On Purpose with Jay Shetty

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  • Wim Hof: Do THIS 10-Minute Breathing Exercise And ACTUALLY Lower Your Risk of Disease And Calm Your Anxiety

    How do you usually calm down?

    Have you heard about breathing for anxiety relief?

    Today, Jay welcomes back world-renowned breathwork pioneer and “Iceman” Wim Hof to explore how the human body and mind are capable of far more than we believe. Together, they dive into the origins of the Wim Hof Method and how it harnesses the transformative power of breath, cold exposure, and commitment to unlock profound healing, emotional resilience, and spiritual clarity.

    Wim shares the emotional story of how his mother’s invocation at his birth and the tragic loss of his wife became catalysts for his life’s mission: to help others reconnect with their inner strength and soul purpose. He explains how breathwork and cold immersion can help regulate the nervous system, reduce inflammation, conquer anxiety, and even break through grief and trauma. Jay and Wim also discuss the simplicity of the method, its scientific validation, and how surrender and intention unlock states of consciousness once thought to be out of reach.

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to Reduce Inflammation Naturally with Breathing Techniques

    How to Strengthen Your Immune System in Just 30 Minutes

    How to Calm Anxiety Through Simple Daily Breathwork

    How to Access Inner Peace by Controlling Your Breath

    How to Unlock Your True Potential in Just One Week

    You are far more powerful than you realize. Whether you're battling anxiety, feeling stuck, or simply looking to reconnect with yourself, the tools you need are already within you—your breath, your body, and your willingness to try. 

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    ⁠Safety Disclaimer:

    Don't do the Wim Hof breathing in a swimming pool, before going underwater, beneath the shower, or piloting any vehicle. Always practice sitting or lying down in a safe environment. Tinnitus symptoms may appear as a result of pushing too forcefully during the breathing exercise. If this happens, take a step back in your future practice – it's important to increase gradually, not forcefully!

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    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    00:41 Dedicating a Life to Wellness

    05:04 The Benefits of the Wim Hof Method Explained 

    11:31 Unlocking the Untapped Power of Breath

    13:45 Gaining Full Control Over Your Mind and Body

    17:59 Cleansing the Body Through Proper Breathing

    22:24 The Science-Backed Truth About Anxiety

    24:11 Can Breathing Right Strengthen Immunity?

    25:54 How Discomfort Training Builds Stress Resilience

    28:22 Training the Body to Embrace Cold Plunges

    31:37 The Origin Story of the Wim Hof Method

    33:43 Finding Mental Clarity Through Cold Exposure

    40:01 Simple Steps to Take Charge of Your Life

    44:23 Exploring the Practice of Mantra Meditation

    45:22 Defining and Strengthening Willpower

    49:26 Overcoming Life’s Most Difficult Challenges

    51:20 How to Self Soothe on Emotionally Tough Days

    52:35 Revealing the Hidden Strength of the Body

    54:21 How Ice Baths Can Benefit Society

    55:49 The Role of Surrender in Facing Fear

    58:22 Healing Grief Through Cold Plunge Practices

    Episode Resources:

    Wim Hof | Website

    Wim Hof | Instagram 

    Wim Hof | X

    Wim Hof | Facebook

    Wim Hof | TikTok

    Wim Hof | YouTube

    The Wim Hof Method: Activate Your Full Human Potential

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    1 hr 10 min
  • Simon Sinek: Not Every Friendship Is Meant to Last—And That’s Okay! (THIS is How to Know If It’s Time To Walk Away From Adult Friendships That No Longer Fit)

    Are you keeping this friendship out of habit or love?

    If they weren’t in your life today, would you try to be friends again?

    In this profoundly insightful episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty sits down with Simon Sinek, renowned leadership expert, bestselling author, and host of the podcast, A Bit of Optimism. Jay and Simon share a deeply vulnerable and powerful conversation about what it truly means to be human in a world that’s more connected than ever, yet so emotionally disconnected. Together, they explore the foundational role of friendships, belonging, and purpose in building meaningful lives and relationships.

