In this episode of the InPowered Life Podcast, Rudi Riekstins sits down with Emmy Award winner, bestselling author, and master coach Rhonda Britten. Rhonda shares her incredible journey from witnessing a tragic murder-suicide at age 14 to becoming a leading authority on fear and living fearlessly. She unpacks the role of fear in our lives, how it holds us back, and provides actionable steps to move beyond fear and embrace freedom. Whether you're struggling with trauma, seeking to lead a more inspired life, or simply curious about how fear shapes our decisions, this episode is packed with wisdom and tools to help you thrive.


Key Takeaways:

• Fear is a Protector, Not the Enemy: Fear’s purpose is to keep us safe, but it often holds us back by keeping us in old patterns.
   
• Embrace Fear, Don’t Run from It: Instead of avoiding fear, understand it, face it, and use it as a tool for growth.
   
• Forgiveness as a Catalyst for Change: Forgiving others, even in the face of profound trauma, can unlock emotional freedom. The hardest yet most transformative forgiveness is forgiving yourself.
   
• The Wheel of Fear & Freedom: Rhonda’s revolutionary framework helps identify your unique fears and provides a pathway to live fearlessly.
   
• Small Steps Build Confidence: Start with small, actionable changes—acknowledge even minor wins to reframe your mindset and foster self-belief.

Quotes

• "You must be willing to be wrong about everything to find the right life for you." – Rhonda Britten

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Website: https://fearlessliving.org/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rhondabritten
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rhondabritten
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/fearless-living-institute/

In this episode of the InPowered Life podcast, Rudi and Anniston pull back the curtain on their relationship to share how they navigate miscommunications, triggers, and emotional distance while maintaining a strong, intentional partnership. Sharing their personal experiences and lessons learned, they provide actionable insights to help listeners create deeper, more connected relationships. Whether it’s a romantic relationship, friendship, or business partnership, this episode is packed with practical advice to strengthen bonds and avoid the trap of resentment.

Key Takeaways:

• Resentment stacks are avoidable: Address misunderstandings early to prevent them from damaging relationships.
  
   
• Triggers reveal personal growth opportunities: Your emotional reactions often mirror unresolved internal patterns.
  
   
• Communicate early, not late: Shorten the time between feeling triggered and resolving the issue.
  
   
• Share your needs clearly: Avoid assuming your partner knows what you need; say it outright.
  
   
• Relationships are growth vehicles: Challenges in relationships are opportunities to learn and evolve together.

• “Your external reality is a mirror. Where you’re triggered is a sign there’s something to learn.” – Rudi
• “Challenges are opportunities in disguise for you to grow both in your relationship and within yourself.” – Anniston

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00:00 - Understanding Relationship Dynamics

02:49 - The Importance of Communication

06:12 - Navigating Emotional Depletion

08:51 - The Role of Misunderstandings

12:08 - The Power of Reflection

14:52 - Learning from Conflict

18:04 - The Mirror Effect in Relationships

20:54 - Personal Growth Through Relationships

23:59 - Creating a Supportive Partnership

26:46 - Transforming Challenges into Opportunities

In this inspiring episode, Rudi and Anniston Riekstins are joined by the phenomenal Brooke Hemingway. A former nurse turned multi-entrepreneur, Brooke shares her journey of transformation and alignment. Together, they dive into the revolutionary power of living in alignment with your purpose, balancing life's demands, and creating transformational experiences that truly impact lives. Brooke also provides an exclusive look into her upcoming Align Revolution event and the life-changing breakthroughs it offers.

Event Details: Align Revolution 2025

• 📅 When: January 2025
• 📍 Where: Visit Align Events Live for Details
• 🎟️ Discount Code: Use INPOWER to save 20%!

Align is your opportunity to step into a space of transformation, revolutionize your life, and set the tone for 2025. From personal breakthroughs to redefining relationships and purpose, this immersive event is a must-attend for anyone seeking clarity, empowerment, and growth.


Key Takeaways:

• Alignment is Key: Success and fulfillment come from aligning with your unique purpose, not chasing balance.
  
   
• Revolutionary Change: Growth often requires bold, radical steps rather than small, incremental changes.
  
   
• Clarity Through Immersion: Immersive, in-person experiences can spark breakthroughs and provide life-changing clarity.
  
   
• Energy Follows Alignment: When you’re aligned with your passion and purpose, tasks feel lighter and energizing rather than draining.
  
   
• Expect Resistance: True growth often involves challenges and discomfort – embrace it as part of the journey.
• The Power of Relationships: Healing and nurturing personal relationships is foundational to overall success and happiness.
  
   
• Surrender and Trust: Letting go of control and embracing life’s uncertainties can lead to unexpected growth and deeper resilience.
  
