Dr. Rob and Tami answer a question from a very hurt spouse. Her husband has found himself sexually attracted to amarried woman, and although he was honest with her, she can't understand why he'll respect the marriage of a stranger but not his own marriage. What's going on with this person? Does he have so little care about their own marriage? Dr. Rob and Tami share some insights.

TAKEAWAYS:

[:25] My SA has no empathy. Is this fixable?

[4:40] How do I know if my addict truly wants to change?

[10:45] My addict is sexually attracted to our son's new teacher. He stopped himself because 'she was married'. This angers me.

[18:25] Do you think the Green book or the Big Book is better for a porn addict?

[22:00] How do I get over toxic shame?

[25:35] You never truly get over your trauma.

[30:00] My addict won't seek help and we're divorcing. How should I approach co-parenting with this person?

RESOURCES:

Seekingintegrity.com

Email Tami: [email protected]

Sexandrelationshiphealing.com

Intherooms.com

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