Dr. Rob and Tami answer a question from a listener who seems to have their boundaries constantly pushed and violated. If you feel like you have to accept something unacceptable, take a step back and remind yourself that you don't! Dr. Rob and Tami offer some perspective on this situation.

TAKEAWAYS:

[:40] What's the difference between a trauma therapist vs. a trauma coach?

[4:35] You should always get the most qualified person to help you through your issue or problem.

[6:20] My partner keeps worrying that I will relapse. What can I do to reassure her?

[10:15] Acknowledgement for your wrongs goes a long way.

[13:10] How do you know when you've reached a breaking point?

[16:45] Is my addiction due to finding my father's porn stash as a child?

[19:40] I have PTSD from living with my addict. What are my resources?

[23:30] It seems I constantly have to accept something unacceptable. How do I protect myself?

[28:00] What's the right way to disclose attraction or a slip or a messy thought to your partner?

RESOURCES:

Seekingintegrity.com

Email Tami: [email protected]

Sexandrelationshiphealing.com

Intherooms.com

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