   
• Community Matters: Surrounding yourself with like-minded, purpose-driven individuals accelerates personal transformation.
  
   
• Everyone Benefits: Align is not just for entrepreneurs – anyone seeking clarity, healing, or a breakthrough will find value.
  
   
• Action Over Regret: Don’t live a “lost life” of missed potential. Take bold steps toward the life you truly desire.
  
   

• “The quality of our relationships deeply impacts our path to success and fulfillment.” – Brooke Hemingway

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Website: https://brookehemingway.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hemingwayhalfdozen/

In this inspiring episode of The InPowered Life, host Rudi dive deep into the art of connection with Dr. Adam Dorsay. As the author of Super Psyched: Unleash the Power of the Four Types of Connection and Live the Life You Love, Dr. Dorsay explores how meaningful connections—to ourselves, others, the world, and something greater—are the foundation of a fulfilled life. Together, they uncover actionable strategies for rekindling joy, building stronger relationships, and living in alignment with your highest potential. This conversation is a roadmap for transforming disconnection into vitality and purpose.


Key Takeaways:

• Connection is the Heart of Fulfillment: Every aspect of happiness and love stems from meaningful connections—with yourself, others, the world, and something greater.
  
   
• Start with Yourself: Knowing who you are and what lights you up is the foundation for all other connections. Authenticity is the key to alignment.
  
   
• Faux Connection Isn’t Enough: Social media and surface-level interactions can’t replace deep, meaningful relationships. Real connection requires vulnerability and presence.
  
   
• Friendships Need Maintenance: Just like any relationship, friendships thrive on effort. Revisit old connections and nurture them intentionally.
  
   
• Novelty Can Reignite Bonds: Trying new activities or adventures with loved ones fosters deeper connections and reignites excitement in relationships.
  
   
• The Four Types of Connection:

1. Self: Understand your passions and values.
2. Others: Build trust and vulnerability.
3. World: Find meaning through work, nature, and hobbies.
4. Something Greater: Embrace awe and spirituality.
   
    

• Shared Adventures Build Bridges: Activities like a “food quest” with your kids or partner create lasting memories and open avenues for meaningful conversations.
  
   
• Ask Bigger Questions: Move beyond logistics to explore your loved ones’ dreams, challenges, and inner worlds. Curiosity can deepen bonds.
  
   
• Fill Your Cup First: A strong connection to yourself enables generosity, kindness, and resilience in your relationships with others.
  
   
• Connection is Vital for Growth: True connection nurtures vitality and brings you into alignment with your highest potential, leaving you more fulfilled and less reactive.
  
   

• “Disconnection is at the heart of everything we don’t want. Connection is at the heart of everything we do want.” – Dr. Adam Dorsay
• “We alone have the power to live the greatest life we’ve ever lived—and to teach others by demonstrating it.” – Rudi Riekstins

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Dr. Adam Dorsay’s Links: 

Website: https://dradamdorsay.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dradamdorsay/

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/superpsyched-with-dr-adam-dorsay/id1512883587

Chapters:

00:00 - Introduction to InPowered Life Podcast

02:22 - Meet Dr. Adam Dorsay: A Journey of Connection

05:09 - The Importance of Connection in Human Behavior

10:16 - The Loneliness Epidemic: A Modern Challenge

19:14 - The Four Types of Connection

28:22 - Nurturing Relationships: Tips for Couples

36:10 - Connecting with Children: Engaging Parenting

41:51 - Conclusion: Living a Connected Life

In this episode of the InPowered Life podcast, host Rudi and Anniston Riekstins share their favorite book recommendations that have significantly impacted their personal development journeys. They discuss the transformative power of reading, the importance of intention, and the role of forgiveness in healing. Each book recommendation is accompanied by insights on how it can help listeners navigate their own paths to empowerment and spiritual growth. The conversation emphasizes the idea that change begins with a shift in perception and encourages listeners to embrace the journey of self-discovery through literature.

Key Takeaways:

• Books can create profound shifts in how we think and feel.
• Reading can lead to breakthroughs in personal growth.
• The right book can find you at the right time.
• Rereading books can provide new insights and lessons.
• Surrendering to a higher power can lead to a magical life.
• Empowerment comes from learning and applying life lessons.
• Collective intention can have powerful effects on outcomes.
• Forgiveness is a process that can lead to healing.
• Spiritual growth involves understanding our intuition and purpose.
• Change starts with a willingness to shift our perception.
   

Quotes

• "Your thoughts have ripple effects in the world."
• "Change starts with a change of perception."
• "Be a willing student to shift your world."
   

