The Gaslight Effect Podcast

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern has a conversation with Dr. Craig Dowden, a renowned psychologist, executive coach, and author who specializes in unraveling the complexities of gaslighting and its impact on individuals and organizations.

For over 25 years, Craig has been fascinated by the links between positive psychology and the practice of leadership excellence, so much so that he pursued his PhD in Psychology and Business. His personal mission is to bridge the gap between what science knows and what leaders do. Craig is passionate about teaching and coaching. Previously, he was a Professor at Carleton University in Ottawa, Canada where he was twice nominated for the Capital Educators Award. Today, he serves as an executive coach to leaders in the private, public, and not-for-profit sectors while supporting EMBA and AMBA students at the Richard Ivey School of Business.

Dr. Craig Dowden brings a wealth of expertise to our conversation, drawing from his extensive research and clinical experience in psychology and leadership development. As the author of insightful books like "Do Good to Lead Well: The Science and Practice of Positive Leadership" and "A Time To Lead", Craig sheds light on the intersection of leadership, emotional intelligence, and organizational effectiveness.

Join us as we dive deep into the nuances of gaslighting, unpacking its psychological mechanisms and offering empowering insights for reclaiming personal agency and fostering healthier relationships.

Link to Craig's Podcast - Do Good To Lead Well

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On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern engages in a candid conversation with Tracey O'Connell MD, integrative health coach and seasoned medical professional, as they unravel the complexities of gaslighting within the healthcare industry.

Having spent decades navigating the intricate web of medical practice, Tracey opens up about the often unspoken reality of gaslighting experienced by health professionals themselves. From subtle dismissals by peers to the pressure from superiors to prioritize profitability over patient well-being, she shines a light on the pervasive nature of gaslighting within the medical community.

Drawing from her diverse background in conventional medicine and holistic health practices, Tracey shares personal anecdotes and meaningful insights into the detrimental effects of gaslighting on healthcare practitioners. She explores the underlying power dynamics and systemic pressures that contribute to a culture of silence and conformity within medical institutions.

But amidst the challenges, Tracey offers hope. She provides practical strategies and tools for healthcare professionals to reclaim their voice, and integrity in their practice.

Tracey invites us to envision a future where empathy, transparency, and mutual respect reign supreme. It's a call to action for all stakeholders to come together and co-create a healthcare environment that nurtures the well-being of both patients and providers alike.

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On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern dives into the world of emotional intelligence and gaslighting with psychologist and acclaimed author, Daniel Goleman.

Daniel Goleman has left an indelible mark in psychology with his groundbreaking work on emotional intelligence. As an accomplished author, his insights have not only enriched our understanding of the human psyche. Daniel's work has also paved the way for transformative conversations that are foundational for transforming lives - from personal to professional. Many may know Daniel as the Father of Emotional Intelligence, as his 1995 book Emotional Intelligence served to launch the field.

Daniel's new book, Optimal reveals practical methods for using our inner resources to more readily enter an optimal state of high performance and satisfaction while avoiding burnout.

During their conversation, Robin and Daniel focus on the pressing topic of gaslighting, a subtle form of psychological manipulation. They unravel the layers of gaslighting, delving into its tactics, consequences, and the pivotal role emotional intelligence plays in recognizing and countering this destructive behavior.

As an author who has explored the depths of human emotions, Daniel Goleman brings a unique perspective to the discussion that goes beyond the surface, exploring the nuances of gaslighting and its impact on our well-being.

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Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews Hannah Husain, an eighteen year old student researching gaslighting interactions in relationships - particularly in teenagers.

Hannah's first encounter with gaslighting occured when her friend had wanted to go to a concert, and was unintentionally gaslighted by her mom into not going.

Robin and Hannah discuss how, even if parents are not intentionally meaning to gaslight, the effect on their children can be long lasting.

Robin points out how in some cases wanting someone to feel better by having them believe your reality rather than their own, perpetuates a feeling that others know better than them, thus undermining that person's confidence.

