When did not having needs become cool?

In today's podcast:

00:00 intro

00:22 when did not having needs become cool?

02:37 even robots have needs

03:56 nobody likes rejection

06:31 the three-steps to getting your needs met

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Relationships of all types will be uncomfortable. You can choose to turn towards the discomfort, or away from it. 

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The goal isn’t to get over your ex as quickly as possible, it’s to feel the heartbreak and give it the time it needs to move through you.

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Well, join the club!

Let's normalize wanting to be in love, seeking clarity and commitment in our relationships, and talking early and often about our relationship desires, needs, and dreams. 

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I don't believe in failed relationships and I don't think any relationship that ends is a waste of time. They're opportunities for you to learn about your relational needs, desires, expectations, and a beautiful chance to get to know yourself more.

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Adam Smiley Poswolsky is a millennial workplace expert, motivational speaker, and author of The Quarter-Life Breakthrough, The Breakthrough Speaker, and Friendship in the Age of Loneliness. As an expert at fostering human connection, he discusses the loneliness epidemic: ⅔ of Americans are lonely. Loneliness is a chronic illness that affects all of us. In order to overcome that loneliness, he shares practical tips on how to make new friends as adults, during a pandemic.

Shaun shares his struggles of feeling lonely when he moved to Montreal, he talks about his strategy on how to reach out to friends when he feels down. 

What you'll learn (or why you should care):

• How to start making friends as an adult 

Where to find Adam:

Buy his book

Visit Adam’s Website 

Adam on Instagram

Resources:

Tech-free Camp Grounded 

John T. Cacioppo ‘Loneliness’ 

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Finding emotionally available, secure, and loving people to date is the holy grail of the dating world. Find one of these mystical creatures, and you're guaranteed smooth sailing until the end of days. 

Just kidding. But you'll have a better chance at a loving relationship with a kind, caring, and respectful person, and you might avoid some unnecessary heartbreak.

And at the same time, it's worth considering if you are emotionally available yourself?

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Hey there. Here's what's been going on for me these last few months, and what the following months will bring for my life and my podcast.

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Nora McInerny is an author, podcaster, fellow human, and someone who's learned to live and love with grief. She's also someone I admire a lot, and I'm not gotta lie, I fangirl pretty hard around her.

Today, we're talking about how love is both the most beautiful thing in the world and also awkward, challenging, and complex, and we're all bumbling around trying to figure it out as we go along.

If you've ever wanted to listen to two exuberant people (with ADHD?) talk about love and relationships, this is your episode.

 What you'll learn (or why you should care):

• Why we overextend and abandon ourselves for love.

Where to find Nora:

Nora's website

Follow Nora on Instagram

Resources:

The Terrible, Thanks For Asking podcast

Nora's Books

Ralph's Podcast

The Hot Young Widows Club

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Love languages are a great tool to learn how to better love others and to let others how they can better love you.

In this short episode, I'll show you how to make a request for the five love languages. Feel free to adapt these scripts to your situation and make them your own.

These are only a template to get the conversation started.

Talking about love languages is an excerpt from my latest course: Getting Your Needs Met: https://thelovedrive.com/getting-your-needs-met/

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