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Chapters
00:00 - Introduction to InPowered Life Podcast
01:19 - The Power of Books in Personal Development
06:01 - Book Recommendations: The Surrender Experiment
09:18 - Empowerment Through Life Lessons
12:18 - The Science of Intention and Collective Power
18:14 - Radical Forgiveness: A Path to Healing
22:28 - Spiritual Growth and Intuition
29:41 - Closing Thoughts and Call to Action

In this soul-stirring episode of The InPowered Life podcast, your host Rudi Riekstins welcomes transformational teacher, best-selling author, and spiritual speaker Kute Blackson. Together, they dive deep into Kute’s incredible life journey, the power of surrender, and how to connect with the divine flow of life to achieve your highest potential.


Key Takeaways:

• Surrender is the Path to Freedom: Letting go of control doesn’t mean giving up; it means aligning with life’s flow.
  
   
• Truth is the Foundation of Transformation: Acknowledge what you truly feel, even when it’s uncomfortable.
  
   
• Challenges Are Opportunities for Growth: When life doesn’t go as planned, trust that the universe is working in your favor.
  
   
• Your Soul’s Guidance is Infallible: Following your inner guidance may not make logical sense, but it leads to alignment with your highest potential.
  
   
• Surrender Requires Active Participation: Surrendering doesn’t mean doing nothing; it means acting without attachment to specific outcomes.
  
   
• Unconditional Love is Transformative: Kute’s mother demonstrated the power of unconditional love, which became a foundation for his life and work.
  
   
• Life is a School for the Soul: Every experience—good or bad—is an opportunity to learn, grow, and evolve.
  
   
• The Magic Happens Beyond the Peanut: Holding too tightly to what you think you want (the "peanut") can limit you from receiving life’s greater blessings.
  
   
• Curiosity Can Shift Perspective: Instead of resisting challenges, get curious about what new opportunities they might be creating.
  
   
• The Power of Parental Influence: Kute’s parents demonstrated surrender, faith, and unconditional love, shaping his ability to embrace the unknown and live with purpose.
  
   

• “The next level of your life requires letting go of everything that no longer serves your growth." - Kute Blackson
• “If you’re asking the question, you already know the answer.” - Rudi Riekstins

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Kute Black’s Links: 

Website: https://kuteblackson.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kuteblackson/?hl=en

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kuteblacksonlovenow

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/kuteblackson09

Chapters:

00:00 - Welcome to The InPowered Life Podcast

00:29 - Meeting Kute Blackson

02:42 - Kute’s Multi-Cultural Background and Early Struggles

07:15 - The Catalyst for Change

18:46 - The Power of Truth and Surrender

30:38 - The Philosophy of Surrender

37:50 - Practical Steps to Surrender

49:52 - Lessons from Writing The Magic of Surrender

53:08 - Lessons from Kute’s Parents

55:39 - How Kute’s Parents Met

1:00:24 - Boundless Bliss Bali Retreat

1:02:28 - Closing Thoughts and Call to Action

In this powerful episode of the InPowered Life podcast, host Rudi Riekstins is joined by Larry Hagner, the founder of the Dad Edge movement and host of the Dad Edge Podcast. Together, they dive deep into what it means to live a legendary life as a father, husband, and leader. Larry candidly shares his journey from a tumultuous childhood to becoming a beacon of guidance for fathers worldwide. This episode is packed with actionable insights, heartfelt stories, and invaluable lessons for parents and anyone striving to lead an empowered life.

Key Takeaways:

1. Creating a Legacy: Larry emphasizes that true legacy begins at home, with how we show up for our children and our spouse.
2. Vulnerability as Strength: Larry and Rudi discuss how vulnerability, when used authentically, can be a superpower for building deeper connections with loved ones.
3. The Role of Connection: Larry shares why connection is the cornerstone of influence with children and how establishing a strong bond minimizes the need for harsh discipline.
4. Failure is a Learning Tool: Encouraging parents to let their children fail safely and learn from their mistakes as a key to building resilience.
5. Emotional Regulation and Patience: Practical steps for developing patience and why it doesn’t come naturally but can be learned like any other skill.

• "Without connection, you have no influence." - Larry Hagner
• "Patience is a practice of emotional resilience and regulation." - Larry Hagner
• "Being vulnerable is not a weakness, it’s the foundation of true connection." - Rudi Riekstins

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Website: https://thedadedge.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedadedge/?hl=en

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheDadEdge

X: https://x.com/thedadedge/ 
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/larry-hagner-a82b8715/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyS9kQOWK-BOF2N2A3Sn8ag

In this powerful episode of The InPowered Life Podcast, Rudi welcomes Nathan Leathers, a successful entrepreneur, real estate investor, and legacy builder. Nathan shares his inspiring journey from humble beginnings to achieving financial success and building a life rooted in impact, personal growth, and meaningful connections. Throughout this candid conversation, Nathan offers profound insights on navigating challenges, making pivotal decisions, and surrounding yourself with the right people to create lasting change.

