Lending your time to take care of a loved one is a selfless act. But what happens when you lose a part of who you are during the process. I'm sharing 4 tips on how to supercharge your soul when caring for the person you love becomes a burden to you.

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Make It Happen Journal - https://tyalexander.co/downloads/p/make-it-happen-journal

5 Day Gratitude Challenge - https://tyalx.com/gratitude-challenge

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Unpacking is just being mindful or aware. And not just being present in your feelings but also being aware of being aware. In this episode, I share some deeply personal stories that led me to be more mindful which has allowed me to easily unpack my emotional suitcase.

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Make It Happen Journal - https://tyalexander.co/downloads/p/make-it-happen-journal

5 Day Gratitude Challenge - https://tyalx.com/gratitude-challenge

My debut book, Things I Wish I Knew Before My Mom Died, is available in bookstores everywhere - https://amzn.to/3M7BZ8h

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When we think about boundaries we typically think about all of the times people overstep them. But we don’t ever really discuss how we come to set realistic boundaries, how to express our boundaries to people AND how to hold people accountable. In this episode, I dissect, unpack, and unravel what boundaries mean to me and how to set boundaries that are really clear.

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Make It Happen Journal - https://tyalexander.co/downloads/p/make-it-happen-journal

5 Day Gratitude Challenge - https://tyalx.com/gratitude-challenge

My debut book, Things I Wish I Knew Before My Mom Died, is available in bookstores everywhere - https://amzn.to/3M7BZ8h

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Join in on my intimate writings on newsletter - https://tyalx.com/mentalnotes

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Don’t worry you’re not soft or a punk it is totally natural. In the episode, I explain why I have no fcuks left to give and will also lay down the law on how you can mimic my behavior.

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Make It Happen Journal - https://tyalexander.co/downloads/p/make-it-happen-journal

5 Day Gratitude Challenge - https://tyalx.com/gratitude-challenge

My debut book, Things I Wish I Knew Before My Mom Died, is available in bookstores everywhere - https://amzn.to/3M7BZ8h

CONNECT WITH US:

Join in on my intimate writings on newsletter - https://tyalx.com/mentalnotes

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Confession, there’s a little bit of that girl in us all. In this episode, I get real with myself about why I abandon greatness for procrastination and laziness. I set a few goals for myself that are guaranteed to be useful AF to you.

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Make It Happen Journal - https://tyalexander.co/downloads/p/make-it-happen-journal

5 Day Gratitude Challenge - https://tyalx.com/gratitude-challenge

My debut book, Things I Wish I Knew Before My Mom Died, is available in bookstores everywhere - https://amzn.to/3M7BZ8h

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Join in on my intimate writings on newsletter - https://tyalx.com/mentalnotes

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With the holidays creeping up on us it’s easy to sink into situational depression. In this episode, I reveal how depression has held me hostage and how I keep pushing even when there is little push left.

RESOURCES:

Make It Happen Journal - https://tyalexander.co/downloads/p/make-it-happen-journal

5 Day Gratitude Challenge - https://tyalx.com/gratitude-challenge

My debut book, Things I Wish I Knew Before My Mom Died, is available in bookstores everywhere - https://amzn.to/3M7BZ8h

CONNECT WITH US:

Join in on my intimate writings on newsletter - https://tyalx.com/mentalnotes

Also. Consider subscribing on Apple Podcasts to unlock our besties subscriber only audio experience. You'll get exclusive audio, interviews, ad free episodes, and monthly guided meditations.

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It’s time to lessen likability’s hold on you. In this episode, I break down our obsession with being well-liked and share what I have unpacked about not being liked from my experiences living in New York.

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Make It Happen Journal - https://tyalexander.co/downloads/p/make-it-happen-journal

5 Day Gratitude Challenge - https://tyalx.com/gratitude-challenge

My debut book, Things I Wish I Knew Before My Mom Died, is available in bookstores everywhere - https://amzn.to/3M7BZ8h

CONNECT WITH US:

Join in on my intimate writings on newsletter - https://tyalx.com/mentalnotes

Also. Consider subscribing on Apple Podcasts to unlock our besties subscriber only audio experience. You'll get exclusive audio, interviews, ad free episodes, and monthly guided meditations.

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I'm breaking down why ghosting should not be your first choice of communication and giving you a cheat sheet on how to be a better communicator.

RESOURCES:

Make It Happen Journal - https://tyalexander.co/downloads/p/make-it-happen-journal

5 Day Gratitude Challenge - https://tyalx.com/gratitude-challenge

My debut book, Things I Wish I Knew Before My Mom Died, is available in bookstores everywhere - https://amzn.to/3M7BZ8h

CONNECT WITH US:

Join in on my intimate writings on newsletter - https://tyalx.com/mentalnotes

Also. Consider subscribing on Apple Podcasts to unlock our besties subscriber only audio experience. You'll get exclusive audio, interviews, ad free episodes, and monthly guided meditations.

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I'm exploring the idea of accepting death as a blessing rather than a curse. I also offer listeners advice on how to grieve without guilt while celebrating your own life.

RESOURCES:

Make It Happen Journal - https://tyalexander.co/downloads/p/make-it-happen-journal

5 Day Gratitude Challenge - https://tyalx.com/gratitude-challenge

My debut book, Things I Wish I Knew Before My Mom Died, is available in bookstores everywhere - https://amzn.to/3M7BZ8h

CONNECT WITH US:

Join in on my intimate writings on newsletter - https://tyalx.com/mentalnotes

Also. Consider subscribing on Apple Podcasts to unlock our besties subscriber only audio experience. You'll get exclusive audio, interviews, ad free episodes, and monthly guided meditations.

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In this episode, I celebrate "Be Kind to Humankind" week by asking, are you a kind person...to yourself? I help you unpack what being kind actually feels like and give you three approachable tips on how you can be kinder to yourself.

RESOURCES:

Make It Happen Journal - https://tyalexander.co/downloads/p/make-it-happen-journal

5 Day Gratitude Challenge - https://tyalx.com/gratitude-challenge

My debut book, Things I Wish I Knew Before My Mom Died, is available in bookstores everywhere - https://amzn.to/3M7BZ8h

CONNECT WITH US:

Join in on my intimate writings on newsletter - https://tyalx.com/mentalnotes

Also. Consider subscribing on Apple Podcasts to unlock our besties subscriber only audio experience. You'll get exclusive audio, interviews, ad free episodes, and monthly guided meditations.

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Self Care IRL on IG: https://tyalx.com/selfcareirl-ig

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