Hannah and Robin talk about how social media can influence decisions like what you should eat, and how you should exercise. It is important to have relationships and sources of information offline to keep you grounded. They also examine the role of influencers on social media and the importance of the words these influencers use on their social media posts - and how these words can lead to unintentional (or not) gaslighting.

Developing strong friendships and family relationships will help affirm that you can trust your own thoughts and feelings, and validate your reality.

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On this episode Dr. Robin Stern shares a conversation with Dr. Arghavan Salles that is both crucial and empowering. Dr. Salles wears many hats—she's a skilled surgeon, a passionate advocate for diversity and inclusion, and an expert in confronting gaslighting in medicine.

Dr. Arghavan Salles gained global attention not just for her expertise but for her remarkable courage and resilience during the spring of 2020. As the COVID-19 pandemic wreaked havoc in New York City, Dr. Salles, based in California, felt the call to action. Using her vacation time, she traveled to the epicenter of the crisis, joining the frontlines in the intensive care unit.

That experience was transformative. Dr. Salles found herself facing a relentless adversary, treating patients in conditions she had never encountered before. The challenges were unprecedented—overwhelmed healthcare systems, scarce personal protective equipment, and healthcare professionals redeployed to specialties outside their expertise. Yet, even in the midst of this crisis, Dr. Salles chose to speak up, sharing her experiences on social media, in national outlets, and on television.

Robin and Arghavan also discuss the often-overlooked issue of gaslighting in the medical profession. Dr. Salles brings her expertise to the forefront as they explore the personal impact gaslighting has had on Dr. Salles' own career as well as other individuals within the medical field and explores strategies to recognize and combat this pervasive issue.

Join us as we delve into a conversation that not only exposes the challenges faced by healthcare professionals on the frontlines of a global pandemic but also addresses the importance of fostering a culture of inclusivity, respect, and open communication within the medical community.

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On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dakota Adams, son of Stewart Rhodes, the founder and leader of the Oath Keepers organization. Dakota opens up about a life that was not only entangled with the controversial Oath Keepers but also shadowed by the dark clouds of gaslighting and abuse.

Gaslighting, a form of psychological manipulation that seeks to make victims doubt their reality, is a theme woven into the fabric of Dakota's narrative. He recounts the harrowing escape from an environment marked by violence and chaos, where he and his siblings' perceptions were constantly manipulated.

Dakota reveals the intricate layers of his father's personality, from the early days of criticism against political figures to a surprising evolution that ultimately led to Stewart Rhodes' involvement in the infamous events at the U.S. Capitol on January 6, 2021.

But it's not just a story of political activism; it's a story of survival. Dakota shares the devastating effects of gaslighting on a family, detailing the struggles of breaking free from a cycle of manipulation, fear, and isolation.

Join Robin and Dakota as they unravel the complexities of Dakota's life, a life shaped by an organization founded on principles that devolved into chaos. This episode will take you beyond the headlines, providing a closer look at the impact of gaslighting on individuals, families, and communities.

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On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern guides us through the captivating and deeply personal journey of Dr. Kerry McAvoy - a story marked by heartbreak, betrayal, and the insidious effects of gaslighting.

As a devoted mother, wife, and psychologist, Kerry's life took an unexpected turn after the loss of her first husband. Her second marriage seemed perfect until an unknown woman's text shattered the illusion. The words, "I've been dating your husband," plunged Kerry into a world of shock, entrapment, and conflicting emotions.

Kerry is the author of Love You More, a gripping account of surviving sophisticated psychological manipulation, a tale both deeply personal and incredibly practical, offering hope, guidance, and encouragement to those battling emotional abuse, inspiring you to break free and reclaim your life.

Join Robin as she unravels the layers of Kerry's story, focusing on the pervasive influence of gaslighting. Despite the turmoil, Kerry didn't immediately walk away. Instead, she found herself in a two-year struggle, attempting to salvage a relationship marred by manipulation and deceit.

