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Around 500 strokes will be experienced by infants and children in Australia each year. While the numbers are small, the impact can be devastating and life-long for families. At 33 weeks pregnant Dee fell to her knees in an appointment, with a sharp pain down one side of her body, she would later find out this was her unborn baby experiencing a stroke in utero, this would go undiagnosed for months after Emma was born,

After seeing 3 different GPs voicing her concerns that Emma was unable to use the right side of her body, she would finally get a diagnosis for her almost 1-year-old.
While Dee should have been enjoying getting to know her precious little bub like other first-time mums, she was dealing with a barrage of doctors, test results and life-changing news. She felt anxious, overwhelmed and isolated.

While navigating through Emma's diagnosis, Dee has co-founded "Little Stroke Warriors". Since the group launched, it has grown from a small support network into a government advocacy organisation. Little Stroke Warriors received $4 million from the Federal Government for the Australian Paediatric Acute Code Stroke project, and the group has produced the Our Family Stroke Journey booklet. Their end goal is to make sure parents don’t leave the hospital scratching their heads in confusion and turning to Dr Google in desperation for answers like they did.

While Dee does not want praise and admiration for doing what, in her opinion, every parent would do in this situation, I can't help but be inspired and in awe of her love for her daughter Emma and her passion and dedication to advocate for those living with a disability. Access, Inclusion, Visibility and basic human rights are what she is striving for and I know you will leave this episode with a new perspective on this topic.

LINKS & RESOURCES:
Dee's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dee_banks15/
Jess Rutherfords Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3IhPHWTtdGLsR6oKlhuVdG?si=03c1598028a047b3
Stroke Foundation: https://strokefoundation.org.au/how-you-can-help/ways-to-donate/our-current-appeals/childhood-stroke
Newsgroup Article: https://timesnewsgroup.com.au/ballarat/news/dee-banks/
Little Stroke Warriors: https://www.facebook.com/littlestrokewarriorsaustralia
 
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*Trigger Warning*  In this episode we discuss miscarriage at length, please skip this episode if you find this content distressing - helpful links and resources linked below.

Jorja Moore is a Singer/Songwriter, Performer, Singing Teacher, Former Podcast Host & a soon to be Mum. In this episode, Jorja walks us through her experience of pregnancy after a miscarriage and the anxieties and complex emotions surrounding that.

Jorja and I chat about her first pregnancy in 2021 that resulted in miscarriage and what that experience was like for her and her husband. She speaks about how she processed that pain and trauma and what she found helpful for her healing.

We chat about Jorja's passion for feminism and female health, and what inspired her to speak up publicly about these topics and start her podcast "The Self Love Feminist".

Thank you Jorja for sharing your story openly and honestly, your vulnerability is so appreciated and I cannot wait to watch you become a Mum to your little miracle in just a few weeks!

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INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/jorjammoore/
THE SELF LOVE FEMINIST: https://www.instagram.com/theselflovefeminist/
FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/jorja.bromley

RESOURCES:
PINK ELEPHANT: https://www.pinkelephants.org.au/page/107/get-involved?gclid=CjwKCAjw6raYBhB7EiwABge5Kpi0J2aS6WQeeJ0mAZNJb_I9iPgaoeqA3gPiH8DFlDNZl75RkUl0_hoCDuMQAvD_BwE
SANDS: https://www.sands.org.au/miscarriage?gclid=CjwKCAjw6raYBhB7EiwABge5Kmq5YyB0tbg4tAQq2uFn1hMdWJ7RDIJbhL06_5LABuWhAcxlVuaL-RoCHXwQAvD_BwE

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Tim Bone is a Husband, Father, Entrepreneur, Brand Ambassador & All round down to earth guy!
After competing in the 2019 MasterChef series and placing 4th, Tim has gone on to create some serious magic with his business 'Tim's Toasties', selling his incredible gourmet toasties and products at Pop Up Stalls all over Regional Victoria.

With his love for the Ballarat community and supporting locals, Tim sources his products from local businesses here in Ballarat, this ever-growing venture has gone from strength to strength. Working alongside his wife Abbey on this journey this powerhouse couple has been able to leave their previous employment to pursue this business.

Accolades and achievements aside, My conversation with Tim shows a very real and vulnerable side to him. We chat about the hardest moments in Tim's life including his & Abbey's experience with miscarriage and the traumatic effect this can have on you as a couple. We speak about the importance of sharing and opening up difficult conversations, so others around us feel less alone.

Finally, we speak about Tim's experience and time on MasterChef, what it was really like behind the scenes of a television show and what this experience has given him moving forward in life & business. You will hear about what's next for Tim in the future and he will undoubtedly leave you feeling inspired to pursue your dreams!

