When your husband or wife says they’ll do something and then they drop the ball and don’t follow through, doubt and mistrust starts to creep in (understandably). When this happens over and over, it can be tough to rebuild trust again. In this episode, we’re opening the virtual mail bag and tackling a real scenario […]

Wouldn’t it be nice to stop wasting time and finally get down to the REAL issues in your marriage? We think so too. That’s why in this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast we introduce a new super-simple tool that does exactly that.

Driving home from work the other day, I came up with a super simple technique that makes communicating with your spouse more awesomer. Even better, I came up with a crazy title you’re likely not to forget (which means you’re more apt to actually use it and enjoy the benefits of it). If you want […]

If you’re like us, whenever your husband or wife is hurting because of something they’ve done to themselves, it’s… (how do I put it)… “difficult” to show them support and understanding. Yet, believe it or not, this is one of the BEST times to show them kindness and empathy. WHY? Great question. Glad you asked. […]

Everyone knows, as a married couple you need to know how to resolve conflict. But wouldn’t it be better to know how to avoid the conflict in the first place? In today’s podcast episode, listen in and find out how a misplaced bed sheet helped us discover one of the best tools at preventing conflict […]

If you’re the one who ALWAYS has to go first because your husband or wife won’t initiate, it’s easy to become resentful, discouraged, and disappointed. You may even be tempted to start withdrawing and telling yourself, “I’m not going to try any more until THEY start trying harder.” In this episode of the Secure Marriage […]

The holiday season isn’t always the easiest, especially when it involves extended family. Old conflicts… Unresolved tensions… Unspoken expectations… all of these lead to stress and frustration. And who usually gets the brunt of your distress? Yep. Your husband or wife. To avoid hurting each other this holiday season, we’ve put together a short list […]

Admit it. If your spouse changed that one-little-thing about them, you’d probably be a lot happier. Right? Everyone wants to change their spouse a little bit. So why not give your spouse the best… gift… ever… and do that FOR them. Take a few minutes and ask yourself, “What can I do differently that would […]

Sex can become frustrating when it feels like you’re not wanted by your spouse. If you’re not careful, it can lead to a battle-of-the-wills and a toxic game of who’s-gonna-go-first. We don’t want this to happen to your marriage. In this episode you’ll learn the healthy way to handle your frustration and disappointment in your […]

What if you had to do just one thing to GUARANTEE you’ll have an awesome marriage? Sound too good to be true? Feeling a little skeptical? That’s totally understandable. Yet, we think we’ve found “The Magic Question” that comes pretty darn close. Want to know what it is? (Of course you do). Just listen to […]