In this deeply grounding and eye-opening conversation, Dr. Amelia Kelley sits down with clinical psychologist, naturopathic physician, and author Dr. Nicole Cain, whose new book Panic Proof is helping thousands reframe anxiety as a source of wisdom rather than a flaw.

Together, they explore the emotional world of highly sensitive people, why anxiety often shows up as a messenger, and the unexpected ways our childhood experiences shape our adult nervous system responses. Dr. Nicole guides Amelia through powerful somatic exercises, including havening and a body awareness practice, giving listeners a real-time experience of calming the mind and reconnecting with the body.

Listeners will learn how to recognize early signs of activation, how to avoid jumping from “I am fine” to “I am in danger,” and how to rewire the brain through practical, accessible tools. This episode is an invitation to rethink panic, reclaim your sensitivity, and finally understand what your nervous system has been trying to tell you.

Key Takeaways:

• Anxiety is not a malfunction. It is your body’s attempt to communicate what needs healing.
• Highly sensitive people often receive messages early in life that their emotions are “too much,” which shapes lifelong patterns of reactivity.
• Simple grounding exercises and havening can help create new pathways between emotional and logical parts of the brain.
• Panic proofing requires a four step approach that blends somatic grounding, cognitive engagement, body awareness, and intentional activation.
• Noticing subtle cues before they escalate is essential to preventing full blown panic and reconnecting with personal power.

Connect with Dr. Nicole Cain:

Website: https://drnicolecain.com

Instagram: https://instagram.com/drnicolecain

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrNicoleCainNDMA

Book: Panic Proof

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What happens when “being strong” starts to hurt?

In this deeply honest conversation, Dr. Amelia Kelley sits down with Dr. Marline C. Duroseau, resilience expert, author, TEDx speaker, and leadership executive, to explore a powerful and often overlooked concept: resilience fatigue.

Together, they unpack how resilience can sometimes be weaponized when pushing through challenges becomes a mask we wear to survive rather than a tool for growth. Dr. Marline opens up about how to recognize when your strength is no longer serving you, how to take that mask off safely, and why learning to accept help can be the most radical act of resilience.

This conversation is a reminder that resilience isn’t about perfection or constant productivity. It’s about knowing when to rest, receive support, and show up as your authentic self.

Key Takeaways:

• Resilience fatigue happens when pushing through becomes a default mode, leading to exhaustion, tension, and emotional shutdown.
• You can’t heal behind a mask. True resilience requires authenticity and the courage to take off your “strong” face.
• Accepting help is a skill, and it can be one of the most powerful ways to recover from burnout.
• Perfectionism and people-pleasing often disguise themselves as strength. Your best is enough.
• Building healthy boundaries with yourself, including rest, is essential to sustainable resilience.

Connect with Dr. Marline C. Duroseau

• Website: www.mcdbe.com
• Instagram: @mcdbe
• LinkedIn: Dr. Marline C. Duroseau

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Why is it so hard to have a calm, productive conversation these days? In this insightful episode, Dr. Amelia Kelley sits down with communication strategist and TEDx speaker Greg Singleton to unpack why meaningful dialogue has become such a challenge and how we can bridge the growing divide in our relationships, communities, and workplaces.

Greg shares a powerful framework for understanding the three types of conversations we all engage in: emotional, social, and practical, and how confusing them can quickly turn connection into conflict. He and Dr. Kelley explore how ego, emotional reactivity, and lack of self-awareness derail communication, and what it really takes to listen without judgment, speak with empathy, and repair trust even when you disagree.

Whether you’re navigating tense political discussions, family disagreements, or workplace friction, this episode offers grounded tools to help you stay centered, curious, and connected even when things get heated.

Key Takeaways:

• “You can’t influence anyone you’re not willing to connect with.”
• Emotional awareness helps you recognize whether a conversation is emotional, social, or practical and respond accordingly.
• Curiosity disarms defensiveness and opens the door to understanding.
• Accountability and empathy are essential for rebuilding communication in relationships and society.
• Healthy dialogue doesn’t mean agreement, it means mutual respect.

Resources & Links:

• Watch Greg's TEDx Talk here: Unlocking Generational Communication
• Follow Greg on LinkedIn

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In this heartfelt episode of The Sensitivity Doctor Podcast, Dr. Amelia Kelley is joined by physician and author Dr. Amna Shabbir for an honest and empowering conversation about perfectionism, what fuels it, how it shows up, and how to finally release its grip. Drawing from her personal journey through burnout, postpartum depression, and self-criticism, Dr. Amna shares how perfectionism often begins as a survival strategy and becomes a silent driver of stress, shame, and exhaustion.

Together, they explore how cultural expectations, early experiences, and identity all shape our relationship with perfectionism, and how healing starts when we allow ourselves to be fully human, flaws, limits, and all. This conversation is a compassionate reminder that you can still be ambitious, driven, and successful without being perfect.

