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   Number 1: 196: How Your Nervous System Shapes Your Love Life

   What if the biggest obstacle to finding love isn't your dating app, your age, or your relationship history, but your nervous system? In this fascinating conversation, Bela Gandhi sits down with nervous system educator and physiotherapist Jessica Maguire to uncover how your body's stress response influences attraction, dating anxiety, emotional availability, and relationship success. If you've ever overthought a text message, felt instant chemistry with the wrong person, or struggled to trust your instincts while dating, this episode will help you understand why. You'll learn why emotional safety is the foundation of healthy relationships, how to recognize when your nervous system is driving your decisions, and practical ways to become calmer, more confident, and more intentional in love. Whether you're dating after divorce, getting back out there, or simply ready to build a healthier relationship, this episode is full of practical insights that can change the way you date. In this episode you'll learn: • Why dating anxiety starts in the nervous system • The difference between chemistry and emotional safety • How childhood experiences shape adult relationships • Why emotional regulation leads to better dating decisions • How to stop asking, "Do they like me?" and start asking, "Do I like them?" Ready to create the healthy relationship you deserve? Apply to work with the Smart Dating Academy coaching team: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact Learn more: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com Jessica's Website: www.jessicamaguire.com

   September 21, 2026·56min
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   Number 2: 195: Why You Know What to Do in Dating But Still Don't Do It: The Secret to Changing Your Patterns and Finding Healthy Love with Masha Kay

   You know what to do in dating. So why is it still so hard to do it? In this powerful conversation, Bela Gandhi sits down with nervous system coach Masha Kay to explore why so many successful people stay stuck in familiar dating patterns, even when they know better. If you've ever wondered why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, struggle with dating anxiety, or can't seem to find healthy relationships despite doing all the "right" things, this episode is for you. You'll learn: • Why your nervous system influences every dating decision • Why awareness alone doesn't create lasting change • How emotional safety changes who you're attracted to • Practical ways to stop repeating unhealthy relationship patterns Whether you're dating after divorce, looking to find love again, or simply ready for healthier relationships, this conversation offers hope, clarity, and actionable insights. Apply to work with Smart Dating Academy: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact Learn more: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com

   September 07, 2026·1h 1min
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   Number 3: 194: Chemistry vs. Compatibility: Sabrina Bendory on Breaking the Good Girl Pattern to Find Lasting Love | Bela Gandhi

   Chemistry feels exciting. Compatibility creates lasting love. Have you ever met someone who gave you instant butterflies, only to discover later that the relationship left you anxious, exhausted, or questioning yourself? In this episode, Bela Gandhi sits down with bestselling author and relationship coach Sabrina Bendory to explore why so many smart, successful people mistake chemistry for compatibility. Together, they unpack the hidden patterns that keep us chasing emotionally unavailable partners and explain why healthy love often feels very different than what we've been taught to expect. Whether you're dating after divorce, healing from heartbreak, or simply ready to build a healthier relationship, this conversation offers practical tools to help you date with more confidence, clarity, and self-worth. In this episode you'll learn: • The real difference between chemistry and compatibility • Why emotionally unavailable partners can feel so attractive • How childhood conditioning shapes adult relationships • Why healthy love can feel unfamiliar at first • How to recognize emotional availability • Practical ways to break old dating patterns and find lasting love If you're ready to stop chasing the spark and start building a relationship that actually lasts, this episode is for you. 👉 Apply to work with Smart Dating Academy's dating coaches: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact Learn more: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com

   August 24, 2026·50min
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   Number 4: 193: How to Be Your Authentic Self in Dating, Love & at Work with Claude Silver | Emotional Intelligence, Self-Worth, and Finding Real Connection

   What if the secret to finding love isn’t becoming more impressive, but becoming more you? In this episode, I sit down with Claude Silver, Chief Heart Officer of VaynerX, to talk about authenticity, emotional intelligence, and self-worth in dating. We explore how the way you show up at work mirrors how you show up in love, and why being your real self is the key to finding a healthy, lasting relationship. If you’re dating after divorce, rebuilding confidence, or ready to find love again without settling, this episode is for you. Apply to work with our dating coaches: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact https://www.smartdatingacademy.com

   August 10, 2026·54min
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   Number 5: 191: Understanding Men and Finding Love Again: The Power of Curiosity in Dating | Bela Gandhi & Alison Armstrong

   What if the key to better dating was simple curiosity? In this episode, Bela Gandhi talks with Alison Armstrong about understanding men, improving communication, and finding love again without frustration. If you are dating after divorce or feeling stuck, this conversation will change how you approach relationships. Apply to work with us: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact Website: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com Alison's website: AlisonArmstrong.com

   July 13, 2026·1h 3min
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