You can find Tim here:
INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/timbonefood/
FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/TimBoneFood
WEBSITE: https://timbone.com.au/

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Carolyn Gower is a Grief Coach and Spiritual Profiler. Seeking guidance and support after losing her dear husband Tony 5 years ago, Carolyn got herself in touch with a coach.

After working with her coach, he encouraged Carolyn to become a coach herself. With incredible kindness, empathy and personal experience in this area she has since started her own business in this field supporting others through their grief. Her passion lies in normalising grief and educating others on how to best support a grieving person in their life.

In this episode, Carolyn shares her life story, how she met the love of her life and what it was like to lose him to prostate cancer so young. We talk about her own podcast “My Person Died Too”. Carolyn also answers lots of your listener questions that were submitted via Instagram a few weeks ago.

Carolyn has been kind enough to offer all The Innerview listeners a  discount code if you or anyone you know may be seeking guidance or support with grief. Use the code INNERVIEW60 for $60 off your coaching session with Carolyn. T&Cs apply. Contact Carolyn for more details.

You can find Carolyn here:
INSTAGRAM:  https://www.instagram.com/carolyngowercoaching/
FACEBOOK: https://www.instagram.com/carolyngowercoaching/
WEBSITE: https://carolyngowercoaching.com.au/
PODCAST: https://open.spotify.com/show/4ElY6gDFMSbeIlybE2Ta8Z?si=b3ddd06f8a3b4eb1

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Join us as we hear three anonymously submitted stories involving their experiences with Going through someone's phone. Some share stories of going through their partner's phones, while others share their experiences of coercive control and having their phones monitored at all times.
We chat about the complexities surrounding this topic and what drives people to go through someone's phone in the first place.

Joined by my husband Sam, we also share our experiences with this subject and how we feel about going through each other's phones.

Thank you to everyone who bravely submitted and shared their experience for our anonymous series. Your openness and vulnerability are so appreciated.

Do YOU have a story you wish to share anonymously? Contact us here:
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Belinda Robbie is a Case Manager who has supported women & children at The Salvation Army Ballarat for the past 12yrs. At just 17 years of age, Belinda found herself homeless and expecting her first child with the support of services like the Salvation Army she was able to get back on her feet and find a home.
Inspired by her own experience in this system and wanting to give back, Belinda went on to study and is now supporting women & families who were just like her all those years ago.

The Salvation Army Homelessness Ballarat offers a range of services & programs assisting families experiencing homelessness or at risk of homelessness. This is something that could happen to anyone, it only takes one or two significant life events that can turn everything upside down. An illness, losing employment, losing your license, relationship breakdown, family violence and the list goes on!

In this episode, we chat about some of the common judgements and misconceptions when it comes to homelessness, why it's so important to advocate for these families and why you should never judge someone who has found themselves in this terrifying situation. Homelessness is far more than “rootlessness”. Homelessness means being without a safe, sustainable and private place to live. In Ballarat, over 60% of persons seeking housing assistance from specialist homelessness services did not get safe and secure housing in 2020-21.

As this episode goes live it is National Homelessness Week, every day this week here in Ballarat you can join “Walking for Homeless” around Lake Wendouree. If you are unable to attend and you would like to support this cause and the incredible work that the Salvation Army is doing in our community please see show notes for all links and information on how to donate to this worthy cause.

To donate food, blankets & other items needed to The Salvation Army Ballarat, check out our facebook page for details: https://www.facebook.com/SalvosBallarat

For more information about our programs, services and events, follow us on FaceBook at: https://www.facebook.com/The-Salvation-Army-Homelessness-Ballarat

We are often looking to recruit new mentors for our LARF program, those interested can find out more info at: https://www.facebook.com/larfprogram 

For more details and to get involved in Homeless Week Activities in Ballarat, go to: https://www.unitingvictas.org.au/events/ 

If you want to find out more about homelessness in our region, go to: https://www.canva.com/design/DAFCbONUUh8/jntn5FjegCuH5PYXaDJgxA/view

For those needing homeless assistance in Ballarat region, the Entry Point can be contacted at:
https://www.unitingvictas.org.au/services/homelessness-housing/

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Jimmy Morrison is a local well known  Barber here in Ballarat and a Father of three.
In this episode i chat with Jimmy about the early years of his life, some of the tough moments he has experienced and how that has shaped the person he is today.

Jimmy opens up about becoming a father at just 19 years old, the drive and determination his two sons gave him in those early years and how he feels he has grown and matured becoming a Dad again at 30 years old.  We chat about mental health struggles, anxiety, depression and OCD, how those things have affected him throughout different stages of his life and how he got to the great place he is in today.

Finally we discuss his new business "Jimmy's Barber Shop" that recently opened and what its like to work for yourself for the first time Jimmy also gives us an insight into what inspired him to become a barber, the process of becoming qualified and his love of hair from a young age.

