Recognizing and responding to emotional calls (or bids) is considered one of the key elements of a successful relationship. Unfortunately, not all husbands have been trained to see these opportunities when they come along. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’re looking at why this is so hard for some men and what […]

For many people, being able to identify and verbally articulate their feelings feels like an impossible task. When overwhelmed, they simply freeze up and can’t think. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll look at why this happens and what you can do to start getting more connected with your emotional brain. Music […]

What is the fastest and most effective way to deal with your past hurts and hangups? Do you have to do years and years of therapy? Do you have to spend thousands of dollars hoping to find the “thing” that’s going to make you feel better? In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll […]

What if you’ve tried everything you can think of to make your husband feel loved and appreciated and he still feels like you’re not trying hard enough? This is the sticky question we’re wrestling with on today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast.

Have you tried everything you can think of to get connected to your husband, only to walk away feeling hopeless and discouraged? There may be a deeper issue going on that you’ve never learned about… until now. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll teach you about this “thing” that so many disconnected […]

Well, we made it! Shannon and I just got back from our first-ever Secure Marriage Cruise to the Mexican Riviera. In between sitting by the pool, zip lining, and having amazing food, we had a great time helping our cruise guests learn how to have a happier marriage.  Today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast […]

Different sexual drives don’t have to ruin your relationship. Problems arise when you stop trying to understand—or actually stop caring about—the needs and feelings of your spouse. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast we look at the most essential part of marriage (which is not actually sex).

Even though communication is important in any happy marriage, it’s actually the bi-product of something much more important. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast we’ll tell you what that thing is and what you can do to work on creating it in your relationship.

There are very clear signs when your relationship has crossed over from a bad relationship to an abusive relationship. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’re looking at those markers and what you need to do if you find yourself in this painful situation.

You’ve probably heard that marriage is hard, and the people who say that aren’t wrong. But, believe it or not, having a happy and fulfilling marriage isn’t THAT hard. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast we’re going to tell you the one simple thing ANY couple can do that will guarantee them having […]