The Feminist Dating Show

This week, please enjoy a Date Brazen Episode Spotlight, a re-airing of one of Lily's popular podcast episodes. Lily will be back with new episodes in a few weeks! Until then, visit the archives at DateBrazen.com/podcast.

This week's episode is about the "Thank you, more, please!" challenge. This challenge is a powerful tool for those who were taught, "What you want does not exist." Listen in as Lily dares you to look for evidence that what you want DOES to exist in your love, professional, and beyond love life. Tune into this short episode to learn how to implement this challenge today.

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Show notes: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/thank-you-more-please

This week, please enjoy a Date Brazen Episode Spotlight, a re-airing of one of Lily's popular podcast episodes. Lily will be back with new episodes in a few weeks! Until then, visit the archives at DateBrazen.com/podcast.

It's episode 100, y'all! Returning to the show is my partner Chris. He joined me for an Ask Chris and Lily Anything episode in 2020. In this episode, he joins me as my host and asks me some burning questions about dating, relationships, growing Date Brazen, and everything else. Join us for this fun and behind-the-scenes episode!

Hot-takes From This Episode:

• My favorite Date Brazen episodes

• The hardest part of our relationship: being human together.

• What I am most PROUD to say "No," to.

• Do I believe in red flags? Hint: YES!

• Chris shares some of his favorite Date Brazen-isms

Show Notes: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/100th-episode-chris-asks-lily-anything

This week Lily is sharing some behind scenes of her upcoming wedding day. Listen to this fun "Ask me anything about my wedding" episode, inspired by the Date Brazen Instagram community! You'll hear what Lily is doing differently and how she plans to bring main character energy to the special day.

Links:Date Brazen on Instagram Date Brazen on TikTok

"Any time a guy asks me out on a dating app, I get nervous and cancel. Why am I doing this?"

Listen in for Lily's hot take and advice for this listener question.

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Listen in for Lily's piping hot feminist take on a listener question about "Who should pay on a first date?"

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Today, Lily welcomes Jenny Walters to the show. Jenny is a Depth Therapist and Coach for Highly Sensitive People. Together they explore what it means to be a highly sensitive person (HSP), how to navigate relationships as an HSP, and how to embrace your sensitivity as a strength rather than a weakness. Lily and Jenny also discuss the challenges of being an HSP, particularly when your partner is not, and offer practical advice on managing your sensitivity in vulnerable contexts such as dating.

If you're a highly sensitive person or in a relationship with one, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice on navigating the unique challenges and opportunities of being an HSP. Tune in to learn how to step into your power and create revolutionary change in your life and relationships.

Hot-takes from this episode:

• What it means to be a highly sensitive person (HSP)

• What to do when you're an HSP, and your partner is not

• How to manage your sensitivity in a highly vulnerable context such as dating

• Thriving as an HSP: what it means and what it looks like

Links:

The Yes CollectiveJenny on Instagram144. Dating as a single mom + HSP dating with B. Marie SandersDate Brazen on InstagramDate Brazen on TikTok

Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/how-to-thrive-as-an-hsp-with-jenny-walters

This is the REPLAY of my extra special training, Creating a Joyful-As-F*ck Dating Life, hosted on 3.28.23.

This training is brought to you by my signature coaching program, The Brazen Breakthrough (learn more HERE).

Doors close on Friday, March 31st at 11:59pm EST. So listen in for some massive coaching + clarity to see if this program is right for you.

Inside The Brazen Breakthrough, you're going to have the support, the coaching, the community, and the step-by-step plan to attract the best relationship of your life to you with ease.

Can't wait to see you inside 🎉

This week Lily is addressing two common questions asked by participants of her upcoming LIVE training. In this episode, Lily discusses how to get out of scarcity decisions in dating, how to feel worthy of what you want, and how to center yourself in your dating life.

This episode is a reminder to look critically at your dating patterns with self-compassion and embrace an abundance mentality. By doing so, you'll be on your way to finding the magical love you deserve.

Workshop Alert! For folks catching this episode on the day and year that it drops (March 28th, 2023): Tonight is Lily's live training, "Create a Joyful-As-F*ck Dating Life!" You don't want to miss it! Lily is going to teach you how to build a dating life that both feels incredible and attracts the right partner with ease. Go here to RSVP! Hot-takes and how-tos from this episode:

• Why it's important to look at dating patterns with self-compassion

• Recognizing you are deserving of love and affection

• By interrupting the pattern of centering someone else, you can focus on your own desires and center yourself in your dating journey

• The abundance mentality and the belief that what you want exists

Links: Join us for the Create a Joyful-As-Fuck Dating Life Workshop TONIGHT (3/28/23)! Join the Brazen BreakthroughDate Brazen on Instagram Date Brazen on TikTok

Show notes:http://datebrazen.com/blog/get-out-of-scarcity-decisions-in-dating

Are you loving the listener Q&A episodes? If so, today is your lucky day; we have another one for you! This week, Lily unpacks the idea of "my ex raised the bar," the stories we make up about dating standards, and how to reclaim your agency. The listener's question went something like this:

"I am dating with intention right now. I was dating someone six months ago, and he broke my heart. He also raised the bar, but I feel like it's tripping me up. Is holding on to him or wondering about him hurting my chances? If he raised the bar, is that a good thing?"

This episode reminds you that you deserve a relationship with someone who fiercely chooses you. Plus, Lily explores how and why to reclaim agency over "the bar," recognize that you own it, and can continue to raise it (yourself) based on your needs, wants, and desires.

Hot-takes and how-tos:

• Reclaim your agency over the bar - it was and is yours - you own the bar, and you can continue to raise it

• You get to be in a relationship with someone who fiercely chooses you!

• People who are not right for you make themselves apparent to you quickly. Those who are right for you also make themselves apparent quickly.

Links:Join us for the Create a Joyful-As-Fuck Dating Life Workshop on 3/28! Join the Brazen Breakthrough 3-Step Guide to Make Dating Feel Like Self-care Date Brazen on Instagram Date Brazen on TikTok 124.The "Thank You, More, Please!" Challenge! 135. How to create your essence-based preferences 146. "I'm 37 and haven't been on a date. Am I too late?"

Show notes:http://datebrazen.com/blog/did-my-ex-raise-the-bar

RSVP for my live workshop → Creating a Joyful As Fuck Dating Life-- Tuesday, March 28th @ 6pm EST

If you want to join us inside The Brazen Breakthrough, learn more + join us here.

Doors close on March 31st.