If it feels like your spouse is hiding things from you, it’s tempting to try and find “proof” of their wrongdoing. While this seems like a good idea at the time, it is a symptom of bigger problems in the marriage. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast we’re exploring the core issues of […]

Taking responsibility, apologizing, and validating your spouse’s feelings are supposed to make things better, right? So what happens when you do that and your spouse sees this as an opportunity to lash out and attack you more? In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast we’ll discuss why this tends to happen and the practical […]

If you feel taken advantage of because your spouse expects you to do all the chores, you’re going to want to listen to today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast. In this episode, you learn two ways to make the chores feel “fair” and you’ll stop fighting about who does what.

For years (okay… for centuries), there’s been a debate on the purpose of marriage. Should it be for your own happiness or should it be for the happiness of your spouse and children. On today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast we’ll answer this age-old question once and for all so you can enjoy your […]

Does your husband embarrass you whenever he expresses his strong feelings? Do you wish he would be more conscientious of how his behaviors are affecting others? On today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast we talk about how to navigate talking with your spouse without sounding critical or complaining.

Every relationship has its ups and downs. How you move through them will either build more connection or lead to more conflict.  In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast we’ll give you some ideas on how to navigate these rough waters safely.

If your spouse has betrayed your trust by having an affair, you’re probably doing everything you can think of to survive? The anger, hurt, confusion, and loss probably feels overwhelming and you’re not sure if your marriage is going to survive. On today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll explore what both people have […]

Most couples are trying to stay “independent” and failing. They have this flawed belief that they can get married and still live their life as if they are single. When you choose to get married, you are saying, “I now have to take someone else’s thoughts and feelings into account with every decision I make”. […]

Today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast is part two of Shannon’s Tough Mudder saga. You’ll find out how well she did, how far she actually went, and how she overcame the mental and physical obstacles that tried to hold her back.

Shannon is an incredible woman. Earlier this year, she made the decision to run a 30K mud run at the end of September. This is the hardest thing she’s ever done, and it’s stirred up lots of feelings about her abilities, her self-worth, and her fear of failure. It also stirred up a few feelings […]