    Jay opens up about his own transformation and the early influence of Simon’s book Start with Why, while Simon reflects on the personal journey behind his body of work, emphasizing that all leadership is, at its core, about human connection. They speak candidly about how burnout often stems from loneliness, the fragile nature of adult friendships, the difficulty many have in celebrating others’ success, and the healing power of emotional honesty in relationships. With wisdom, humor, and emotional clarity, Simon breaks down how we can show up more authentically for ourselves and for those we love—even when it’s uncomfortable.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    How to Support a Friend Without Trying to Fix Them

    How to Know When It’s Time to Let a Friendship Go

    How to Create Belonging When You Feel Disconnected

    How to Celebrate a Friend’s Win Even When You’re Struggling

    How to Communicate When You Don’t Know What to Say

    How to Recognize Burnout as a Sign of Loneliness

    This episode is a powerful reminder that being imperfect is what makes us human, and that real connection isn’t built on perfection, but on the willingness to be present, authentic, and compassionate. 

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    02:26 How to Truly Connect with Others

    03:45 The Universal Truth Behind All Human Problems

    05:45 Why We All Really Just Want to Belong

    09:33 Feeling Lonely? You’re Not Alone

    12:10 Why Community is Disappearing & Why It Matters

    18:33 Do Kids Really Need a Village?

    22:17 Why We All Crave Safety 

    24:22 How to Find People Who Share Your Values

    28:19 Understanding the Journey vs. the Goal

    30:49 Knowing When to Persevere vs. Let Go

    32:46 How to Know You've Outgrown a Friendship

    35:22 Recognizing Why a Relationship Has Ended

    38:08 Why Sincerity Beats Perfection Every Time

    45:46 Learning to Trust Your Intuition 

    48:52 The Most Powerful Relationship Advice You'll Ever Hear

    55:27 How to Share Your Wins With Friends Who Are Struggling 

    01:03:10 Stop Letting Insecurities Define Your Behavior

    01:06:21 Can You Be Friends with People You Envy?

    01:09:35 How to Respond to Skeptics with Grace

    01:12:44 Your Worth Isn’t Measured by Numbers

    01:15:45 Tune Into Your Needs, Not Others' Expectations

    01:19:01 What Social Awkwardness Really Means

    01:22:59 Real Communication Is About Understanding, Not Winning

    01:29:44 Embracing Imperfection Is What Makes Us Human

    01:31:40 Simon on Final Five

    Episode Resources:

    Simon Sinek | Website

    Simon Sinek | Instagram 

    Simon Sinek | LinkedIn

    Simon Sinek | X

    Simon Sinek | Facebook

    Simon Sinek | TikTok

    Simon Sinek | YouTube

    A Bit of Optimism

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    1 hr 41 min
  • Stop Chasing Emotionally Unavailable People (Listen To This To Attract a Long Term Relationship And Stop Wasting Your Time In The Wrong Ones) With Lisa Bilyeu

    Have you ever found yourself holding onto someone who couldn’t fully open up to you?

    Have you ever stayed in a relationship longer than you should have, hoping things would finally get better?

    In today’s episode, I’m doing something a little different. My good friend Lisa Bilyeu flips the script and interviews me. Lisa is the co-founder of the billion-dollar company Quest Nutrition, founder of Women of Impact, and one of the most honest, fearless voices I know when it comes to growth, relationships, and empowerment. Together, we unpack some of the most misunderstood truths about relationships, from why we settle to how we can start making choices rooted in self-worth rather than fear.

    We talk about how to stop crowd-sourcing your most important life decisions and why learning to listen to your own voice—without all the outside opinions—is one of the most healing things you can do. I share the real reason many of us struggle with being alone, how to break the cycle of chasing emotionally unavailable partners, and why true love should feel like peace—not anxiety dressed up as passion.

