If your marriage has been struggling for awhile, you may not know the first steps you need to take to make things better. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we look at how to start rebuilding trust and improve communication so you can start down the road to reconciliation.

Few things are as painful as being married to a husband who insists nothing’s wrong and he doesn’t need to change even though he acts in hurtful and offensive ways on a daily basis. The feelings of helplessness and hopelessness can become overwhelming and discouraging. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we take […]

Sometimes the person you marry isn’t always welcomed into the family. There may be snide comments, back-handed insults, or even overtly insulting behavior. When you’re torn between your family and your spouse, who do you choose? With the holiday’s coming up, this is a timely topic to touch on. We hope you’ll find some thought-provoking […]

It’s took us a little while, but we’ve finally made it to our 100th episode! This podcast has been one of our favorite thing to do together, and we hope you’ve found it entertaining and maybe a little helpful in your relationship. To celebrate, we thought we should give away something cool and awesome and […]

It’s the little things that make or break a marriage… like chores. Ironically, it’s not about the chores. It’s about the disappointed expectations. It’s about feeling used or unappreciated. It’s about the family systems you grew up in clashing with the family system your spouse grew up in. Chores mean so much more than just […]

Even though they can drive you crazy at times, children can be a blessing in your marriage. But what happens when you and your spouse disagree on having kids? For some couples, this can be a deal breaker in the relationship. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll help you understand why the […]

If your marriage has been a struggle, you may find ourself sitting in marital remorse (it’s sort of like buyer’s remorse). The brand new, shiny husband your wife you drove off the lot starts to fade and they don’t look like such a wise “purchase” anymore. If you let marital remorse go unchecked, it can […]

So, your husband or wife says they want to lose some weight. Then you watch them make multiple trips into the kitchen to grab some cookies after dinner. What do you do? Do you tell them to stop it? Do you hide the cookies? When you see them doing things that are self-sabotaging, how do […]

(Shannon wanted an entire episode all about her, but she didn’t want to admit it, so this is what we did.) This year has been a monumental year for my wife. Listen in and hear about some of the monster goals she’s set for herself and what’s it’s taken for her to overcome the internal […]

For many marriages, traveling usually causes conflict and fights. In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, listen in as we talk about our latest 27 hour road trip where we enjoyed ZERO conflict (and how you could do it too).