In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’re tapping into some of the wisdom from your favorite mustachioed “football” coach and how he and his fellow Richmond characters can actually help you have a happier and more intimate relationship with your husband or wife.

So, you want to work on making your marriage better, but the idea of sitting in some hotel ballroom for two days sounds about as fun as doing your taxes. That’s why you and your spouse should join us for 8 days on board the luxurious Harmony of the Seas cruise ship seeing unforgettable places, eating amazing food, and learning how to have a deeply loving relationship.

You know how we’re constantly saying, “We don’t have a perfect marriage, but we do have a Secure Marriage.” Well, in today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast we’ll let you listen in on a fight we had over the weekend and, more importantly, how we resolved it and got reconnected. (This episode is a little different from our normal format but we think you’ll find it informative.)

Being emotionally vulnerable isn’t always easy for men (duh). What makes it harder is when a husband makes an awkward attempt at sharing their feelings and are met with criticism and critique. It reinforces the “this-was-a-bad-idea” part of their brain.

In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’re looking how wives can make it easier for their husbands to open up to them.

Your survival brain says, “I want to make sure I get all my needs met first.” So what happens when two people, both with legitimate needs, are in the same room? Who’s supposed to give up their needs to serve the other? That’s the question we’re going to answer on today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast.

You’ve probably heard the phrase, “Hurt people hurt people”. Unfortunately, the words your spouse throws at you in the midst of their pain can leave permanent wounds.

In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast we’ll look at how those situations develop in marriage and what you can do to start healing from those verbal attacks.

Do you want to get some outside help for your marriage, but your husband doesn’t want to “air our dirty laundry” to some stranger? In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll look at why some people are highly resistant to seeking help, even though their marriage is falling apart.

You’ve heard the terms “love & respect” thrown around for years now, but chances are you don’t actually understand what they really mean when it comes to marriage and relationships. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll break down what each term really means and how it applies to your relationship.

P.S. You’ll also get to hear us work through a minor conflict we bumped into while recording this episode.

Are you an Unconventional Couple? If you are, then you probably have a happier marriage than most couples out there. Why? Listen to today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast to find out.

Does it feel like you made a huge mistake by getting married? Wish you could have a do-over? On today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll look at the mindset you need to have if you’re going to have a happy and long-lasting relationship.