    This episode is about so much more than dating. It’s about rebuilding your self-worth one choice at a time. I walk you through my 5 daily habits that help me build inner confidence, how to tell when you’re compromising in love versus losing yourself, and the honest questions you need to ask before deciding whether to stay—or walk away.

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to Stop Settling and Start Choosing From Confidence

    How to Trust Your Intuition Without Second-Guessing Yourself

    How to Break Free From the Fear of Being Alone

    How to Create Peace In Order to Attract a Healthy Relationship

    How to Know If You’re Compromising or Abandoning Yourself

    How to Build Self-Worth With 5 Simple Daily Habits

    I’m so grateful to Lisa for creating this space. I hope it brings you a deeper sense of direction, healing, and the reminder that you are always worth choosing—especially by yourself.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:21 The Three Reasons We Settle in Love

    04:24 We All Have a Different Take on Love

    06:36 The 7-Day Opinion Fast 

    13:15 Why Do We Keep Chasing the Wrong Person?

    17:29 The Technique Men Use to Flirt with Women

    23:44 The Difference Between Adapting vs. Diminishing Yourself in Relationships

    28:39 This is the Biggest Reason for Breakups & How to Avoid It

    31:50 Promoting a Healthy Relationship Through 'US' and 'WE'

    34:52 Never Say these Two Words During An Argument 

    36:41 Is it Love or Just Lust?

    38:24 Are You Comfortable or Complacent in Your Relationship?

    45:24 Don't Let Your Insecurities Affect Your Current Relationship

    48:06 The Three People You'll Fall With in Love in Your Life

    53:29 Why Trust Should Be Given Easily

    56:02 Fixing Someone Isn't Your Responsibility

    01:00:39 Three Ways to Adapt to Your Partner's Personality 

    01:06:23 You Can't Live on Someone Else’s Timeline

    01:12:29 This is the Type of Conversation You Should be Having With Your Partner

    01:16:16 5 Daily Habits to Build Self-Worth

    01:22:47 Best Nighttime Routine to Block Negative Thoughts

    01:25:25 Jay's On Tour Update

    Episode Resources:

    Lisa Bilyeu | Website

    Lisa Bilyeu | Instagram 

    Lisa Bilyeu | TikTok 

    Lisa Bilyeu | Facebook

    Lisa Bilyeu | YouTube

    Lisa Bilyeu | X

    Lisa Bilyeu | LinkedIn

    Women of Impact Podcast

    Radical Confidence: 11 Lessons on How to Get the Relationship, Career, and Life You Want

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    1 hr 33 min
  • Jay’s Must-Listens: If You’re Feeling Stuck Use These 4 Methods To ACTUALLY Manifest What You Really Want (Ft. Roxi Nafousi and Dr. Tara Swart)

    Do you believe our thoughts can shape our reality?

    Have you ever had a moment where something you visualized came true?

    In this special compilation episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty brings together a powerful lineup of voices—including Roxie Nafousi, Dr. Tara Swart, Big Sean, and Will Smith—to explore how manifestation can be truly transformative when rooted in clarity, alignment, and intentional action. Through candid conversations and personal reflections, Jay and his guests break down the mindset shifts and daily habits that turn dreams into reality.

    This episode challenges common misconceptions, revealing that manifestation isn't about wishful thinking but about cultivating a deep sense of self-worth and purpose. Listeners will discover how to harness the power of visualization, overcome limiting beliefs, and align their actions with their deepest desires. The discussions emphasize the importance of consistency, gratitude, and resilience in the journey toward personal fulfillment.

    Whether you're new to the concept or seeking to deepen your practice, this episode offers practical insights and inspiring stories to guide you on your path. It's a reminder that with the right mindset and intentional effort, you can create the life you've always envisioned.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    How to Shift from Passive Wishing to Active Creating

    How to Build Unshakable Self-Trust

    How to Visualize and Embody Your Desired Outcomes

    How to Stay Motivated and Bounce Back from Setbacks

    How to Align Daily Actions with Long-Term Vision

    Manifestation is more than a buzzword, it's a commitment to living with purpose and intention. Tune in to uncover the tools and perspectives that can help you turn your aspirations into tangible realities.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty.

