Rob and Tami have a discussion on how to best manage your triggers as you go through recovery. Focus on the things you can control. Focus on how you want to react to temptation, instead of being derailed. So much about life are things you can’t control, but you can choose to be a better person and make better, more intentional and more conscious decisions every single day! It does get better!

 

TAKEAWAYS:

[0:20] How do I handle my fears and my triggers?

[1:20] Trust the process. Keep finding accountability for yourself.

[6:00] What’s a good game plan for handling my triggers?

[7:15] How do I heal resentment?

[11:55] I’m 90 days sober. How can I develop true empathy for my spouse?

[15:55] Your spouse will not care that you are 90 days sober if you’ve been hurting her and cheating on her for the last 8 years.

[17:10] Should the addict be in recovery for himself or his family?

[20:40] My relationship recently ended. How do I redefine my sexual sobriety?

[25:15] Everyone has sexual thoughts. Addict or not.

[31:45] You know when you’re off because you’re unhappy and you’re stressed. You rely on the tools you build in recovery to keep you on the right track.

 

RESOURCES:

Seekingintegrity.com

Email Tami: [email protected]

Sexandrelationshiphealing.com

Intherooms.com

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