The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose

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  • Rick Heller
    This week we talk to Rick Heller about secular meditation
    Rick Heller is the author of the new book, Secular Meditation: 32 Practices for Cultivating Inner Peace, Compassion, and Joy — A Guide from the Humanist Community at Harvard.
    Rick leads weekly meditations at the Humanist Community at Harvard.
    Rick received a master’s degree in journalism from Boston University. He also holds a master’s degree in public policy from Harvard’s Kennedy School of Government and a bachelor’s degree in electrical engineering from MIT
    In This Interview, Rick Heller and I Discuss:





    The One You Feed parable
    His new book, Secular Meditation: 32 practices for cultivating inner peace, compassion & Joy (A guide from the Humanist Community at Harvard)
    How in the brain, two negatives do not equal a positive
    What a "Humanist" is
    A secular view of meditation & mindfulness
    Other types of meditation other than breath focused meditation
    How there's no such thing as an inherently negative stimulus
    What face meditation is
    How the muscles in your face can affect your inner speech
    How to relate to emotions with mindfulness
    That recognizing an emotion actually brings it's feeling back toward neutral
    What "positive equanimity" is
    The difference between cognitive reappraisal and positive thinking
    Different approaches to help us achieve "mindfulness of life"
    When you're more "in your head" about something than you are collecting sensory information about something, you're really just dealing with abstractions
    Skepticism surrounding the concept of "no self" as a goal to pursue
    His working definition of enlightenment
    A secular version of the serenity prayer



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    46 min
  • 120: Rick Heller
    This week we talk to Rick Heller about secular meditation
    Rick Heller is the author of the new book, Secular Meditation: 32 Practices for Cultivating Inner Peace, Compassion, and Joy — A Guide from the Humanist Community at Harvard.
    Rick leads weekly meditations at the Humanist Community at Harvard.
    Rick received a master’s degree in journalism from Boston University. He also holds a master’s degree in public policy from Harvard’s Kennedy School of Government and a bachelor’s degree in electrical engineering from MIT
    In This Interview, Rick Heller and I Discuss:
    The One You Feed parable
    His new book, Secular Meditation: 32 practices for cultivating inner peace, compassion & Joy (A guide from the Humanist Community at Harvard)
    How in the brain, two negatives do not equal a positive
    What a "Humanist" is
    A secular view of meditation & mindfulness
    Other types of meditation other than breath focused meditation
    How there's no such thing as an inherently negative stimulus
    What face meditation is
    How the muscles in your face can affect your inner speech
    How to relate to emotions with mindfulness
    That recognizing an emotion actually brings it's feeling back toward neutral
    What "positive equanimity" is
    The difference between cognitive reappraisal and positive thinking
    Different approaches to help us achieve "mindfulness of life"
    When you're more "in your head" about something than you are collecting sensory information about something, you're really just dealing with abstractions
    Skepticism surrounding the concept of "no self" as a goal to pursue
    His working definition of enlightenment
    A secular version of the serenity prayer
    For more show notes visit our website
    38 min
  • 119: Rick Heller

     

     

    This week we talk to Rick Heller about secular meditation

    Rick Heller is the author of the new book, Secular Meditation: 32 Practices for Cultivating Inner Peace, Compassion, and Joy — A Guide from the Humanist Community at Harvard.

    Rick leads weekly meditations at the Humanist Community at Harvard.