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    What We Discuss: 

    00:00 Intro 

    01:10 This is Why You Attract Rejection and Negativity

    04:40 Stop Manifesting the Wrong Things

    08:19 Manifesting the Life You Want Isn't a Trend

    12:06 Start Small to Grow Big Long Term

    15:04 The Impact of Micro Changes to Make Your Life Better

    17:57 Why is the Brain Wired to Avoid Risk?

    24:45 How Acceptance Can Help You Move Forward

    28:52 Stop Chasing, Start Attracting

    30:29 Focus on the Things You Can Control

    33:08 The Price of Having the Wrong Success Mindset

    36:02 How to Live Your Life in Love and Service

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    47 min
  • Sleep Expert Matthew Walker: Do THIS to Sleep Through The Night And Never Wake Up Tired Again

    How well did you sleep last night?

    Do you wake up feeling rested?

    Today, Jay welcomes renowned neuroscientist, sleep expert, and bestselling author Dr. Matthew Walker to unpack the profound importance of sleep and how it shapes every facet of our health and wellbeing. Bestselling author of Why We Sleep, Dr. Matthew Walker brings scientific rigor and heartfelt clarity to one of the most misunderstood and underestimated aspects of our lives.

    Matthew opens the discussion by challenging the myth of the 'eight-hour rule.' While the average adult does best with seven to nine hours of sleep, the focus quickly shifts beyond just duration. Instead, Matthew introduces a more holistic four part framework—Quantity, Quality, Regularity, and Timing, or QQRT. This framework highlights how sleep is not simply about how long one sleeps, but also how deeply, how consistently, and how well it aligns with our natural biological rhythms.

    Jay and Matthew's conversation also tackles common disruptors of restorative sleep, including caffeine, alcohol, and excessive exposure to artificial light. Dr. Walker discusses how these elements can interfere with the brain’s ability to enter deep and REM sleep, the latter being especially important for emotional processing, hormonal regulation, and memory consolidation. Sleep, it turns out, influences far more than individual health. 

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to Know If You’re Getting Enough Sleep

    How to Improve Sleep Using the QQRT Formula

    How to Align Your Sleep With Your Body’s Internal Clock

    How to Avoid Waking Up Tired Every Morning

    How to Optimize Your Evening Routine for Better Sleep

    How to Fall Back Asleep After Waking Up at Night

    How to Diagnose Sleep Apnea at Home

    With scientific insight and practical wisdom, the episode paints a vivid picture of how sleep, when prioritized and protected, can serve as a catalyst for healing, clarity, and sustainable energy.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    Join Jay for his first ever, On Purpose Live Tour! Tickets are on sale now. Hope to see you there! 

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:12 The Four Metrics That Define Great Sleep

    06:03 Can You Actually Change Your Sleep Cycle?

    09:45 Why You Wake Up Tired—Even After a Full Night’s Sleep

    14:29 What Sleep Apnea Really Is and Why It’s Often Missed

    19:21 The Body-Wide Damage Caused by Sleep Loss

    23:20 The Hormone That Increases Late-Night Cravings

    28:42 Best Types of Food to Eat Before Bed

    33:48 How Late-Night Eating Disrupts Your Sleep Rhythm

    37:23 The Truth About Melatonin Supplements

    40:47 Should You Give Melatonin To Your Children?

    44:25 The Evolution of Sleeping Pills Explained

    52:36 The Best Nighttime Routine For Optimal Sleep 

    55:07 Three Practical Tricks to Fall Back Asleep

    01:04:58 What It Really Takes to Clear Caffeine From Your System

    01:08:01 Surprising Health Benefits of Drinking Coffee

    01:10:02 How Alcohol Quietly Ruins Your Sleep

    01:13:06 Can Sleeping Well Actually Make you More Successful? 

