In today's episode I'm reading and discussing a probem that seems to exist right now. And that's the man child killing the sex drives of women. Women are fed up having a man who can't do simple things around the house. And I can't blame them.

https://www.vice.com/en/article/88q3qk/man-child-scientific-term-new-research

I'm finally back. Sorry for the two year break. In this episode I'll discuss what took me so long to come back. And I also talk about a recent break and discuss attachment styles with a break up. And if you want to learn on YouTube check out my new channel Relationship Attachments.

In today's episode I go over if attachment styles also known as attachment theory can change. The quick answer is yes. It doesn't matter if you are an avoidant, anxious, or secure attachment style it can change for better or worse. And the relationships you are in help with that. So who you date can decide your fate.

https://relationshipsandrelationshits.com/resources/

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Dating is hard enough. Knowing attachment styles or attachment theory can help minimize that pain. In this episode we will go through some tips and questions to help identify the secure attachment style, the anxious attachment style, the avoidant attachment style and the fearful avoidant attachment style.

Attachment test:

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

Resources:

https://relationshipsandrelationshits.com/resources/

I am talking about sex and attachment styles, also known as attachment theory. I discuss secure, avoidant, and anxious attachment styles and how they view and act in the bedroom with sex. Attachment theory is very beneficial to finding a great partner, keeping a partner, working through issues with a partner, and raising your children for success when they become adults.

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

https://relationshipsandrelationshits.com/resources/

In this episode we break down the dismissive avoidant attachment style. In previous episodes we have talked about the avoidant attachment style, but not specifically the dismissive avoidant. Attachment theory has three insecure attachments which are the dismissive avoidant, the fearful avoidant, and the disorganized attachment.

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

https://relationshipsandrelationshits.com/resources/

The Strange Situation Test was the first way Attachment Style or Attachment Theory categorized people. The first test identified three distinct groups, the dismissive avoidant, the preoccupied anxious, and the secure attachment style. This was done by observing common reactions to many events. At a later time the fearful avoidant, also known as disorganized attachment was categorized. Attachment Styles help in current and future relationships.

https://relationshipsandrelationshits.com/resources/

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

In this episode I explain the combination of attachment theory couples.  For example how does an avoidant attachment style and an anxious attachment style function in a relationship.  I discuss all the possible combinations with fearful avoidant/disorganized, dismissive avoidant, preoccupied anxious, and secure attachment.

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

https://relationshipsandrelationshits.com/resources/

The anxious avoidant trap for attachment styles or attachment theory is is the second longest type of relationship next to two secure attachments.  But it is also dysfunctional.  In this episode I go over the attachment needs of the anxious and avoidant and why this relationship is so challenging.  In the dating world this combination of couples are very common.

https://relationshipsandrelationshits.com/resources/

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

In this episode we are discussing protest behaviors which are common for the anxious attachment style.  Avoidant attachment and secure attachment style can do these protest behaviors also, but will less frequency.  Learning these protest behaviors will help with your relationships and in dating.  

https://relationshipsandrelationshits.com/resources/

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl