It can be hard to do kind and loving things for your husband or wife when the warm, lovey feelings aren’t there. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast we’ll help you understand how you can have a healthy and loving marriage even when it’s hard.

If you’re in the military, or business requires you to be gone from home for extended periods of time, it can be hard to have a healthy and vibrant marriage.  In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast we’re answering the questions of a young couple who have spent months apart because of military service.

If you’re a wife with kids, a job, chores, a dog, and a husband—all of which need your time and attention, how do you prioritize and meet everyone’s needs? In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast we’ll tell you how to get you and your husband on the same page so you don’t have […]

What do you do when your wife won’t stop attacking you despite every effort to de-escalate the situation? Is there something you can do or is the situation hopeless? In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast we’re going to show you the wisest, and safest, path out of this difficult situation.

Even though relationships are complex, there’s one thing that’s been proven to be the most important if you want to have a happy and long lasting relationship. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll tell you what that thing is and give you some of the research to back it up. We hope […]

If you’re married, you’re going to have fights. But if you use the tools we’re going to teach you in today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, you’ll be able to resolve those fights in less than 20 minutes.

What do you do if you want another child, but your husband doesn’t and wants to get a vasectomy? Where is the compromise? This is the difficult question we’re tackling in today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast. Even though this is not an easy topic, there is a clear way to have this hard […]

So… you’ve just shared your honest opinion with your spouse, and instead of them saying, “Thanks for sharing” it leads to a huge fight. They feel hurt and attacked by your ideas, and you feel dismissed and rejected. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I will tell you why this keeps […]

You probably know what it feels like when you’re in a bad relationship, but can you clearly answer what it looks like to be in a good relationship? Is there an objective standard that you should be striving for? We think the answer is ‘ABSOLUTELY’ and in today’s episode of the Secure Marriage podcast we’ll […]

As your relationship moves through time, the feelings of “love” start to change. If those changes feel like you’re losing something or things are getting worse, you may start to consider making some bad decisions. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’re talking about how to respond when the emotional feelings of love […]