    Rick received a master’s degree in journalism from Boston University. He also holds a master’s degree in public policy from Harvard’s Kennedy School of Government and a bachelor’s degree in electrical engineering from MIT

    In This Interview, Rick Heller and I Discuss:
      • The One You Feed parable
      • His new book, Secular Meditation: 32 practices for cultivating inner peace, compassion & Joy (A guide from the Humanist Community at Harvard)
      • How in the brain, two negatives do not equal a positive
      • What a "Humanist" is
      • A secular view of meditation & mindfulness
      • Other types of meditation other than breath focused meditation
      • How there's no such thing as an inherently negative stimulus
      • What face meditation is
      • How the muscles in your face can affect your inner speech
      • How to relate to emotions with mindfulness
      • That recognizing an emotion actually brings it's feeling back toward neutral
      • What "positive equanimity" is
      • The difference between cognitive reappraisal and positive thinking
      • Different approaches to help us achieve "mindfulness of life"
      • When you're more "in your head" about something than you are collecting sensory information about something, you're really just dealing with abstractions
      • Skepticism surrounding the concept of "no self" as a goal to pursue
      • His working definition of enlightenment
      • A secular version of the serenity prayer
      • For more show notes visit our website

        38 min
      • Rebecca Newberger Goldstein
        This week we talk to Rebecca Newberger Goldstein about the relevance of philosophy in today's world
        Rebecca Newberger Goldstein is an American philosopher who is also a novelist and public intellectual. She is the author of ten books, many of which cross the divide between fiction and non-fiction. She holds a Ph.D. from Princeton.
        Her latest book is called Plato at the Googleplex: Why Philosophy Won't Go Away, an exploration of the historical roots and contemporary relevance of philosophy. In the book Plato is brought to life in the 21st century and demonstrates the relevance of philosophy by arguing with contemporary figures such as a software engineer at Google headquarters, a right-wing talk show host, an affective neuroscientist, and others.
        Goldstein is a MacArthur Fellow, has won the National Jewish Book Award, and numerous other honors. In September of 2015  she was awarded the National Humanities Medal by President Obama in a ceremony at the White House.
         





        In This Interview, Rebecca Newberger Goldstein and I Discuss:



        The One You Feed parable
        Winning a National Humanities Medal and meeting President Obama
        Cultivating the positive emotions
        Her latest book Plato at the Googleplex: Why Philosophy Won't Go Away
        What Plato would say about the Parable of the Two Wolves
        Plato's Parable of Two Horses
        Why virtue is good for us
        The story of Socrates death
        The most famous sound bite in the last 2500 years

         
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        40 min
      • 119: Rebecca Newberger Goldstein
        This week we talk to Rebecca Newberger Goldstein about the relevance of philosophy in today's world
        Rebecca Newberger Goldstein is an American philosopher who is also a novelist and public intellectual. She is the author of ten books, many of which cross the divide between fiction and non-fiction. She holds a Ph.D. from Princeton.
        Her latest book is called Plato at the Googleplex: Why Philosophy Won't Go Away, an exploration of the historical roots and contemporary relevance of philosophy. In the book Plato is brought to life in the 21st century and demonstrates the relevance of philosophy by arguing with contemporary figures such as a software engineer at Google headquarters, a right-wing talk show host, an affective neuroscientist, and others.
        Goldstein is a MacArthur Fellow, has won the National Jewish Book Award, and numerous other honors. In September of 2015  she was awarded the National Humanities Medal by President Obama in a ceremony at the White House.
         
        In This Interview, Rebecca Newberger Goldstein and I Discuss:
        The One You Feed parable
        Winning a National Humanities Medal and meeting President Obama
        Cultivating the positive emotions
        Her latest book Plato at the Googleplex: Why Philosophy Won't Go Away
        What Plato would say about the Parable of the Two Wolves
        Plato's Parable of Two Horses
        Why virtue is good for us
        The story of Socrates death
        The most famous sound bite in the last 2500 years
         
        For more show notes and a free download of the best quotes from Plato at the Googleplex visit our website
        33 min
      • 118: Rebecca Newberger Goldstein

         

         

        This week we talk to Rebecca Newberger Goldstein about the relevance of philosophy in today's world

        Rebecca Newberger Goldstein is an American philosopher who is also a novelist and public intellectual. She is the author of ten books, many of which cross the divide between fiction and non-fiction. She holds a Ph.D. from Princeton.

