Does your husband or wife have that “thing” that drives you crazy, even though, you’d have to admit (reluctantly) it’s not actually wrong of them to do it? These things can actually become endearing to you, if you learn how to see them in the right light. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, […]

Remember when dating was something that was fun and easy? Now, after a few years of being married, you probably don’t do it as often, and it seems to be more of a chore rather than something you look forward to. No matter how long you’ve been married, setting aside time together regularly is super […]

We talk a lot about the importance of being selfless and serving your husband or wife on a daily basis. But what happens if your spouse uses your sacrificial attitude as an excuse to abuse or take advantage of you? Obviously, we want everyone to be safe. That’s why we thought this insightful question was […]

Friendship with your husband or wife is good. Compatibility with your spouse is nice. Physical attraction is exciting. But bonding with your spouse is essential. In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’re looking at why this somewhat mysterious experience is so elusive for many couples and what you can do to start working […]

When stress creeps into a marriage, one person usually pushes for connection while the other person usually withdraws, hoping to stay safe by not rocking the boat. This is called the Anxious/Avoidant cycle and it’s common for almost every relationship out there. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’re looking at the consequences […]

Do you know what your spouse has given up because he or she decided to be married to you? I know… it’s a weird question, but, it’s an important one. And, it’s the question I asked Shannon the other day while out on a walk. Her answer was very insightful and showed me an area […]

For decades, women have been stereotyped (often unfairly) as moody and grumpy during their time-of-the-month. And yet, there’s always a little truth in sarcasm. In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’re taking a light-hearted, look at this very real dynamic in our relationship.

Has your wife ever said, “You don’t understand me” or, ” You just don’t care? If that’s you (and it probably is if you’ve been married longer than 15 minutes), then you need to learn the strange and mysterious art of empathy. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’re answering a question from […]

For marriage to work, you have to listen to the needs of your spouse and be willing to give up some of the things you want. But what do you do if your husband would rather do things he likes by himself instead of choosing to be together? In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage […]

Lying. If it’s done once, it’s easier to forgive. If it becomes a pattern, it will destroy trust and any chance of intimacy in your relationship. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’re dealing with this painful subject and offering a healthy way of addressing the issue with your husband.