    01:16:40 The Real Risks of Losing Just One Hour of Sleep

    01:21:16 What Regular Sleep and a Digital Detox Can Do For Your Life 

    01:22:45 Why Weekend “Catch-Up” Sleep Doesn’t Work

    01:24:09 The Overlooked Link Between Sleep and Mental Health

    01:27:32 How Poor Sleep Fuels Loneliness and Disconnection

    01:30:58 Why Self-Forgiveness Might Be the Ultimate Sleep Tool

    Episode Resources:

    Matthew Walker | Website

    Matthew Walker | Instagram 

    Matthew Walker | LinkedIn

    Matthew Walker | X

    The Matt Walker Podcast

    Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams

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    1 hr 40 min
  • Stop Chasing Love! (How to Shift Your Mindset to Start Attracting It) With Tinx

    How do you know when someone is truly right for you?

    Have you ever confused attention for love?

    In this special crossover episode, Jay Shetty steps out of his usual host role and joins media personality Tinx on her podcast, Office Hours, for a candid and profoundly enriching conversation. Jay opens up about his journey with meditation, relationships, and personal well-being. He breaks meditation down into simple, approachable practices like breathwork, visualization, and mantra, making it accessible to anyone who’s ever felt like they ‘can’t meditate.’

    Jay and Tinx go deeper, unpacking the digital overwhelm of the constant pings, nonstop news, and the pressure of staying connected. Jay shares practical strategies for reclaiming your peace, especially in the crucial first moments of the day. From changing how we wake up to choosing when and how we consume news, he emphasizes building rituals that foster clarity rather than chaos. 

    Jay explains the concept of love through the three key relationship types: the firework, the candle, and the mirror. He challenges the idea of “one soulmate,” suggesting instead that the people we attract reflect where we are in our own growth and emotional state. The conversation is filled with insight into how to find peace in your singlehood, develop a deeper understanding of yourself, and create a life that naturally attracts meaningful connection.

    In this conversation, you'll learn:

    How to Start Meditating When You Feel Stuck

    How to Use Breathwork to Calm Anxiety Instantly

    How to Build a Tech-Free Morning Routine

    How to Consume News Without Feeling Overwhelmed

    How to Create Real Human Connection in a Digital World

    Remember, peace shouldn't be something you have to chase—it’s something you can create, right here, right now.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    Join Jay for his first ever, On Purpose Live Tour! Tickets are on sale now. Hope to see you there!

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:48 Building Purpose Through the Calm Community

    03:38 Struggling with Meditation? Start Here

    08:26 Simple Breathing Practice to Calm Your Mind

    11:05 Managing News and Notifications Without Losing Peace

    18:16 Inside Jay’s Grounding Morning Routine

    23:14 The Interview That Changed Jay’s Perspective

    25:09 When Interviews Get Deep and Emotional

    27:06 Must-Listen Episodes to Start With

    29:48 Jay’s Ultimate Dream Guest Revealed

    30:36 The Three Types of Love You’ll Experience

    34:25 How Jay Met His Wife, Radhi

    35:43 What to Look For When Searching for Love

    44:37 The Root of Desperation in Dating

    45:27 What to Expect from the On Purpose Live Tour

    46:46 Preparing Mentally and Physically for Live Shows

    48:55 Jay’s Favorite Guilty Pleasures 

    Episode Resources:

    Tinx | Podcast

    Tinx | Instagram 

    Tinx | TikTok 

    Hotter in the Hamptons

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    55 min
  • If You’re a People Pleaser Listen to This! (Why Putting Yourself First Isn’t Selfish, It’s Necessary For Real Connection)

    Do you feel guilty when you put your needs before others by saying no?

    When was the last time you chose yourself—just because you needed it, not because you earned it?

    Today, Jay is joined by Meggan Roxanne, writer, entrepreneur, and founder of the globally loved platform The Good Quote. Known for curating some of the internet’s most powerful and inspiring affirmations, Meggan now steps into the spotlight with her own voice, sharing a remarkable personal story of loss, resilience, and transformation.