Key Takeaways:

1. Success often begins with consistent, incremental decisions made from a place of intention and vision.
2. Surrounding yourself with the right people is critical for personal and professional growth.
3. Embracing change, redefining your identity as you grow, and seeking discomfort are keys to achieving long-term success.
4. Building a legacy is about impact and giving back, not just financial gain.

• "Momentum is everything in life, making the right decision and trusting yourself." - Nathan Leathers
• "Get uncomfortable. When you get used to being uncomfortable, you’ll start seeing yourself grow in ways you didn’t expect." - Nathan Leathers

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Nathan Leather’s Links: 

Website: https://greenguardms.com/ 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nateleatherss/?hl=en 
X: https://x.com/nateleatherss 
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nate-leathers/

Chapters:

[00:04] Welcome to the InPowered Life Podcast

[00:29] Nathan’s Humble Beginnings

[02:48] Life Lessons and Staying Consistent

[05:11] Shifting Mindsets

[07:35] Defining Moments

[09:30] Evaluating Your Circle

[14:16] Balancing Business and Relationships

[16:38] Navigating Identity Shifts

[21:16] The Infinite Game vs. Finite Game Mindset

[26:10] Head, Heart, and Hand Framework

[30:43] Uncomfortable Growth and Momentum

[35:28] Final Takeaways and Audience Challenge

In this episode of The InPowered Life podcast, Rudi and Anniston dive into the delicate, sometimes challenging, but rewarding topic of parenting and the profound responsibility it entails. They reflect on their own experiences as parents of two young children, Brady and Allie Olivia, and explore how they navigate the complexities of raising children while fostering independence, love, and emotional resilience.

Key Takeaways:

Parenting is an ongoing journey of growth where both parents and children are constantly learning from each other.

Create open communication channels with your children to foster trust and emotional resilience.

Teach children to trust their intuition and allow them to make mistakes in a supportive environment.

Recognize and manage your own emotional triggers to ensure healthy interactions with your children.

Quotes

• "Our goal is to be good stewards of our children, not to own them, but to guide them on their unique journey." - Anniston Riekstins
• "Parenting is not about protecting your children from every negative experience, but helping them rise after they've faced the fire." - Rudi Riekstins
• "Our children are our greatest teachers. They show us the areas we need to grow in, both emotionally and spiritually." - Rudi Riekstins
   

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In this empowering episode of The InPowered Life podcast, hosts Rudi Riekstins welcome a very special guest, Dr. Robb Kelly, an addiction and mindset expert who has turned his personal struggles into a purpose-driven life of service. Dr. Robb shares his incredible life story of overcoming alcoholism, homelessness, and trauma to become one of the world's most successful mindset and performance coaches. From playing music with legendary artists like Elton John and David Bowie to hitting rock bottom, Dr. Robb's journey is an inspiration for anyone looking to rise above their challenges.

Key Takeaways:

1. Addiction Is a Symptom, Not the Cause: Addiction is often a result of unresolved trauma rather than just substance abuse. Addressing emotional and psychological roots is crucial for long-term recovery.
2. The Power of Mindset and Neural Pathways: Rewiring the brain through daily habits—like deep breathing, mirror work, and changing routines—can create new neural pathways that lead to personal and professional success.
3. Childhood Trauma Is the Gateway Drug: Unresolved childhood trauma is a key factor in addiction and other destructive behaviors. Healing those wounds can unlock the path to recovery and personal growth.
4. Your Success Depends on Who You Surround Yourself With: The people you spend time with influence your growth. Surround yourself with individuals who inspire, support, and challenge you to reach your highest potential.
5. Daily Morning Routine to Prime for Success: Incorporate morning habits like deep breathing, mirror affirmations, and changing routines to reprogram your mind for success and positive outcomes.
    

Quotes:

• "Childhood trauma is the gateway drug." - Dr. Robb Kelly
• "Show me your friends, and I'll show you your future." - Dr. Robb Kelly
   

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Website: https://robbkelly.com/
Personal Foundation: https://www.therobbkellyfoundation.org/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drrobb.kelly.1
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/addiction_doctor/
X: https://x.com/robbkellygroup
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/the-addiction-doctor-749718210/
Personal Phone: Dr. Robb offers listeners a direct way to reach out to him. He invites those struggling or seeking guidance to text him at 214-600-0210 for a 15-minute phone call that could change their life. He even offers a money-back guarantee if the call doesn't make a difference.