In today's episode I discuss three sub Reddit posts related to attachment theory/attachment styles. One person asks for advice from the dismissive avoidants. One person wants to know if anyone has had success with psychedelics for their insecure attachment style. And fearful avoidant seems to be bored with dating people who don't have a troubled past. 

Attachment Test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Are you afraid of being alone? Sometimes it's just anxiety like everyone gets. But sometimes it's a more serious thing that requires therapy. In today's episode I will read an article about autophobia or monophobia. 

Article.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/love-sex/there-s-a-psychological-reason-you-re-afraid-of-being-alone/ar-AA14KvRs?cvid=d12ee829114f4da78a919fa80e8f8205

In this episode I will discuss 11 common things an avoidant will do.  This will help you spot them in the dating world.  Or it may help figure out you are the avoidant. If you don't know your attachment style here is a test.  And if you want to read about attachment theory then check out the book I've linked. 

Attachment Test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

"Attached" book

https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Attachment-Find-Keep-Love-Find-ebook/dp/B0049H9AVU/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2DYAU4CGR5GGF&keywords=Attached+book&qid=1671658837&sprefix=attached+book%2Caps%2C158&sr=8-1

The word of the year is gaslighting according to Merriam-Webster. In this episode we read the article and I add some more information on gaslighting, narcissism, and even some attachment theory.

Gaslighting article:

https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2022/09/13/what-is-gaslighting-how-to-spot-it/10333556002/

Attachment test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

In today's episode I'm reading an article about finances and relationships and then discussing my opinion on it. If you are here for attachment styles or attachment theory I'll share the attachment test and my favorite attachment book right here.

Article:https://money.yahoo.com/professor-couples-who-have-joint-accounts-stay-together-longer-170633748.html

Attached Book: https://www.amazon.com/Attached-audiobook/dp/B07ZJW6DWR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2RTAZTO373IQR&keywords=attached+book&qid=1671568709&sprefix=attached%2Caps%2C160&sr=8-1

Attachment test: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

In today's episode I discuss the 11 common things an anxiuos attachment style person would do in a relationship. This can help in your relationship with identifying their attachment style. Or it may help you identify the things you do.  The key is figure out things that don't help the relationship so you can minimize or eliminate them over time. 

Attachment Test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

"Attached" book:

https://www.amazon.com/Attached-audiobook/dp/B07ZJW6DWR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2CGMVVCE21B28&keywords=attached+book&qid=1671480090&sprefix=attached%2Caps%2C196&sr=8-1

In today's episode I'm reading and discussing a probem that seems to exist right now. And that's the man child killing the sex drives of women. Women are fed up having a man who can't do simple things around the house.  And I can't blame them. 

https://www.vice.com/en/article/88q3qk/man-child-scientific-term-new-research

I'm finally back.  Sorry for the two year break. In this episode I'll discuss what took me so long to come back.  And I also talk about a recent break and discuss attachment styles with a break up.  And if you want to learn on YouTube check out my new channel Relationship Attachments.

In today's episode I go over if attachment styles also known as attachment theory can change.  The quick answer is yes.  It doesn't matter if you are an avoidant, anxious, or secure attachment style it can change for better or worse.  And the relationships you are in help with that.  So who you date can decide your fate.  

https://relationshipsandrelationshits.com/resources/

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Dating is hard enough.  Knowing attachment styles or attachment theory can help minimize that pain.  In this episode we will go through some tips and questions to help identify the secure attachment style, the anxious attachment style, the avoidant attachment style and the fearful avoidant attachment style.  

Attachment test: 

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Resources:

https://relationshipsandrelationshits.com/resources/