    From growing up in a warm and loving home to experiencing a heart-wrenching moment at just four years old, when a grandparent told her they didn’t love her, Meggan opens up about how early trauma shaped her emotional world. Following her mother’s final wish, Meggan became the caretaker for her estranged grandfather, the very man who once wounded her deeply. Through that act of grace, she discovered the true meaning of forgiveness, empathy, and unconditional love.

    Throughout the episode, Meggan and Jay explore the difference between people-pleasing and creating space for authentic connection, how emotional boundaries protect our well-being, and what it takes to stop repeating the pain we’ve inherited. She candidly discusses the challenges of grief, especially after losing her mother, her best friend, her guide, and how that loss forced her to reimagine her identity and rebuild from the ground up.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    How to Forgive Someone Who Hurt You Deeply

    How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty

    How to Heal After Losing a Parent

    How to Reconnect with Your Intuition

    How to Break Generational Cycles of Trauma

    How to Build Confidence Through Self-Respect

    Even in the darkest of seasons, you have the power to find peace, reshape your path, and step into a life guided by intention, healing, and light.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    00:30 The Pain of Feeling Unloved by Family

    04:12 Would You Take Care of Someone Who Doesn't Love You?

    10:20 How Do You Enforce Your Boundaries?

    16:20 Are You a Chronic People Pleaser?

    23:06 How The Good Quote Started

    34:59 Do You Trust Your Intuition?

    43:49 Your Intuition is Your Best Guide

    45:20 How Do You Reconnect with Your Intuition?

    50:52 How Meditation Helps Calm Down Your Day

    53:10 Dealing with Grief, Depression, & Losing a Loved One

    Episode Resources:

    Meggan Roxanne | Instagram

    Meggan Roxanne | LinkedIn

    The Good Quote | Instagram

    The Good Quote | Facebook

    The Good Quote | Tumblr

    How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart: THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER. Stop People-Pleasing, Set Boundaries, and Heal from Self-Sabotage

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    1 hr 23 min
  • Sadia Khan: Stop Ignoring Red Flags! (How to Train Your Brain to Know When To Walk Away)

    Does anything in your life feel a little “off” right now?

    Do you feel like you're settling for less than you deserve?

    Today, Jay sits down with Sadia Khan, psychotherapist and relationship expert, for a deep and unfiltered conversation on love, commitment, and emotional healing in the modern age. Known for her bold and counterintuitive insights, Sadia brings clarity to the often murky waters of dating, self-worth, and relationship dynamics.

    Sadia shares her powerful perspective on the importance of being able to walk away from disrespect, and how this one shift can transform who you attract and how you're treated. She challenges conventional dating advice by focusing not on what you attract—but what you entertain—highlighting the role of self-esteem in relationship choices. She explains why emotional unavailability feels attractive, how ghosting reflects poor communication habits, and why your dating app rejection might not be what you think it is.

    Jay and Sadia dive into the core issues many of her clients face, including infidelity, fear of commitment, and men struggling with masculinity. She unpacks how a lack of male role models, the ability to set boundaries, and people-pleasing behaviors can derail modern masculinity—and how both men and women can break these cycles to build healthier love.

    Sadia introduces the "Three A’s" women need to fall in love—Attraction, Admiration, and Adoration—and the "Three L’s" men need—Lust, Labor, and Loyalty—exploring how balance in these elements creates deep, lasting connection. She also breaks down why women might cheat on “nice” men and how misunderstanding emotional needs can lead to betrayal.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    How to Attract and Maintain Healthy Relationships.

    Why Self-Worth is the Foundation of Love.

    How to Avoid the Trap of Emotional Immaturity.

    What Makes Men and Women Truly Commit.

    The Real Reasons Behind Infidelity.

    How to Build Masculine Strength in a Healthy Way.

    Why Peace is Better than Constant Pleasure in Love.

