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Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®
from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor
Passive-aggressive behavior is frustrating, infuriating, and frankly...unfair!
And, passive-aggressive behavior is sneaky! In fact, so sneaky that you're often caught up in thinking that it actually makes some sense...at first, or for a while. Then, it dawns on you: Something's not right with this but I can't quite put my finger on it.
Passive-aggressive behavior is undermining. In the moment, and in the aftermath, your head spins. You wonder if you were the one who made a mistake. It's crazy-making!
So, today, Dr. Shaler offers you five ways to watch for that passive-aggressive behavior shows up. You can then recognize it more easily.
BUT, it's never very helpful to tell another person that their behavior is passive-aggressive. It's highly unlikely to get you anywhere good. Learn why.
Listen to this short podcast and learn how to listen for passive-aggressive stuff coming at you, and well as from you. It can be tricky!
Oh, Dr. Shaler has also written two books to give you even more insights, strategies, and skills:
Stop! That's Crazy-Making! How to Quit Playing the Passive-Aggressive Game
The Hijackal Trap: The Hidden Anger of Passive-Aggression
Available at Amazon along with her other books.
TAKE DR. SHALER'S FREE PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE CHECKLIST HERE! Find out what's up for sure.
Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 \
Good tips for knowing what to do and how to respond.
CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:
Website: TransformingRelationship.com
Podcasts: RelationshipHelpNetwork.com
Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor
Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler
LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler
Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
Pinterest: Pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctor
Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97
I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!
If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,
join my Support Circle now.
Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.
WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community.
#passiveaggressive #passiveaggression #annoyingpeople #toomuchprocrastination #toomuchforgetting
#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #systemicabuse #sexualabuse #physicalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest
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ALIENATION is way too common when you have to deal with the whims, power, and control a relentlessly difficult, toxic person.
In today's episode, the segment "It Happened to Me", my anonymous guest offers the story of how her adult son--a #Hijackal--caught her off-guard and proceeded to blame her in outrageous ways. This is too common with adult children with Hijackal behaviors. They want to rule the roost...and, every roost, if possible.
My guest relates the joy of playing with her grandchildren, in full view of their father. Then, as #Hijackals like to do, he asserts himself in manipulative, deceitful, and surprising ways. He is alienating and threatening, as well as blaming and shunning.
Listen in if you feel alienated from your adult children, and/or alienated from your grandchildren.
Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97
Good tips for knowing what to do and how to respond.
I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!
If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,
join my Support Circle now.
Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.
WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community.
CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:
Website: TransformingRelationship.com
Podcasts: RelationshipHelpNetwork.com
Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor
Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler
LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler
Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
Pinterest: Pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctor
Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97
#alienatedparent #discardedparent #cantseegrandkids #parentalalientation
#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #systemicabuse #sexualabuse #physicalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest
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The Save Your Sanity podcast offers episodes filled with the expert insights, validation, strategies, and support you need to recognize, manage, and recover from relationships with the…
She offers invaluable help to stop the second-guessing, undermining, and crazy-making traits, patterns, and cycles you have encountered in relationships with folks like those. Understand the ways, whys, and hows that verbal abuse, emotional abuse, and spiritual abuse affect you over time. Whether the Hijackal is a partner, parent, ex, or colleague, what you will learn here will strengthen and empower you to step up, speak up, and stand up for yourself in healthy, assertive ways.
Many Hijackals have behaviors that are considered the same as those who are diagnosed as narcissists, borderlines, psychopaths, sociopaths, and histrionic personality disorder. These insights will help you to make the changes--and good decisions--to move from pain to power, and that's exactly what you want to do! Listen now.
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