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A member asked about what to do because her mother was constantly finding fault with her.
#Hijackal parents constantly either find fault or turn a blind eye to fault. One or the other, usually. I offer some insights on how to view this fault-finding, and how to respond.
Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 \
I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!
If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,
join my Support Circle now.
Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.
WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community.
CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:
Website: TransformingRelationship.com
Podcasts: RelationshipHelpNetwork.com
Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor
Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler
LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler
Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest
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LOVE-BOMBING!
When a #Hijackal--a relentlessly difficult, toxic person--wants to impress you and win you over, s/he will use love-bombing.
That means s/he will be everything you ever wanted and more.
Promise everything you ever wanted and more.
Love-bombing is too good to be true.
And, you know what they say about things that are too good to be true? They aren't!
Learn to recognize the signs of love-bombing. Not only will #Hijackals love-bomb you at the beginning of the relationship, but they'll do it when they really, really want something, or are really, really afraid of losing you....sometimes.
You'll want to recognize these patterns quickly. Listen in.
Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97
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I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!
If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,
join my Support Circle now.
Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.
WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community.
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Good tips for knowing what to do and how to respond.
CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:
Website: TransformingRelationship.com
Podcasts: RelationshipHelpNetwork.com
Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor
Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler
LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler
Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
Pinterest: Pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctor
#lovebombing #toomuchtoofast #narcissistslovebomb #recognizelovebombing
#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #systemicabuse #physicalabuse #sexualabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest
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Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 \
I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!
If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,
join my Support Circle now.
Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.
WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community.
CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:
Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com
Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor
Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler
LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler
Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest
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I'm asked so many times, "Am I going against spiritual principles to keep myself safe from my abusive spouse?"
So, I wanted to answer that in an episode for you, to share my thoughts on this matter.
Some people are paralyzed by their indecision about staying or going. They have an eternal argument in their minds about "what's right" and how to reconcile their spiritual beliefs with the abuse they see and feel.
It is never right to be abused, or to allow someone to be continuously abusive towards you. That is nothing like love!!!
If you want my thoughts on figuring out how spirituality fits into your decision to leave a #Hijackal--a relentless difficult, toxic person--listen in.
Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97
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I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!
If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,
join my Support Circle now.
Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.
WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community.
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Good tips for knowing what to do and how to respond.
CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:
Website: TransformingRelationship.com
Podcasts: RelationshipHelpNetwork.com
Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor
Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler
LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler
Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
Pinterest: Pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctor
Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97
#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #systemicabuse #sexualabuse #physicalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest
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Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 \
CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:
Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com
Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor
Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler
LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler
Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest
Big question. Knowing the answer takes a whole lot of thinking…unless, of course, there is physical or sexual abuse.
Then, there is only one answer: GO. Go to the police. Go to the court. Go to any lengths you need to protect yourself and your children. GO.
For most of you, though, going or staying is not black or white. It’s a whole lot of grey that travels from close to white some days, to too close to black others.
Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 \
CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:
Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com
Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor
Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler
LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler
Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest
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Host, Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, discusses boundaries, narcissism, entitlement and sexual predators with Christine Baumgartner, owner of ThePerfectCatch.com
Harvey Weinstein might have thought that power made abuse OK. Maybe, he's a sociopath. Certainly, he has narcissistic tendencies. A diagnosis doesn't matter. We know he is an abuser.
How does this kind of systemic abuse, verbal abuse, emotional abuse, physical abuse, and sexual abuse go under the radar? Why?
What's going on in our world that people don't believe women?
Why do people turn a blind eye to sexual abuse?
Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97
CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:
Website: TranformingRelationship.com
Podcasts: RelationshipHelpNetwork.com
Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor
Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler
LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler
Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
#systemicabuse #physicalabuse #sexualabuse
#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest
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Questions relating to: Filed for divorce - now what? My Hijackal partner is now, magically, doing everything right, everything that I'd begged for for year. Can I trust these changes??
Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 \
CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:
Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com
Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor
Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler
LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler
Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest
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The Save Your Sanity podcast offers episodes filled with the expert insights, validation, strategies, and support you need to recognize, manage, and recover from relationships with the…
She offers invaluable help to stop the second-guessing, undermining, and crazy-making traits, patterns, and cycles you have encountered in relationships with folks like those. Understand the ways, whys, and hows that verbal abuse, emotional abuse, and spiritual abuse affect you over time. Whether the Hijackal is a partner, parent, ex, or colleague, what you will learn here will strengthen and empower you to step up, speak up, and stand up for yourself in healthy, assertive ways.
Many Hijackals have behaviors that are considered the same as those who are diagnosed as narcissists, borderlines, psychopaths, sociopaths, and histrionic personality disorder. These insights will help you to make the changes--and good decisions--to move from pain to power, and that's exactly what you want to do! Listen now.
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