Hyperfocus with Rae Jacobson

Suicidal ideation, masking, and overlooked ADHD: A Coast Guard veteran’s story


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Inattentive ADHD often goes unnoticed. It’s an easier type of ADHD to miss because it’s more internal and less outwardly visible than its hyperactive, impulsive counterpart. But left unaddressed, inattentive ADHD can be just as disruptive.

Boys with the inattentive type are especially overlooked — they don’t match the stereotype of what an “ADHD boy” is supposed to look like.

So when Brandon Saiz wrote to us about his experience getting diagnosed with ADHD later in life, we knew we had to talk to him. After meeting with Brandon, it was clear his story needed to be shared.

Content warning: This episode includes discussion of suicide. Please skip it if that’s not something you’re up for right now.

For more on this topic:

  • The 3 types of ADHD
  • Listen: The “devastating” findings of a decades-long ADHD study
  • Brandon Saiz on Substack
  • Duck, Duck! It's a Goose: Brandon's video game

Timestamps

(01:54) Brandon’s background

(09:23) How Brandon’s inattentive-type ADHD was overlooked

(14:00) On suicidal ideation and inattentive ADHD 

(19:57) Brandon’s advice to others

For a transcript and more resources, visit the Hyperfocus page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at [email protected].

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