EP 59: Are you a midlife woman looking for some secrets & answers just like me? You want answers on how to live your best “everyday midlife” and how to find your next thing in the second half of life. And, some pro makeup tips, products and ideas on how to take care of your skin, create definition and look natural all at the same time. You want to hear from someone who has successfully done it and continues to inspire women each day? Then listen here!

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken, in an open and honest conversation called, “Everyday Midlife” with Bobbi Brown. We discuss her entrepreneurial highlights by founding Bobbi Brown Cosmetics and, more recently, Jones Road Beauty. We dive into multiple makeup tips and products that are essential in midlife…hydration, contour, color…Yes, Bobbi is THE makeup guru! We chat about Bobbi's everyday life, such as how she maintains a great marriage, how she learned how to stop comparing herself to others & finding her own beauty and her philosophies on exercise & nutrition. Yes, Bobbi is not only a successful entrepreneur, but she is also on her own midlife journey just like us…even for her it’s not always glamorous. She’s doing the “work”, just like us. Listen to find out how Bobbi navigates business, family and midlife, and she tells us her fave bread, snacks, workout plan…all the things.

Some Highlights: 

• Bobbi’s favorite part about getting older
• A good life is filled with hard work
• An attitude adjustment can help in difficult situations
• Stop comparing yourself to others, you are your own type of beautiful
• Learning as you go, being scared and doing it anyway
• How to create healthy midlife marriage energy
• Exercise because it feels good for YOU!

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EP 58: Midlife couple’s 50 Shades of Gray with my teenagers away (a month) this summer, NOT quite! No underboob sweat in summer, NOT quite! “Me time bliss” with my husband having a colonoscopy, NOT quite. While summer had “joy points”, it also had some doozies… I am selling off the last midlife brain summer “f*cks” I have left. Are you ready to sell off your last “f*cks”?...then listen to my end of summer random stream of consciousness rant! 

This week, I use my golden sh*t shovel to dig deep into the eventful summer I’ve had in a minisode called, “Midlife Brain Yard Sale”. This summer feels like it has been a chaotic and underboob sweat-filled hot mess and I’m ready to lay it all out. This summer has drained me, but when I find myself in the midlife brain fog/cluster, I remember the things that get me excited & creative to keep going on this midlife journey; this podcast & IG, my friends, online shopping and “light” exercise, so I don’t need to wash my hair. Peeps, it’s the end of summer and I’m selling all the rest of the “f*cks” I have left…and for pretty cheap too lol! What does your midlife brain yard sale consist of?

This minisode is part of the Fun Midlife Sh*t Quickie Minisode Series. This new minisode series is highlighting resonating & edgy midlife sh*t from my IG, solos, and short pop in guests on stuff we are all thinking about, but maybe too embarrassed to ask…and, of course, more random stream of consciousness rants with loads of sarcasm, relatable humor mixed with expert info. Why would you skip?

Some Highlights: 

• How new school years feel like the new year
• My new school year resolutions
• One month of empty nest gone wrong
• Hand fans are a lifesaver!
• Random sickness puts damper on alone time with husband
• Instagram husband’s colonoscopy
• Empty nest feelings already starting, one year countdown to kid number 1

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EP 57: Are you feeling the midlife muffin top? Do you want to manage it, but don't want to get sucked into diet fads? Do you know about the “shimmy & squat” technique for “tucking in your muffin top”? Are you feeling overwhelmed by crazy workouts? It’s time to find your “good enough” in midlife!

This week, I use my golden sh*t shovel to dig deep into body weight, body image and muffin top “growth & management” in midlife, in a minisode called, Muffin Tops & “Good Enough”. I talk about what I call the “good enough” philosophy and how it is not about accepting mediocrity, but giving yourself reasonable goals. We don’t have to become super skinny or eat healthy 24/7…but we do have to take accountability in the lifestyles we choose, while enjoying life. What are you willing to put more work into or cut back on? Some of us will pick eating cleaner, some of us will pick more exercise, while some might not do either. It’s all about finding balance peeps! What is your “good enough” in midlife? What does your “good enough” look like & feel like?

This minisode is part of the Fun Midlife Sh*t Quickie Minisode Series. This new minisode series is highlighting resonating & edgy midlife sh*t from my IG, solos, and short pop in guests on stuff we are all thinking about, but maybe too embarrassed to ask…and, of course, more random stream of consciousness rants with loads of sarcasm, relatable humor mixed with expert info. Why would you skip?

