Has it ever felt like you married the wrong person? That somehow the “right” person is out there waiting to be found? If this sounds familiar, then you have fallen for the myth of the “Soulmate”. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we take a look at the concept of a soulmate and […]

In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’re going to pick on my wife for a little bit. Not because I’m mean (really, I’m not!) but because the one question she struggles to ask is the same question that most people struggle to ask even though it’s guaranteed to make your relationship better.

Do you find yourself stuck in tiny power struggles day-in-and-day-out? Do small decisions you have to make with your spouse end up in conflict and hours of disconnection? If so, then you’re going to want to listen to the simple trick you can do that will reduce conflict 95% of the time, guaranteed.

It’s one of the most common excuses husbands and wives use when their marriage is falling apart—” We just fell out of love”. But what does this really mean? Is love something that just accidentally happens and therefore can just as quickly end, or is love within marriage something that can be more stable? In […]

It’s just sad that some people are led to believe that lying in any shape or form can turn out to be good. You can call it a white lie or whatnot but a lie is a lie. Period. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’re not just going to talk about why […]

In most of our podcast episodes we talk about some random fight we’ve had within the last few days. In this episode, we conveniently ended up having the disagreement just as the tape was starting to roll. Even though it’s not easy, we thought we’d let you listen in and see how Shannon and I […]

When was the last time you said or did something awful to your spouse because you are stressed out? If you’re like us, you’ve probably lost it at some point and ended up hurting each other emotionally. In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we share with you how I have to deal with […]

Do you feel like your spouse isn’t as engaged as they were before? Does it feel like they’re slowly drifting away, and you can’t do anything to keep the marriage together? Where do you even start? How do you even start when the person you LOVE and devoted your life to doesn’t have the same […]

In a recent survey, people were asked, “What makes you feel hopeless in your marriage?” Out of all the answers, there was one overwhelming theme. To see if this issue is in your marriage, you’ll need to listen to this week’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast where you’ll learn how to prevent this same […]

Have you ever thought (or said to your spouse), “If I can’t get what I want, then you won’t get what you want!” Amidst a brewing argument, you need to learn how to step back, calm down, and carefully think about how your response will affected your marriage. When you marriage comes first, it will […]