The New Manager Podcast

It's hard to keep track of all the conversations about AI in the workplace. So don't feel bad if you find yourself getting overwhelmed or lost in it all.

I recently listened to an interview with Karen Hao, an award-winning journalist and author of the book Empire of AI.

One thing she said that I wanted to share with you is:

“AI is such an interesting word because it’s sort of like the word transportation in that you have bicycles, you have gas guzzling trucks, you have rocket ships. They're all forms of transportation, but they all serve different purposes and they have different cost-benefit trade-offs."

It's a good reminder. When you're thinking about AI in the work place, take a moment to clarify the conversation and what, specifically, people are talking about when they're talking about AI.

Listen to Karen Hao's interview on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.

What conversations are you having -- or not having -- about AI at work? Tell me in the comments, or message me on LI or my website.

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Take a mindful lens to the question of work-life balance.

Let's start with the idea that you are a human (first), and that work is one venue (place) where you do life.

Then, consider three frames:

1. Balance as an active relationship between dynamic forces (like breathing)
2. Balance like cross-training for function (not every day is leg day)
3. Ask: What part of this is personal vs cultural?

Consider your current life stage, season, and circumstances.

Just because it doesn't look the same, doesn't mean it's there.

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For the lawyers: The Role of Attorney Wellbeing in Your Legal Practice

https://www.lawline.com/course/the-role-of-attorney-wellbeing-in-your-legal-practice

Become a more calm and confident leader:

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Emotions are part of being human. So naturally, they are a big part of the workplace! Learn the difference between feeling an emotion and reacting to one.

You'll become more effective at work -- more grounded and less reactive to the emotions of others. And, you'll get better at motivating and inspiring your team and colleagues.

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This week I unbox and review "Where Should We Begin? At Work", a card deck with conversation prompts for relationships and culture at work.

This deck is a collaboration between relationship expert Esther Perel and Culture Amp, an employee experience platform. I've been a fan of Esther's work for years, so I was super curious to see what she'd created for workplace relationships and I bought this deck as soon as it was released.

Watch the video:

https://youtu.be/l3NqtnB28wE

Buy the deck:

https://game.estherperel.com/products/where-should-we-begin-at-work

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Follow me on LinkedIn:

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Someone asked me how listeners find this show. I told them the truth: "I don't really know." My best guess is that you went looking for a podcast for new managers, because you had some questions about something happening at work. Or, maybe someone shared it with you after *they* stumbled upon it.

In any case, you are here, listening, because you care about doing a good job. And so you've found a resource to help you do that.

That is a big deal! So in this week's episode, let's focus on appreciation and giving yourself credit. I'll also share my thoughts on why it's so common for organizations to fall short of supporting their managers.

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Follow me on LinkedIn:

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Leadership Orientation is on June 18. If you feel anxious wondering "Am I doing a good job?", register for Leadership Orientation and let's clear that up.

You will:

• Identify your strengths -- so you can work with them.
• Uncover your values -- so you can lead with them.
• Define success -- so you can feel more self-assured.

Through this process you'll discover more of your personal leadership style.

Managers deserve more support than they get. Sometimes you just need to take matters into your own hands.

Sign up here:

https://maven.com/kimnicol/leadership-orientation

**After the Episode**

Enroll in Communication Skills for Managers:

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Private coaching:

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Follow me on LinkedIn:

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Become a more calm and confident leader:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://insighttimer.com/meditation-courses/mindfulness-for-managers-at-work⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Being an effective manager takes a lot of invisible work -- the emotional labor you do to help your team work well and get the work done. Mindfulness can help. Let's discuss!

Read the original LinkedIn post mentioned in the episode.

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Follow me on LinkedIn:

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Become a more calm and confident leader:

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Emotions are part of the human experience, including the workplace. New managers are often surprised by the amount of emotional labor required for the job -- managing different personalities, communication styles, and expectations.

If you identify as a hero or a helper, then you may put a lot of pressure on yourself, and you might measure your success based on the emotional signals of those around you.

I think it's important for managers to care about their own mental health and emotional wellbeing, too. A good place to start is by checking out a Feelings Wheel. Let's discuss!

Feelings Wheel:

https://feelingswheel.com/

**After the Episode**

Enroll in Communication Skills for Managers:

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Follow me on LinkedIn:

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Become a more calm and confident leader:

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You're going to face many unexpected challenges as a leader. One of the tricky things about that is the balance between having a good foundation (skills, plan), while *also* being adaptive and making new decisions as things change.

I recently completed the Neighborhood Emergency Response Team training offered by the San Francisco Fire Department, and I learned some things that are helpful for managers leading at work. Let's discuss!

**After the Episode**

Enroll in Communication Skills for Managers:

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Follow me on LinkedIn:

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Every manager is expected to give feedback and performance reviews, so it helps to have a clear idea of what they are and how they are different. Most managers won't get any training or guidance on how to do this well -- so don't feel bad if it seems like you're expected to know how to do this. You're in the right place! This episode is a great place to start.

**After the Episode**

Enroll in Communication Skills for Managers:

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Private coaching:

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Follow me on LinkedIn:

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Become a more calm and confident leader:

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