake up more energized, more grounded, and more dangerous—in all the right ways.

Buy Robert’s book here - https://www.amazon.com/62Romeo-SLEEP101-Weeks-Sleep-Restoration/dp/B0F8MLZQM2

Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. 

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Chapters:
00:00 - Introductions
02:50 - Rob Sweetman on Improving Sleep
12:19 - Sleep Hygiene and Mental Health
26:31 - How Light and Sound Affect Sleep
29:06 - Light, Sound, and Sleep Quality
32:29 - Brown Noise for Better Rest
33:50 - Noise, Temperature, and Sleep
37:50 - Building Consistent Sleep Routines
40:00 - New Sleep Solutions for the Military
41:58 - Developing Military Sleep Pods
43:37 - Better Sleep Tools for Warfighters
48:45 - Coaching High Performers on Sleep
52:02 - Common Sleep Disruptors
53:26 - Healthy Sleep Habits
58:11 - Sleep Tracking: Pros and Cons
01:01:06 - Why Deep Sleep and REM Matter
01:02:36 - How Meal Timing Affects Sleep
01:05:02 - Processed Foods, Obesity, and Health
01:07:27 - Intermittent Fasting Insights
01:08:51 - Eating Habits That Support Sleep
01:11:13 - Closing Thoughts and Giveaway

Check out our Awareness-to-action Self Mastery COURSE & COMMUNITY:

12 modules on attention, presence & performance. Work at your own pace plus a community built for Inspiration and connection.

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JOIN US IN PERSON — Future Events and Retreats.

1.  Live in-person event: Warrior Defined.
We will be in Charlotte, NC, September 25, 2026 more info HERE: 

Or mentalkingmindfulness.com

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Produced by Robert Lopez | https://www.cratesaudio.com/