On Purpose with Jay Shetty

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Jay Shetty sits down with Neha Kumar to talk about women in business and motherhood. In a place where men dominate and are seen as rulers in a certain field, women will have to exert extra effort, time, and dedication to be in a position that is considerably equal to men. And when a woman has the passion for it, the will to persevere, and the favorable circumstances that allow  her to flourish, she gets to be her best self for herself, her family, her career, and her goals.

Neha Kumar is the former COO & CFO of Create & Cultivate, an integrated platform designed to help millennial women achieve their full career potential, including new female entrepreneurs who require additional resources. Neha has a dynamic and entrepreneurial mindset. She is also an angel investor who is passionate about investing in game-changing businesses. As a current faculty member at the UCLA Anderson school, she teaches the next generation of undergraduates about entrepreneurial finance and management.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:27 Congratulations on your 5th wedding anniversary!
• 04:40 The unconscious bias on women
• 08:14 Being a woman in business school
• 14:27 Education will give us a framework on how to think
• 21:23 How to teach students to think deeply
• 25:47 You want to be able to think strategically
• 31:07 The difference between a business and a passion project
• 36:53 Focus is a big deal
• 40:39 Work-life balance versus priorities
• 46:44 In the workplace, not everyone can empathize with you
• 50:40 Dealing with ‘mom guilt’
• 57:30 What do you look at when you invest?
• 59:06 Neha on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Neha Kumar | LinkedIn
• Neha Kumar | Twitter
• Neha Kumar | Instagram
• New Money Ventures

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Have you been truly in love? Have you loved someone so much they are always included in your plans? Have you been in a situation where you can’t wait to spend more time with the person you love? Being in love is rich, flavorful, and addictive. It changes you and how you see the world.  

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty narrates the different signs that tell you are falling in love with someone and how to deal with your own feelings.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:02 Are you falling in love?
• 04:38 Sign #1: You start breathing in time with them
• 10:18 Sign #2: You generally have a more optimistic view on life
• 13:58 Sign #3: You have a similar sense of humor
• 17:46 Sign #4: You feel you can be honest with someone
• 22:04 Sign #5: You think about your partner when making plans
• 24:05 Sign #6: You are no longer looking for the flirty validation from someone
• 26:03 Sign #7: The feeling of aligned values

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Jay Shetty sits down with Simu Liu to talk about his parent’s immigrant story and how he was able to pursue his passion despite everyone’s expectations from him. One thing that has killed a lot of dreams is fear. The fear of people not supporting us throughout the journey, the fear of being not good enough, the fear of not being able to become the person that you want to be is something that hinders a lot of people from achieving their goals in life. But what do you think would happen if you actually stop being afraid and start trying?

Simu Liu made history as the star of the first Asian-fronted movie in the Marvel Cinematic Universe in Destin Daniel Cretton’s Shang-Chi and the Legend of the Ten Rings, which garnered him The People’s Choice Award for Favorite Action Movie Star. Simu also starred in the Award winning CBC/Netflix comedy series Kim’s Convenience, which won the ACTRA Awards for Outstanding Ensemble in 2017 and Best Comedy Series at the 2018 Canadian Screen Awards. It was the first Canadian television series with an all-Asian lead cast, the series chronicles the day-to-day micro-dramas encountered by a Korean immigrant family that runs a corner grocery store. He wrote his very first book, We Are Dreamers: An Immigrant Superhero Origin Story, which tackles his struggles with parental expectations and stereotypes.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 06:30 Simu’s famous 2018 tweet & how he started to pursue his acting dream
• 11:11 Simu’s relationship with his parents
• 17:48 Understanding our parents sacrifices
• 20:55 How different parenting was in Simu’s home
• 25:40 Why Simu’s parents hate the way he writes the book
• 29:05 How he repaired & amended his relationship with his parents
• 37:58 Bringing in your parents into the journey that they can understand
• 39:35 Simu’s business background
• 44:12 Giving your own self the validation that you need
• 47:09 Identifying the things that you can control
• 53:35 Simu’s Final Five

Episode Resources

• Simu Liu | Instagram
• Simu Liu | Twitter
• Simu Liu | TikTok
• We Were Dreamers

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For this special series, in partnership with Betterhelp, Jay Shetty sits down with Haesue Jo, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp and Ashley Carr. Ashley talks about her journey throughout therapy and how it has helped her become a better person that she is now. 

