Rob and Tami talk about when to call it quits in a marriage, even if you spent over 4 decades with your addict. Is your addict showing signs of improvement? Does he want to get better? Or does he keep lying? Rob and Tami also talk about the military’s stigma to mental health issues and how to help a member of the military that’s so obviously in pain with their addiction, depression, and thoughts of suicide. 

 

TAKEAWAYS:

[0:30] My husband is tired of recovery. What do I do? 

[5:45] My husband is in the military and if they find out about his mental health struggles, it could be career ending. How do we do an intervention?

[9:25] Sex addiction is often just the tip of the iceberg. There are underlying issues occurring. 

[12:25] My addict has no empathy and this whole recovery process has just gotten worse for me.

[18:05] My husband has relapsed. Should I stay in the home or separate for now? 

[21:00] What does it take to really maintain a relationship? 

[24:05] I didn’t get help for my addiction and now my girlfriend is gone. Did I really cheat? 

 

RESOURCES:

Seekingintegrity.com

Email Tami: [email protected]

Sexandrelationshiphealing.com

Intherooms.com

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