        Her latest book is called Plato at the Googleplex: Why Philosophy Won't Go Away, an exploration of the historical roots and contemporary relevance of philosophy. In the book Plato is brought to life in the 21st century and demonstrates the relevance of philosophy by arguing with contemporary figures such as a software engineer at Google headquarters, a right-wing talk show host, an affective neuroscientist, and others.

        Goldstein is a MacArthur Fellow, has won the National Jewish Book Award, and numerous other honors. In September of 2015  she was awarded the National Humanities Medal by President Obama in a ceremony at the White House.

         

        In This Interview, Rebecca Newberger Goldstein and I Discuss:
        • The One You Feed parable
        • Winning a National Humanities Medal and meeting President Obama
        • Cultivating the positive emotions
        • Her latest book Plato at the Googleplex: Why Philosophy Won't Go Away
        • What Plato would say about the Parable of the Two Wolves
        • Plato's Parable of Two Horses
        • Why virtue is good for us
        • The story of Socrates death
        • The most famous sound bite in the last 2500 years
        •  

          For more show notes and a free download of the best quotes from Plato at the Googleplex visit our website

           

           

           

           

          33 min
        • Tara Mohr
          This week we talk to Tara Mohr about playing big
          Tara Mohr is an expert on women’s leadership and well-being. She helps women play bigger in sharing their voices and bringing forward their ideas in work and in life. Tara is the author of Playing Big: Practical Wisdom for Women Who Want to Speak Up, Create, and Lead, named a best book of the year by Apple’s iBooks and now in paperback. In the book, she shares her pioneering model for making the journey from playing small–being held back by fear and self-doubt–to playing big, taking bold action to pursue what you see as your callings.
          Tara is the creator of the Playing Big leadership program for women, which now has more than 1,000 graduates from around the world, and creator of the global Playing Big Facilitators Training for coaches, therapists, leadership development professionals and other practitioners supporting women in their personal and professional growth. A Coaches Training Institute-certified coach with an MBA from Stanford University and an undergraduate degree in English literature from Yale,
          Tara takes a unique approach that blends inner work and practical skills training. Her work has been featured on national media from theNew York Times to Today Show to Harvard Business Review, and has captivated women from all walks of life including Maria Shriver, Jillian Michaels and Elizabeth Gilbert.


           Our Sponsor this Week is Fracture
          Visit Fracture and use the promo code “wolf” to get 10% off!!




          In This Interview, Tara Mohr and I Discuss:



          The One You Feed parable
          The immense flexibility we have in who we become
          Feeding the good wolf in others
          The Inner Mentor and the Inner Critic
          The qualities of the Inner Critic
          Why you shouldn't argue with the Inner Critic
          How the Inner Critic also sounds like the voice of reason
          Finding our Inner Mentor
          Don't ask what you are ready for but instead ask what is life asking of me right now?
          Imposter Syndrome
          The Objection Rolodex
          Making "The Leap"
          The 6 criteria of the "The Leap"
          How to keep change going
          Giving up sugar 

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          48 min
        • 117: Tara Mohr

           

          This week we talk to Tara Mohr about playing big

          Tara Mohr is an expert on women’s leadership and well-being. She helps women play bigger in sharing their voices and bringing forward their ideas in work and in life. Tara is the author of Playing Big: Practical Wisdom for Women Who Want to Speak Up, Create, and Lead, named a best book of the year by Apple’s iBooks and now in paperback. In the book, she shares her pioneering model for making the journey from playing small–being held back by fear and self-doubt–to playing big, taking bold action to pursue what you see as your callings.

          Tara is the creator of the Playing Big leadership program for women, which now has more than 1,000 graduates from around the world, and creator of the global Playing Big Facilitators Training for coaches, therapists, leadership development professionals and other practitioners supporting women in their personal and professional growth. A Coaches Training Institute-certified coach with an MBA from Stanford University and an undergraduate degree in English literature from Yale,

          Tara takes a unique approach that blends inner work and practical skills training. Her work has been featured on national media from theNew York Times to Today Show to Harvard Business Review, and has captivated women from all walks of life including Maria Shriver, Jillian Michaels and Elizabeth Gilbert.

