SelfHealers Soundboard

This episode is a direct request from our podcast community. We talk about heartbreak, how it feels in the body, and how to heal from it. Heartbreak doesn’t just come from romantic relationships, it comes from many different situations in life that we break down in this episode.

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We often use lying as a way to manage or control situations. We feel if we to tell the truth, we would be rejected or abandoned. It's important to reflect on why we are lying and learn how to speak our truth. This is how we have authentic, healthy relationships. In this episode, we dive deep into lying: understanding why people do it, and how we can stop this pattern.

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Bullying doesn’t end in childhood. Many of us experience bullying as adults. In this episode, we discuss why people bully others, how to deal with it, & why bullying is a part of a bigger systemic issue.

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FREE Future Self Journal:

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Unaddressed anger can create resentment. When we feel resentment what we’re feeling is a need of ours that’s been ignored or a boundary that’s been violated. In this episode, we talk about the impact of holding on to resentment and how we can work through it.

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FREE Future Self Journal:

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This episode is by request by one of our listeners. Regret can take a heavy toll. We make choices and second guess ourselves, or wonder what could have been. Join us as we break down how to reframe regret in an empowering way.

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FREE Future Self Journal:

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Dr. Gabor Maté is a world-renowned expert on trauma, addiction, and childhood development. His new book “The Myth Of Normal” is a must read for anyone healing generational trauma. It’s a true honor to have Dr. Maté on the podcast. This enlightening conversation is a must listen.

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FREE Future Self Journal:

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It’s important to be compassionate, and it’s also important to keep boundaries with our compassion. If we don’t, we can fall into people pleasing and enabling. In this episode, we talk about how to be compassionate without enabling. 

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In this episode, we break down how the nervous system works in relationships. This episode will bring you more awareness of how to create healthy relationships, how to stay in your body, & how to cope when you’re dysregulated.

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FREE Future Self Journal:

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All of us have dysfunctional patterns. Along our life journey, we pick up many coping mechanisms or behaviors that no longer serve us. Understanding our patterns is the first step in unlearning them. In this episode, we talk about how these patterns show up in relationships & what you can do to change them.

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FREE Future Self Journal:

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We live in a world of seeking external validation. This can keep us in patterns where we’re doing things just to please others— leaving us resentful or burnt out. Learning how to validate yourself helps us be more authentic and creates healthier relationships.

NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK:

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JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE:

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GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF:

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GET HOW TO DO THE WORK:

https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X

FREE Future Self Journal:

https://theholisticpsychologist.com/