The Angry Therapist Podcast

Why Couples Repeat the SAME Argument (And How To Stop)


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All modules, worksheets, and bonus sessions. This video compiles key moments from the second core module from our relationship course - "How to Fight Without Fighting"

You'll learn:

  • Why repair looks completely different for each partner
  • How to ask for (and give) permission to reopen old conversations
  • What to do when you still feel hurt but your partner has “moved on”
  • The moment he realized he was wrong — and how that changed everything
  • Why fights are often bids for connection, not battles
  • How childhood patterns shape how we handle conflict as adults
  • What healthy masculine containment looks like in emotional moments
  • How to rebuild trust after a rupture
  • What apology, accountability, and understanding truly require
  • This episode is about the messy, human, honest side of relationships — and the courage it takes to repair in a way that actually heals.

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