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INSTAGRAM
JIMMY: https://www.instagram.com/jimmorrisonhair/
JIMMYS BARBER SHOP:  https://www.instagram.com/jimmysbarbershopaus/
FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/Jimmys-Barbershop-107571708627239
WEBSITE: https://jimmys-barbershop.com/

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Complex PTSD is the result of experiencing multiple traumas throughout your life, it is considered chronic and manageable but does not have a cure. Since speaking with Amelia about her journey i have to say this has been one of my most eye opening interviews to date, hearing her story and the way she has been able to overcome so many awful and terrible things has had a real impact on me and i know it will for you too!

For as long as Amelia can remember she has experienced some form of bullying and exclusion. Starting in Primary School and subsequently following her into High School and then the workplace where employers would use fear based tactics and flat out poor treatment to motivate their staff to work harder and keep their jobs. 

In this episode Amelia walks us through this journey and gives the listeners an insight into what its like to live with Complex PTSD and the treatment and management she has found most beneficial. We chat about the symptoms of this condition and how this affects her in relationships,  the workplace and her own self worth.

Make no mistake, Amelia is not a victim nor does she live in that headspace or mentality. She believes it is up to her to do 'the work' in order to create a beautiful and meaningful life and she wants to inspire others who have been in her position that they too can have that freedom. She is truly an incredibly inspiring person who has now created such an amazing life with her husband Lou and is working in a job that she feels safe and valued.

There is so much that we can all take away from this episode but above all else its so important to BE KIND and treat each other with respect. Thank you Amelia for sharing your story with us.

HELPFUL LINKS & RESOURCES:
HEALTHLINE: https://www.healthline.com/health/cptsd
BLUEKNOT FOUNDATION HELPLINE: https://blueknot.org.au/
BEYOND BLUE: https://www.beyondblue.org.au/the-facts/anxiety?gclid=CjwKCAjwrNmWBhA4EiwAHbjEQLA3vTwEA9GAhUhrILzXE7mn-y7cjxd0rfpg4CyYo3sxKh57MRDwLxoCHlsQAvD_BwE

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Zadie is a 24 year old Solo Mama of two gorgeous girls! She is also the owner of her own photography business based in Apollo Bay & Surrounds. It could be easy to look at Zadie's current life and think it has been an easy road to the beautiful life she has created for herself and her family but it has been tough.

In her teen years Zadie became a career for her ill Mother, was helping to raise her young brothers and even sleeping with her baby brother in her room. With so much responsibility at such a tender age, naturally Zadie felt resentful, angry, depressed and eventually left home for some reprieve and independence.

Growing up Zadie was apart of a Church community and had strong friendships and relationships, that all changed when Zadie became a Mother at 17, those metaphorical doors were closed on her leaving her isolated and alone. By the time Zadie was 18 she was married with. a baby and a young stepdaughter, her dreams and desires had been put on hold and while her friends were out partying Zadie was deep in Motherhood and things in her marriage were not going well.

Cut to age 23 Zadie and her former husband had two children together and her stepdaughter and they both knew the marriage was not going to work and was over.
In this episode Zadie walks us through that process, how she transitioned into becoming a single parent and some of the confronting realities of being not only a single parent but a working parent too.

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WEBSITE:https://www.photosbyzadie.com/
INSTGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/photosbyzadie/
FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/photosbyzadie

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*Trigger Warning* This episode contains discussions of Sexual Assault, Suicide, Self Harm, Domestic Violence & PTSD. Please skip this episode if you may find these topics triggering and see show notes for helpful links and resources.

In this episode, I speak with Kim, the co-founder of “For Your Mind Boxes” and a survivor of many traumatic life events.
We dive deep into Kim’s childhood, her experience with neglect and shame, mental health and later in life - domestic violence, sexual assaults and suicide attempts.

Kim is passionate about sharing her story to spread awareness and show the world that she is a fighter and can turn things around and live a beautiful life after multiple traumas. Sharing her complex family and romantic relationships, she is incredibly vulnerable and transparent.

Finally, we hear the inspiration behind “For Your Mind Boxes”, how it all began and what it takes to run a successful online business in this space. Kim and her business partner David are passionate about supporting small businesses and making a difference in the lives of others.

FOR YOUR MIND BOXES:
WEBSITE: https://www.foryourmindboxes.com.au/
INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/foryourmindboxes/

RESOURCES:
BEYOND BLUE:https://www.beyondblue.org.au/the-facts/depression?gclid=CjwKCAjwwo-WBhAMEiwAV4dybdHbU0dKP9UjqfD6ZvRKQfMG2VuYUkTc3ZPrKnn_twJBru_bQlsntRoCTxsQAvD_BwE
LIFELINE: https://www.lifeline.org.au/131114/?gclid=CjwKCAjwwo-WBhAMEiwAV4dybYlRi0mSVZv3n2MhQGXzYns1i57zhpr3UEUjnonGYzUt26-ustmXHRoC_A0QAvD_BwE

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