International #1 best-selling author of "Strength of the Oak, Strength of the Willow", Andrew Anderson shares his approach in navigating life's ups and downs.

Andrew shares inspiring insights on shifting perspectives from 'why is this happening to me?' to 'why is this happening for me?' and how to discover the hidden greatness in every situation.

We dive deeply into the art of transformation, touching on deceit's role and outdated beliefs in personal growth. 

Andrew provides practical steps on:

• breaking free from restrictive thought patterns
• setting up protective boundaries
• how to have strength and grace in life's storms
• the 7 steps to forgiveness

This episode is a treasure for anyone on a quest to understand their life's mission and purpose. It's abundant with enlightening wisdom on nurturing self-worth and enhancing relationships.

This episode is a wealth of wisdom for anyone seeking personal transformation, the courage to face life's challenges, and the bravery to step into a brighter future.

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Ever found yourself stuck at crossroads, unable to decide which path to take? The reality is, every day we are faced with decisions - some small, some life-altering. 

But here's the catch, the pain of indecision often surpasses the pain of making the 'wrong' decision. You may be held hostage by your own fear and doubt. Turns out, the 'wrong' decision made with the information and emotions at the time, can be the 'right' decision after all. 

In this episode, you'll discover how to tackle the daunting task of decision-making with newfound confidence. Shanenn shares an exercise you can do to quickly get your out of indecision. 

Plus, we'll delve into how to take command of decisions in your relationships, keeping the fear of abandonment at bay. So, let's start making some decisions quickly, confidently, and fearlessly!

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Self-discovery can happen with just small minor shifts and this week, Nichole Lee, an identity + life transition coach AND holistic practitioner shares  her insights into the delicate process of self-exploration, emphasizing the importance of a safe, non-judgmental space. 

Together, we navigate the potential triggers of solo exploration and affirm the power of partnership during these transformative moments.

Nichole and I challenge you to carve out dedicated time for self-discovery, advocating for tweaks in your daily routines to encourage personal growth. 

Listen as we:

• unveil the role of bringing body intelligence to the forefront. 
• explore the profound connection between our minds, bodies, and emotional healing. recognize how our habitual tendencies and implanted memories can keep us stuck 
• discover how simple tools like visualization and meditation can release these blocks, leading to harmony. 

Prepare to be inspired, transformed, and fully engaged in this discussion.

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Ever wondered why you don't trust your partner as much as yourself? Curious about the double standards you set in your relationship, often without realizing it? 

Tune in for an eye-opening discussion about trust dynamics in relationships. My deep dive is set to reshape your understanding of trust, insecurity, and jealousy. 

Why we give ourselves more liberty than we do our partners?

I discuss the projection of our needs onto our partners and how this triggers an insatiable need for reassurance. Are you setting different expectations for yourself and your partner due to your insecurities? 

I explore this concept in depth, providing insights that might just save your relationship. 

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Are you ready to reignite the tingly energy of your inner masculine lover? 

That's precisely what this episode is all about, with our guest, Amy Lee Westervelt. Together, we address the habit of seeking external validation instead of harnessing internal energy and how to navigate the feelings of jealousy and insecurity that can arise in relationships.

We also venture into the empowering realm of changing our inner voice. Get ready to tap into your inner masculine and create a protective and devoted voice within. 

In this episode, we also discuss:

• the concept of self-sourcing, teaching you how to appreciate and receive compliments from your partner without relying on them for validation. 

• how our expectations from our partners can set us up for failure and strategize ways to manage these situations better.

• handling situations when your partner doesn't meet your expectations

• the sometimes tumultuous seas of gender roles and communication

Our conversation will leave you brimming with tips on how to embark on this transformative journey to connect with your higher self.  So, buckle up for an enlightening ride on inner growth and self-empowerment.

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Today, we're thrilled to bring you Tony Dufresne, PhD, a voice of wisdom in the arena of women's empowerment and confidence. With his unique perspective as a father and a male coach in the world of women, Tony guides us through the systemic differences between the genders and sheds light on the expectations society places on them. His understanding of the female experience, through empathy and intuition, is truly insightful.

In this discussion, Tony introduces three powerful tools: meditation, journaling, and physical pattern interrupt. As we explore the difference between small C and big C confidence, you'll learn to accept yourself, flaws and all, and start reframing your thought process.

He believes in building a supportive network that nurtures growth and confidence and to shed off guilt, embrace your intuition, and step into your power. Listen in, as you won't want to miss Tony’s wisdom and insights on women's empowerment.

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If you're someone who's insecure, you may be self-centered in a way you haven't thought of before.  You may think everything is about you.  All the problems, anything that goes wrong, if someone is upset.

In this episode, I challenge you to start being self-centered in a different way.  in a way that better serves you and even your relationship.  

This month's episodes have been about being in the present and this one is no exception as today is a great day to turn your focus away from your partner, away from all the anxiety and worrying and start doing something for you.

What's that thing you've always wanted to do but never had the courage to try or didnt know where to begin?  What's that thing you know you can do but because of your jealousy, you don't feel like you've been able to focus on it?

Well... its time to get self-centered and start today!  If you're sitting on a dream, this is your wake-up call. Time to bring your vision to life!

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As someone who has personally experienced the crippling effects of anxiety and insecurities, I'm sharing the importance of being present and in the N.O.W. and how to avoid being caught up with past wondering or worrying about the future. 

It's crucial to remember that you have the power to break free from fear-driven patterns. I am excited to discuss my journey of self-awareness that led me to stop letting the past hijack my present and the changes I initiated that altered my future. 

In this episode I discuss:

• the magic of being present and grounded in the moment
• introduce three acronyms to help one of which is: NOW: Notice, Observe, and Words of Gratitude
• explore the importance of adding mindfulness and being present into your self-regulation recipe.

You're not alone on this journey to overcoming insecurities and anxiety and I hope these quick techniques will benefit you too.

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It's time to stop judging without mercy and stop trying to control unpredictable events.

Reflecting on the "Adult Children of Alcoholics" (ACA) list was a turning point, a moment that brought me a lot of clarity and started me on my self-development journey.

Drawing from my personal experiences, I'm sharing one of the 14 common behavior characteristics from the ACA Laundry List and the recent epiphany I had that is tied to it for anyone who grew up in a similar dysfunctional environment as I did.

This episode discusses our attempts to predict and control events, especially in relation to our partners, which often leads to mistrust. As we delve into this aspect, we shed light on the pitfalls of control and the power of trust, exploring how we can transform our judgments into unconditional love and trust, even in unpredictable situations.

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Do you know you might even be controlling when you argue with your partner?  I know it may seem hard to believe because your first thought is probably... I hate arguing with my partner.

I hate to say it, but as much as you hate it, you may be the huffing and puffing and blowing the house up just as things are going really well.

If you grew up in a dysfunctional environment like I did, where every day there was drama, fighting or wondering when the next big thing is going to happen, you might be pulling this into your adult relationship.

On this week's episode, I share 3 reasons you might be doing this.  

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