The insidious nature of gaslighting, the constant questioning of one's reality, and the emotional turmoil are the threads woven into Kerry's narrative. Dr. Robin Stern and Dr. Kerry McAvoy navigate this exploration, shedding light on the complexities of gaslighting and its profound impact on relationships.

This episode is an examination of resilience, self-discovery, and the journey to reclaim one's truth.

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On this episode, the intricate realms of gaslighting, human behavior and emotional intelligence intersect, as Dr. Robin Stern talks with her colleague and good friend, Dr. Marc Brackett. Dr. Brackett is the Director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, and author of "Permission to Feel."

On this episode, Dr. Stern and Dr. Brackett unravel the subtle dynamics of gaslighting, a pervasive issue affecting relationships, workplaces, and self-perception. Dr. Brackett, with a wealth of expertise, illuminates the profound connection between emotional intelligence and gaslighting.

Gaslighting, fundamentally rooted in the manipulation of emotions, finds itself at the intersection of emotional intelligence. Dr. Brackett's insights go beyond defining gaslighting; they explore the pivotal role emotional intelligence plays in both perpetuating and countering this intricate form of manipulation.

Robin and Marc discuss insights into the significance of recognizing and validating emotions, which is one of the foundational aspects of emotional intelligence. Dr. Brackett shares strategic approaches for harnessing emotional intelligence to fortify against gaslighting tactics and nurture resilient, healthier relationships.

This episode promises to be an invaluable compass for navigating the nuanced waters of emotions and relationships.

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Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern talks with attorney Evan D. Schein, a seasoned attorney and partner at Berkman Bottger Newman & Schein LLP.

Evan brings a wealth of experience in family law to the conversation. If you're curious about the legal nuances of relationships and the complexities of prenuptial agreements, this is the episode for you.

As a divorce lawyer in New York City, Evan has been lucky to meet fascinating people and work with top experts in fields like finance, trust and estates, real estate, sports, entertainment, psychology, and more.

He has helped clients find post-divorce happiness and build successful financial lives, advocated to protect children and fought for the rights of victims of domestic violence. He has learned more than a few things about family, money, and the law, things that every spouse or parent in America should know.

Robin and Evan explore the fascinating intersection of gaslighting and prenuptial agreements. Evan's extensive expertise helps guide listeners through the delicate balance of law and psychology, shedding light on how gaslighting dynamics can influence the creation and understanding of prenups.

Whether you're contemplating a prenuptial agreement, navigating the challenges of a relationship, or just intrigued by the legal side of love, this episode promises to be both eye-opening and thought-provoking.

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Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Amanda Knox - a woman who, at a young age, found herself entangled in the complexities of the Italian legal system, her name echoed around the globe. Robin and Amanda illuminate the darker corners of her story, focusing on the glaring presence of gaslighting.

Amanda Knox is an exoneree, journalist, public speaker, and author of the New York Times best-selling memoir, Waiting to Be Heard. Between 2007 and 2015, she spent nearly four years in an Italian prison and eight years on trial for a murder she didn't commit. She has since become an advocate for criminal justice reform and media ethics. She sits on the board of the Frederick Douglass Project for Justice, and serves as an Innocence Network Ambassador.

Amanda's journey began when she was studying abroad in Perugia, Italy. The unimaginable happened when her roommate, Meredith Kercher, was tragically murdered. What followed was a legal saga that painted Amanda as a suspect in the eyes of the media and the public.

Amanda recounts the relentless gaslighting she endured - from the distorted narratives in the media to the courtroom theatrics. She describes how doubt was meticulously planted, manipulating perceptions and leaving a lasting impact on Amanda's life.

This episode isn't just about one woman's struggle; it's a mirror reflecting the broader implications of gaslighting on individuals facing high-stakes situations. Amanda Knox brings a unique lens to this conversation, having lived through the crucible of a relentless media storm.

We hope you enjoy this unfiltered conversation, as Amanda and Robin navigate the chilling realities of gaslighting, the quest for justice, and the toll it takes on those thrust into the spotlight.

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Disclaimer:

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