    This conversation is a masterclass in emotional intelligence and healing. If you're navigating heartbreak, struggling with self-worth, or seeking a deep, lasting relationship—this episode is for you.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro 

    01:17 How to Stop Fearing Conflict and Start Choosing Yourself

    02:24 Why We Fall for the Emotionally Unavailable

    05:31 The Hidden Dangers of Dating Apps

    07:01 Is Wanting Similarity the Same as Settling?

    08:40 How to Stop Getting Ghosted in Modern Dating

    09:31 The Early Signs of a Healthy Relationship

    11:19 The Two Most Common Relationship Struggles: Infidelity and Commitment

    12:19 What Happens When Men Lack Masculinity

    15:25 Why Men Need Stronger Role Models

    18:21 The Unspoken Contract Behind People-Pleasing

    19:25 How to Show Love Without Seeking Approval

    21:12 The Real Reason Women Cheat on Good Men

    24:55 How to Teach Others How to Treat You

    26:14 The Three A’s Every Woman Needs to Fall in Love

    32:45 The Three L’s Every Man Needs to Stay in Love

    36:10 How to Avoid Being Just a Temporary Fling

    37:49 Why the Person You Date Isn’t Always the One You Marry

    40:42 Sexual Discipline: Why It’s Essential for Self-Respect

    42:29 What True Psychological Intimacy Really Looks Like

    45:15 Lowering Your Standards May Cost You More Than You Think

    46:10 Is Getting Cheated On Ever Partly Your Fault?

    48:59 How to Recognize When You’re Being Disrespected

    50:13 Are You Loyal to the Marriage or Just the Person?

    52:45 The Most Honest Marriage Vow No One Talks About

    56:50 Why Some Men Keep Choosing the Wrong Women

    59:40 How to Know If You’re Afraid of Commitment

    01:04:23 Can a Broken Relationship Be Fixed?

    01:06:59 Why Knowing Your Deal Breakers Is Crucial

    01:09:03 The Worst Thing to Say to Someone After a Breakup

    01:09:56 Why So Many People Stay Stuck in Heartbreak

    01:11:43 How to Find Closure Without an Apology

    01:15:59 Not Everything You Want Is Good for You

    01:66:54 Sadia on Final Five

    Episode Resources:

    Sadia Khan | Website

    Sadia Khan | Instagram

    Sadia Khan | TikTok

    Sadia Khan | YouTube

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    1 hr 29 min
  • Do THIS to Stop Spiraling (7 Steps to Instantly Break the Cycle of Negative Thoughts)

    What’s been on your mind today?

    Do you ever catch yourself spiraling with negative thoughts?

    Today, Jay dives into the everyday negative thoughts we all wrestle with—and how we can stop letting them control us. Whether it's replaying awkward moments, spiraling into self-doubt, or feeling stuck in patterns of fear and criticism, negativity can quietly undermine our confidence and cloud our perspective. But what if those thoughts were just noise—and you didn’t have to carry them anymore?

    In this episode, Jay shares seven transformative steps to help you build a healthier, more resilient relationship with your mind. Rooted in both spiritual insight and modern science, Jay walks you through powerful shifts—like recognizing your thoughts without letting them define you, challenging your inner critic with evidence, and reframing your day-to-day experiences with intention. With the clarity of a teacher and the care of a friend, Jay helps you see that awareness is not just the first step—it’s your greatest protection.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    How to Stop Believing Every Negative Thought

    How to Challenge Thoughts That Aren’t True

    How to Use Mindfulness to Calm Mental Overload

    How to Build a Mental Shield Against Criticism and Stress

    We can’t always stop negative thoughts from showing up, but we can learn to move through them with clarity, self-kindness, and strength—one thought at a time.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

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    What We Discussed:

    00:00 Intro

    01:06 How Do You Deal With Negative Thoughts?