Key Takeaways

• Perfectionism is not a personality trait, it is a survival mechanism that begins with our need to belong.
• The body often mirrors emotional pressure, and stress, guilt, and unworthiness can show up physically.
• Being excellent and being perfect are not the same; one fuels growth, the other drains it.
• We can unlearn perfectionism through self-compassion, awareness, and radical humanity.
• Asking for help or setting boundaries does not make you less capable, it makes you more whole.

Resources & Mentions

• Learn more about Dr. Amna Shabbir: https://www.dramnashabbir.com/
• Listen to her podcast: Success Reimagined with Amna Shabbir, MD -
• Join the Unmasking Perfectionism community: https://www.dramnashabbir.com/perfectionism
• Watch her TEDx talk here: Perfectionism has a solution - It's not what you think - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oNIzzM4Vg3s

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In this thought-provoking conversation, Dr. Amelia Kelley sits down with author, activist, and artist Jacob Tobia to challenge everything we think we know about masculinity. Jacob, known for their fearless writing and advocacy, dives into the myths that keep men trapped in cycles of silence, loneliness, and pain, and how both feminism and patriarchy have played a part in this misunderstanding.

Together, Amelia and Jacob explore why most men aren’t beneficiaries of patriarchy but co-survivors of it, how cultural conditioning disconnects men from their emotions, and what happens when we start seeing gender as a choice, not a cage. They unpack why the term “toxic masculinity” has lost its power, the loneliness epidemic facing men today, and how healing masculinity could actually heal us all.

This is a powerful and compassionate dialogue that bridges divides, offering a new path toward empathy, dignity, and freedom for all genders.

Key Takeaways:

• Masculinity isn’t inherently toxic; it becomes harmful when it’s forced, not chosen.
• Most men are co-survivors of patriarchy, shaped by systems that teach them to suppress emotion and vulnerability.
• The term “toxic masculinity” may be doing more harm than good, reinforcing shame rather than healing.
• There’s a rising loneliness crisis among men, with millions reporting having no close friends or safe spaces for emotional honesty.
• True equality requires empathy. We can’t free non-binary or feminine people without freeing boys and men from emotional repression.

Resources & Links

Follow Jacob on Instagram

Visit his website

Grab his book "Before They Were Men: Essays on Manhood, Compassion, and What Went Wrong"

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In this powerful conversation, Dr. Amelia Kelley welcomes back psychotherapist and author Jessica Baum to discuss her newest book, Safe: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building Secure Relationships.

Jessica, known for her best-selling book Anxiously Attached, dives deeper into attachment theory, exploring how our early experiences shape our nervous systems, relationship patterns, and sense of safety.

Together, Amelia and Jessica unpack the wheel of attachment, discuss how attachment styles can shift in different relationships, and explore why neglect can be more damaging than abuse. They also talk about how empathy, sensitivity, and trauma intertwine, and what it takes to heal and cultivate secure, fulfilling relationships.

Whether you identify as anxiously attached, avoidant, or disorganized, this episode offers compassionate guidance, science-backed insight, and hope for healing.

Key Takeaways:

• Your attachment style is not fixed, it’s fluid and can change depending on the relationship and your healing journey.
• Neglect can be more damaging than abuse because it creates an internalized fear of nonexistence and disconnect.
• Safety in relationships comes from co-regulation and feeling “with” the other person on a nervous-system level.
• Healing attachment wounds involves understanding your nervous system, self-compassion, and connecting with safe, attuned people.
• Couples can repair anxious-avoidant dynamics through therapy modalities like Imago or Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
• Highly sensitive people often developed heightened attunement as a survival mechanism in inconsistent environments.
• Empathy and narcissism both stem from early attachment experiences and whether we were adequately mirrored as children.
• Healing requires both boundaries and compassion, empathy without self-protection leads to burnout and codependency.

Resources & Links

Learn more about Jessica’s book and redeem free incentives: https://www.jessicabaumlmhc.com/interview

Follow Jessica:

Facebook

Instagram

LinkedIn

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What happens when manipulation goes professional?

In this episode of The Sensitivity Doctor, Dr. Amelia Kelley and Dr. Rita Renee explore the subtle and systemic ways gaslighting shows up in the workplace, from leaders denying conversations to colleagues rewriting history. Together, they discuss how women and sensitive professionals can protect their boundaries, document their truth, and lead with authenticity.

Dr. Kelley also shares an important message for Domestic Violence Awareness Month, encouraging listeners to prioritize safety in every space, at work, at home, and within themselves.

Whether you’ve felt dismissed, doubted, or devalued in your professional life, this episode offers practical steps to empower yourself and move toward a healthier environment.