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 04:12 How Ashley got into therapy and stigma around it
• 07:37 Therapy is not just for the weak-minded
• 08:58 Waking up everyday and feeling that you’re not enough
• 10:39 Skills she learned in therapy
• 14:07 Self-sabotage in return for love
• 15:44 How we’re acting in the present stems from our childhood experiences
• 17:14 Learning and understanding that we don’t need to accept the bad things that happens in our lives
• 19:33 What her life would be like if she didn’t go to therapy
• 21:05 Self-awareness is the first step
• 24:09 Accepting yourself
• 25:36 When did therapy become a choice
• 27:04 Every question during therapy has intention
• 29:33 Sometimes advice from our family or friends might not be the one we need
• 36:06 Advice to others on why they should try therapy
• 40:08 Depression symptoms
• 41:36 How parents can handle their kid’s emotions
• 46:49 Therapy is life-changing

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Jay Shetty talks to Taylor Tomlinson about why sometimes it’s okay to shift your focus on something else. Dropping out of college doesn’t really mean you’re wasting your time away. In some cases, people have found success and multiple achievements after they decided to pursue something else. These pivotal moments come and go in the most unexpected ways so we all need to learn how to spot them and seize the opportunity right away.

Taylor Tomlinson began performing comedy when she was 16, after her father signed her up for a stand-up class. She became a top 10 finalist on the 9th season of NBC's Last Comic Standing in 2015 and was named one of the top 10 comics to watch by Variety at the 2019 Just For Laughs festival. Her first Netflix standup special, Quarter-Life Crisis, premiered in March, 2020. In 2021, she started her own podcast called Sad in the City and in the same year she was placed on the Forbes' 30 Under 30 list. Now her second standup special, Look at You, is now streaming on Netflix.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 05:03 Why did he sign you up for a standup class?
• 10:34 Performing on stage is still terrifying
• 18:20 Dropping out of college
• 25:41 It’s really about being confident
• 31:33 Everything happened for a reason
• 40:51 On relationships and working through the issues
• 45:02 That guy who actually cheated
• 50:28 Spend as much time as you need to know yourself
• 01:00:07 The time that people spend alone as adults 
• 01:04:53 Getting this moment of peace after performing on stage
• 01:11:22 Being open about your mental health 
• 01:17:02 Taylor on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Taylor Tomlinson | Instagram
• Taylor Tomlinson | Facebook
• Taylor Tomlinson | TikTok
• Taylor Tomlinson | Website
• Taylor Tomlinson | Netflix
• Sad in the City

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We all want peace in our life. We all want healthy relationships. We all want positivity to surround us. Therefore we tend to stay away from toxic and negative people. But sometimes, this need to keep toxic and negative people out of our circle is also making us THE toxic and negative person to others. And we may not realize it because we are doing it unconsciously and unintentionally.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty covers the different types of unhealthy behaviors that make relationships draining and how we can carry ourselves with positive energy and optimistic views.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:57 “I’m surrounded by negative and toxic people.”
• 04:50 Type #1: The Complainer
• 10:53 Type #2: The Canceler
• 14:32 Type #3: The Casualty
• 19:23 Type #4: The Critic
• 24:35 Type #5: The Commander
• 28:25 Type #6: The Competitor
• 30:26 Type #7: The Controller

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Jay Shetty sits down with Vanessa Hudgens to talk about manifestation & importance of nurturing your inner child. As we grow up, we always think that we should start being serious in life just because we are adults. But we should always remember that inner child in us, so have fun and believe in magic - protect the child in you. 

Vanessa Hudgens is an American actress, singer, entrepreneur, and producer. After making her feature film debut in Thirteen, she rose to fame portraying Gabriella Montez in the High School Musical film series, which brought her significant mainstream success. 

Since the release of her studio albums and the High School Musical franchise, Vanessa has focused on her acting career. She has appeared in films like Bandslam, Beastly, Sucker Punch, Journey 2: The Mysterious Island, Spring Breakers, The Princess Switch, Second Act, and Bad Boys for Life. She also launched her beverage business, Caliwater, a line of cactus water, and her own skincare brand, Know Beauty.