           Our Sponsor this Week is Fracture
          Visit Fracture and use the promo code “wolf” to get 10% off!!

          In This Interview, Tara Mohr and I Discuss:
          • The One You Feed parable
          • The immense flexibility we have in who we become
          • Feeding the good wolf in others
          • The Inner Mentor and the Inner Critic
          • The qualities of the Inner Critic
          • Why you shouldn't argue with the Inner Critic
          • How the Inner Critic also sounds like the voice of reason
          • Finding our Inner Mentor
          • Don't ask what you are ready for but instead ask what is life asking of me right now?
          • Imposter Syndrome
          • The Objection Rolodex
          • Making "The Leap"
          • The 6 criteria of the "The Leap"
          • How to keep change going
          • Giving up sugar 
          • For more show notes visit our website

            44 min
          • Keep Trying- Mini Episode
            Real change is possible but it takes time- Keep Trying!
             





            JK Rowling was broke and depressed and her book had been rejected by 12 different publishers. This was right before Harry Potter was finally accepted and hit the big time.
             
            It took me three different attempts to finally achieve sobriety.
             
            Gone with the wind was rejected 38 times. Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance was rejected 121 times
             
            Edison famously tried 1000 different approaches before getting the light bulb right.

             

            We often cite these examples as encouragement to keep trying at things like business or success. What if we applied the same principles and tenacity to our internal development? What if we kept trying at emotional and mental change?
             
            We have to do this stuff over and over again, change takes time. There are no easy answers or shortcuts to a life worth living.


            Our sponsor this week is Fracture
            Visit Fracture and use the promo code “wolf” to get 10% off!!

             

             
             
             
            The Tale of Two Wolves
            A grandfather is talking with his grandson and he says there are two wolves inside of us which are always at war with each other. 
            One of them is a good wolf which represents things like kindness, bravery and love. The other is a bad wolf, which represents things like greed, hatred and fear.
            The grandson stops and thinks about it for a second then he looks up at his grandfather and says, “Grandfather, which one wins?”
            The grandfather quietly replies, the one you feed
            The Tale of Two Wolves is often attributed to the Cherokee indians but there seems to be no real proof of this. It has also been attributed to evangelical preacher Billy Graham and Irish Playwright George Bernard Shaw. It appears no one knows for sure but this does not diminish the power of the parable.

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            8 min
          • Keep Trying- Mini Episode
            Real change is possible but it takes time- Keep Trying!
             
            JK Rowling was broke and depressed and her book had been rejected by 12 different publishers. This was right before Harry Potter was finally accepted and hit the big time.
             
            It took me three different attempts to finally achieve sobriety.
             
            Gone with the wind was rejected 38 times. Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance was rejected 121 times
             
            Edison famously tried 1000 different approaches before getting the light bulb right.
             
            We often cite these examples as encouragement to keep trying at things like business or success. What if we applied the same principles and tenacity to our internal development? What if we kept trying at emotional and mental change?
             
            We have to do this stuff over and over again, change takes time. There are no easy answers or shortcuts to a life worth living.
            Our sponsor this week is Fracture
            Visit Fracture and use the promo code “wolf” to get 10% off!!
             
             
             
             
            The Tale of Two Wolves
            A grandfather is talking with his grandson and he says there are two wolves inside of us which are always at war with each other. 
            One of them is a good wolf which represents things like kindness, bravery and love. The other is a bad wolf, which represents things like greed, hatred and fear.
            The grandson stops and thinks about it for a second then he looks up at his grandfather and says, “Grandfather, which one wins?”
            The grandfather quietly replies, the one you feed
            The Tale of Two Wolves is often attributed to the Cherokee indians but there seems to be no real proof of this. It has also been attributed to evangelical preacher Billy Graham and Irish Playwright George Bernard Shaw. It appears no one knows for sure but this does not diminish the power of the parable.
            5 min

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