Some Highlights: 

• What is your “good enough”?
• You know your limits, don't push them because of societal norms
• Finding balance without going overboard
• Create a workout that is fun for you
• Stretchy jeans are a lifesaver!
• Do what soothes your soul
• Self obsession is allowed in midlife

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EP 56: Um…Do you ever feel like your midlife “check engine” light is on? Your VJ, all its parts & your libido are in need of a tune up? Do you experience pain or discomfort during sex? Do you dread it? Are you an empty nester with more free time for pleasure (lol), but perimenopause or menopause is making it difficult? Your spouse thinks maybe you should take up pole dancing and you just want to crawl into bed with your ugly pj’s on? Do you feel you can’t reach the same satisfaction you did before midlife? Don’t give up! 

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken, in an open and honest conversation called, “Under The Midlife Hood.” My guest, Dr. Jill Krapf, is a Board-Certified OB/GYN who specializes in female sexual pain, including vulvodynia, overactive pelvic floor muscle dysfunction and vulvar lichen sclerosus. We discuss understanding vaginal pain and learning that it does not have to become our new normal. Jill teaches us not to settle for less when it comes to comfort and pleasure in midlife sexual and vaginal health. Jill also explains the importance of knowing our bodies, doing our research on vaginal products and finding a specialist if your needs are not met by your regular gynecologist. There are vulvar specialists just like her, if you can’t make it to Washington D.C.  Midlife is a time where we should focus on our health & happiness…and that includes in the bedroom! Use it or lose it baby!

Some Highlights: 

• How to decrease pain & increase pleasure
• Pain & discomfort are not your new normal
• The importance of knowing your body inside & out
• Picking products carefully
• Do not “just deal with it” in midlife
• Help is out there, try a specialist!

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EP 55: When you are traveling do you ever feel like you’re constantly missing something? Do you get told you overpack? Have you ever had a family trip go completely haywire? Missing luggage, sicknesses, no toilet paper? And, if you haven’t, let me tell you how to avoid all of this. This minisode is quite the laugh!

This week, I use my golden sh*t shovel to dig deep into the origins of my travel medicine bag in a minisode called, “Never Carry-On Luggage In Midlife”. I’ve recently been posting my medicine bag on my IG and I have been getting so many comments on it! So, I thought I’d share with you the reason behind the medicine bag and why it has become THE essential travel item. I talk about the Kenya community service trip I took with my family, the chaotic events that occurred and why it sparked the medicine bag. I also explain why, as a midlifer, I NEVER just have carry-on luggage. Remember, it’s not over packing if you need all of it…

This minisode is part of the Fun Midlife Sh*t Quickie Minisode Series. This new minisode series is highlighting resonating & edgy midlife sh*t from my IG, solos, and short pop in guests on stuff we are all thinking about, but maybe too embarrassed to ask…and, of course, more random stream of consciousness rants with loads of sarcasm, relatable humor mixed with expert info. Why would you skip?

Some Highlights: 

• Always pack a medicine bag
• Don’t accept judgment for your packing choices
• Pack for all possible outcomes
• Don’t cut your connecting flights too close
• Extra tissues and socks are lifesavers!
• Don’t let others give you their limits

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EP 54: Are you or a loved one currently going through a midlife “sickness” diagnosis or the weight of the mental and physical changes of menopause? Then this episode might be able to help shed some light on a sometimes seemingly dark path. 

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken, in an open and honest conversation called, “Creating Light In Midlife Darkness.” My guest, Jen Delvaux, is a podcaster, author, health & fitness coach and cancer “thriver” and we discuss taking cancer by the horns, learning and growing from it. In this episode, we learn about Jen and her husband’s journey with their individual cancer diagnoses. Turning the “storm” into “silver lining” life moments & changes. Jen walks us through the changes she has had to make in her everyday life for recurring cancer prevention & midlife health. We also go deep into the difficult and meaningful conversations with her husband regarding the end of life, and her changed mindset all due to their diagnoses.

Some Highlights: 

• There is more than just medicine
• How to confront a loved one or friend who has been diagnosed with cancer
• Meaningful marriage cancer conversations
• You have to figure out who you are after your diagnosis 
• Enjoy the little things in life, don’t focus on the negative
• Fear is its own form of cancer
• It's all about the mindset

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EP 53: The midlife hamster wheel keeps spinning! Why can’t I get off? We hate it, but stay on it anyway. WHY WHY WHY? Do you feel like you are just constantly spinning in a circle, doing the same sh*t over and over? Do you keep making promises to yourself to start new habits, drink more water, exercise more, eat more nutritious food, maybe more sex? Lol. The familiar Groundhog Day/hamster lifestyle is so much easier because it’s on routine, requires no thought, risks or new pushes of effort. But, it also tastes like stale bread and moldy cheese.