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 05:12 How she discovered ZenZone
• 08:18 Spirituality & mindfulness has always been a part of her life
• 13:15 Importance of having & nurturing your inner child
• 15:23 How she navigated a very tough industry
• 17:35 Experience that gave her a sense of groundedness
• 19:56 Witchcraft and rituals
• 22:35 How rituals & manifestations work for her
• 25:29 Identifying if you are with the right person
• 28:35 Importance of asking the uncomfortable questions
• 31:24 Good things come when you least expect them
• 35:18 Having the confidence on doing things alone
• 40:17 How she remains present
• 43:08 Her passion for collaborating with people
• 46:24 Her creative & intuitive works
• 50:12 How she balances & prioritizes different things in life
• 56:21 Vanessa’s Final Five

Episode Resources

• Vanessa Hudgens | Instagram
• Vanessa Hudgens | Twitter
• Vanessa Hudgens | Facebook

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The daily rush of our careers often gives us so little time to pause, take a break, or have a rest. We are so used to our fast-paced work life that we find it hard to balance work and life, to find balance between building a career and living a good life. Despite this need to rush through the day and get things done, we can and we should find the right balance to live a satisfying life.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares why work stress is catching up with us and how we can be in a state where we can slow down when needed and destress when necessary.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:40 People are stressed
• 06:43 Five states we need on any given day
• 10:05 Write down your general bedtime and wake up time
• 20:45 Meditation helps us develop focus
• 23:15 How do we get energy?
• 24:41 How do we get presence with the people we love?
• 25:56 Ideas give you the ability to plan

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

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Jay Shetty sits down with Dax Shepard to talk about valuing yourself and sticking to what you believe in above all. At certain points in our life we will come across conflicting interests and opposing ideas, and these could shake the foundation of what we believe to be right. And that’s okay. Living with two opposing ideas can be challenging but these will give us new and better life perspectives. 

Dax Shepard is an actor, comedian, writer, and director, and of course podcast host of one of my favorite podcasts, Armchair Expert. He's known for his appearance in films like Without a Paddle, Zathura: A Space Adventure, Employee of the Month, and many, many more. He also portrayed Crosby Braverman in the NBC comedy drama series, Parenthood from 2010 to 2015. He also played Luke Matthews in the Netflix show, The Ranch, co-starred in ABC's Bless this Mess, and acted in the MTV reality series Punk’d. And since 2018, Dax has hosted the award-winning podcast show, Armchair Expert, where he interviews celebrities, journalists, and academics about the messiness of being human. 

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:30 A good memory but terrible with remembering dates
• 09:00 The memories that support your own identity
• 14:14 The ‘you’ embracing yourself
• 23:04 Running from or embracing your ethnicity
• 26:18 Getting drawn to successful people
• 29:20 The practice of having vulnerable conversations
• 33:08 Getting out of the skepticism
• 38:49 Recognize what the people around you want
• 49:38 Entertaining two ideas at once that are seemingly contradictory
• 56:36 Encouraging critical thinking at home
• 01:06:11 Teaching your children how to be resilient
• 01:10:20 Balance between self validation and humility
• 01:15:43 Dax on Final Five

Episode Resources

• Dax Shepard | Instagram
• Armchair Expert Podcast | YouTube | Instagram | Facebook | Twitter

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Falling in love with someone can happen instantly. Staying in love with the same person is hard work. In most relationships, partnerships last not because of love and all the giddy feelings that come with it. Relationships last when both partners continuously work together to build trust, deal with issues as one but still recognize deferring opinions, and plan a future together with each other’s interest and growth in mind.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares with us the common reasons why many couples fall out of love and ways to save the relationship by keeping the love burning.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:12 The top reasons we fall out of love
• 05:59 Reason #1: We stop learning new things about each other
• 10:41 Reason #2: We stop talking about vulnerable, meaningful topics
• 17:06 Reason #3: We don’t create systems to deal with arguments
• 22:58 Reason #4: When you aren’t emotionally available
• 23:49 Reason #5: No division of chores and responsibilities
• 24:37 Reason #6: Not addressing important issues with your partner

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