Key Takeaways:

• Gaslighting in the workplace can appear as denial, rewriting history, or minimizing your contributions, and can deeply impact confidence and mental health.
• Documentation is one of your strongest tools. Keep “receipts”, emails, meeting notes, or project summaries, to protect your narrative and boundaries.
• Respond with facts, not emotions. Gaslighters often feed off emotional reactions, so staying grounded protects your power.
• Emotional awareness is not a weakness, it’s a superpower when managed intentionally and used to navigate professional dynamics.
• Know when to stay and when to go: growth comes from challenges, but no one should remain in an emotionally unsafe workspace.
• If your workplace lacks HR or safety structures, seek external support, mentors, coaches, therapists, or regulatory boards.
• Awareness is power. Recognizing gaslighting is the first step toward reclaiming your voice, confidence, and self-worth.

Connect with Dr. Rita Renee:

Visit her website

Follow her on Instagram

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In this episode, Dr. Amelia Kelley breaks down what ADHD really looks like, how it’s diagnosed, and why it’s often misunderstood, especially in women and girls. She shares how ADHD symptoms can overlap with anxiety and trauma, why masking makes detection difficult, and what treatment options (both medication and holistic approaches) can help.

Amelia also explores the role of genetics, the impact of trauma, and why lifestyle factors like exercise, diet, and structure are key to thriving with ADHD.

Whether you’re exploring a possible diagnosis, supporting a loved one, or curious about ADHD’s connection to mental health, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and practical tools.

Key Takeaways:

• ADHD diagnosis involves interviews, self-report scales, and sometimes brain imaging. there’s no single test.
• Women and girls often go undiagnosed due to masking and outdated research.
• ADHD and anxiety share symptoms, but their root causes differ.
• Trauma does not cause ADHD but can mimic or worsen symptoms.
• Treatment is highly individual: medication, exercise, diet, and external supports can all help.

Links and Resources:

• Powered by ADHD: Strategies and Exercises for Women to Harness Their Untapped Gifts by Dr. Amelia Kelley
• The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt
• A Hunter in a Farmer’s World: ADHD and the Edison Gene by Thom Hartmann

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What if your anxiety wasn’t something to get rid of, but something you could use as fuel? In this inspiring conversation, Dr. Amelia Kelley sits down with Dr. David Rosmarin, Harvard Medical School faculty, founder of the Center for Anxiety, and author of Thriving with Anxiety, to explore his groundbreaking 4-step method: Identify, Share, Embrace, and Let Go.

Dr. Rosmarin explains why anxiety is often misunderstood, how vulnerability builds stronger connections, and why learning to release control may be the hardest, but most freeing, step of all. Drawing from over two decades of clinical experience, he offers a practical, compassionate framework for transforming anxiety into resilience, purpose, and growth.

Whether you’re struggling with daily stress, navigating imposter syndrome, or supporting a child with social anxiety, this episode will empower you to stop fighting your anxiety and start thriving with it.

Key takeaways:

• The difference between clinical anxiety and everyday anxiety, and why that matters.
• The 4 steps to move through anxiety: Identify, Share, Embrace, and Let Go.
• Why human connection and vulnerability are essential for healing.
• How to help children face anxiety with courage and support.
• The surprising role anxiety plays in sharpening focus and driving growth.

Resources & Support Mentioned

• Learn more about Dr. David Rosmarin
• His book: Thriving with Anxiety

EPISODE LINKS

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In this deeply moving episode, Dr. Amelia Kelley is joined by psychotherapist and author Jason Shiers, who shares his raw and powerful journey from addiction, psychiatric wards, and endless seeking to a profound awakening of self-compassion and inner peace.

Jason opens up about his experiences with escapism, 12-step programs, therapy, and the search for relief that never quite touched the root of his suffering. What ultimately transformed his life was the realization that he was never broken, and that true healing comes from reconnecting with the self, not endlessly trying to fix what isn’t damaged.

Key takeaways:

• The hidden reasons behind addiction, self-medication, and escapism.
• The difference between white-knuckle sobriety and embodied healing.
• Why true recovery means going inward instead of chasing external solutions.
• How loved ones can create safety and connection for someone struggling with addiction.
• The radical shift from “what’s wrong with me?” to “what’s right with me?”
• The role of the body and nervous system in emotional healing.

Jason also shares the essence of his book The Infinite Recovery Project and his mission to guide others toward seeing themselves as whole, even in the midst of struggle. His story offers hope, clarity, and a reminder that seeking is not failure, it’s the soul’s way of guiding us home.

This episode is for anyone who has struggled with addiction, loves someone who has, or has ever felt broken beyond repair. Jason’s story is proof that transformation is possible, and Amelia’s insights ground the conversation in compassion and empowerment.

Resources & Support Mentioned

• Get the The Infinite Recovery Project Book here.

EPISODE LINKS

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