This week, I use my golden sh*t shovel to dig deep into how to spark change in midlife by working on your inner midlife hamster, in my new minisode, “Evolving Your Inner Midlife Hamster”. I discuss how to jump off of the midlife hamster wheel, stop repeating and start evolving to start midlife remixing! This is not overnight. It is a process of asking yourself specific questions to get in the right mindset and little behavioral tweaks to create habits. In this minisode, I give advice from a couple experts who I follow and my own personal experiences. I explain small steps we can make each day to help us get to where we want to be. If you are looking to make a change in your midlife, then maybe this minisode can be your first step off the hamster wheel. I have some real life examples of simple sh*t you can do. If I can do it, believe me, you can. 

This minisode is part of the Fun Midlife Sh*t Quickie Minisode Series. This new minisode series is highlighting resonating & edgy midlife sh*t from my IG, solos, and short pop in guests on stuff we are all thinking about, but maybe too embarrassed to ask…and, of course, more random stream of consciousness rants with loads of sarcasm, relatable humor mixed with expert info. Why would you skip?

Some Highlights: 

• Are you repeating or evolving?
• Asking yourself three important questions to get started
• Nutritional and physical lifestyle small hacks
• Crossing “the river of change”
• Understanding the “why” to get to the “how”
• Lean into the uncomfortable 
• Finding the right mindset to start a habit, motivation vs. consistency
• Don’t be afraid to surprise yourself!

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EP 52 Pt. 2: Are you looking for bottom line advice on the midlife journey? Wanting to learn how to “give zero f*cks in midlife? Not be afraid of failure? Eating healthier for you, your health and your libido? And, finding joy in each day…as we only live in this body one time…These are some of the things on my midlife brain This is a two part episode! Listen to Part 1 from last week if you missed out!

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken, in an open and honest conversation called, Zero F*cks In Midlife. The golden nuggets from my chat with Jennifer are endless! In Part 2, we discuss how Jen’s midlife has improved by “choosing her” and giving zero f*cks! We dive deep into all things Jennifer Fisher…from the nutritional lifestyle changes she has made that have had a positive effect on her libido and a total reset on how she feels in her own body…to her relationship with her teens and husband. And there are even more beauty, lifestyle & nutrition secrets! Plus don’t miss her bottom line advice for women in midlife! If I peaked your interest, then this is the episode for you. The midlife juicy advice is dripping! 

Some Highlights: 

• Eating healthy and midlife hormones
• Do your research
• Diversify your friendships
• Finding the joy in each day
• Age like you!
• Jennifer’s bottom line advice on the midlife journey

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EP 52 Pt. 1: Do you want to start something new in midlife, but don’t know where to start? Does your midlife passion project include a new business venture, eating healthier, or connecting more with your children and/or finding more joy? Wanting to hear about how you can start giving zero f*cks. This is a two part episode. Part 2 is next week…

Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken, in an open and honest conversation called, Zero F*cks In Midlife. My guest, Jennifer Fisher, is a jewelry designer, entrepreneur and kitchen & recipe guru. This is a two part episode where we discuss juggling business, family and midlife. Jennifer is chatting with us on how to improve our nutritional & physical health in midlife…getting our heads in the “can do” mindset. She is also guiding us on her personal and entrepreneurial journey, the ups and downs…how to be fearless & step out of the comfort zone. And, of course, Jen gives us her beauty & lifestyle exact secrets and tips..foods, exercise, make up and clothing. If I peaked your interest, then this is the episode for you. Listen to part 1 today!!!!!

Some Highlights: 

• How to start your midlife passion project
• Don't be afraid of failure
• Listen to your intuition
• Don't let people put you in a box
• There is no magic pill
• Health and libido
• Normalize awkward conversations with your teens

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EP 51: Are you in a midlife marriage or partnership that needs a freshen you? Listen to this week’s minisode, “Not So Ordinary Midlife Marriage Advice”. 32 minute episode!

Squeeze it in! This week, I use my golden sh*t shovel to dig deep into my “Not Your Ordinary Marriage Advice” IG post as I celebrate my 18th wedding anniversary. Why were there 235 comments? You guys had a lot to say so I’m jumping back into the conversation. I’m giving 15 juicy midlife marriage tips that are sure to bring some ease into those small, but pesky situations that we face daily. I also explain some of the intricacies of my marriage, the ups and downs and how we make it work in midlife. Like anything important in life, marriage is work and we have to make sure we are putting in an equal amount of effort.

This minisode is part of the Fun Midlife Sh*t Quickie Minisode Series. This new minisode series is highlighting resonating & edgy midlife sh*t from my IG, solos, and short pop in guests on stuff we are all thinking about, but maybe too embarrassed to ask…and, of course, more random stream of consciousness rants with loads of sarcasm, relatable humor mixed with expert info. Why would you skip?

Some Highlights: 

• How to have a successful midlife marriage
• 15 midlife marriage quick tips 
• What are the changes in your marriage?
• There is no such thing as a perfect marriage
• Marriage is teamwork
• Your spouse/partner is not a mind reader
• Find time to focus on each other and yourself

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