Dr. Rob and Tami answer your questions on this week’s episode. What do you do when your partner’s CSAT doesn’t feel like you’re ready to receive a formal disclosure? How do you handle your husband’s addiction + his cross dressing tendencies? All of this and more on this week’s episode. 

 

TAKEAWAYS:

[1:00] How likely is reconciliation with my partner? I heard it’s only 25%?

[5:20] Who are you in recovery for? You or for your partner? 

[7:00] What consistent behaviors can I do to prove to my spouse I am serious about my recovery? 

[9:55] D-day was five months ago. We are going to go on vacation. How can I make my wife feel safe? 

[14:10] My spouse’s CSAT won’t allow us to go through disclosure until I’ve addressed my addiction. I have my own CSAT as well. How do we move forward? Also, I’m getting triggered by my friends. How do I fix that? 

[18:55] 45 years of being together and I found out my husband is an addict and a cross dresser. I am struggling with all of this. What can I do? 

[25:25] When and how do fetishes form? 

[28:10] Tami explains what the FANOS acronym is. 

 

RESOURCES:

Seekingintegrity.com

Email Tami: [email protected]

Sexandrelationshiphealing.com

Intherooms.com

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