    02:20 #1: Recognize and Acknowledge Your Thoughts

    07:30 #2: Challenge Your Negative Thoughts

    11:22 #3: Start Reframing Your Thoughts

    15:52 #4: Practice Mindfulness and Meditation

    18:14 #5: Engage in Joyful Activities

    20:12 #6: Look After Your Body

    21:28 #7: Limit Your Exposure to Negativity

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    32 min
  • The Easiest Way to Start Investing Today— No Experience Needed (You Just Need $1!) with Robinhood CEO

    Have you ever thought about investing before?

    What would you do if you could invest without needing experience?

    Today, Jay sits down with Vlad Tenev, CEO and Co-Founder of Robinhood, the revolutionary financial platform that brought commission-free investing to millions. Vlad shares his fascinating journey from being a first-generation immigrant from Bulgaria to building a company that redefined access to investing.

    Vlad shares candid reflections on his childhood, marked by resilience and an acute financial awareness. He recounts pivotal moments, from immigrating to the U.S. during Bulgaria's economic turmoil to his early fascination with math and finance. Vlad also shares how he manages stress and stays grounded while navigating the demands of leading a high-impact, rapidly evolving company.

    Jay and Vlad dive deep into the origins of Robinhood, exploring how the platform sought to democratize investing by eliminating barriers like account minimums and trading fees. Vlad highlights the company’s commitment to innovation and its mission to empower everyday investors. He also shares lessons learned from Robinhood's challenges, including the high-profile GameStop incident, and reflects on the importance of transparency, authenticity, and adapting to evolving market conditions.

    In this interview, you'll learn:

    How to Build Financial Knowledge Early

    How to Balance Work and Wellness Daily

    How to Innovate in a Crowded Market

    How to Use Feedback to Improve Products

    How to Overcome Fear of Investing Mistakes

    How to Scale a Business for Long-Term Success

    How to Prioritize Customers' Needs in Business

    Change can be a powerful and uplifting journey when approached with self-compassion and intention. The power to transform is already within you—let it shine.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    Jay Shetty

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:19 Learning the Value of Money at a Young Age

    05:50 Reuniting with Parents After Years Apart

    09:13 Challenges Faced by Young Immigrants in School

    13:57 How Math Became a Gateway to Academic Success

    19:00 The Inspiration Behind the Name Robinhood

    21:29 A Look Back at the First-Ever Investment

    24:32 The Benefits of Starting Young in Business

    25:26 The Role of IQ in Early Achievement

    29:27 Witnessing the Collapse of the Financial World

    34:42 Investing in Crypto Before the Hype

    36:58 Starting an Investment Journey with Just $10

    39:40 Common Mistakes New Investors Should Avoid

    43:45 Choosing Companies That Build Everyday Products

    47:52 How AI Is Reshaping Financial Services

    50:49 Renting vs Buying in Today’s Economy

    55:06 The $72 Trillion Wealth Transfer Explained

    57:09 Breaking Barriers to Financial Access

    58:25 Rethinking Retirement and Long-Term Planning

    01:01:17 Offering a Smarter Approach to Retirement Savings

    01:02:36 Robinhood in the Media: What They Got Right (and Wrong)

    01:05:15 Representing a Company in the Public Eye

    01:09:31 Transforming the Customer Experience from the Inside Out

    01:12:46 How Mistakes Shape Company Growth

    01:13:46 The Pitfalls of Premature Optimization

    01:14:59 Inflation, Interest Rates, and the 2022 Reset

    01:20:21 Enhancing the Experience for Active Traders

    01:24:46 Making Professional-Grade Trading More Accessible

    01:27:00 Prioritizing Customer Needs to Solve Core Issues

    01:28:16 Managing the Pressure of Negative Publicity

    01:31:38 Balancing Leadership with Personal Life

    01:35:19 Navigating Marriage and Work as a Founder

    01:36:26 Rethinking the Traditional Credit Card Model

    01:40:52 Vlad on Final Five    

    Episode Resources:

    Vlad Tenev | LinkedIn

    Robinhood

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    1 hr 52 min

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