In this episode I introduce a tool to you called, The Model. I use this tool to help my clients (I am a Lifecoach) solve all of their problems.

Your brain has the most energy in the morning. Most of us let our brain go on autopilot in the mornings and just let it offer us all kinds of thoughts. Sometimes those thoughts create feelings we don’t like. We don’t have to be in autopilot if we don’t want to. But being aware of this is the first step.

These tools that I share are meant to enhance and augment your experience on this earth and be applied to your own mental and emotional health no matter where you are at on that journey. Some of us have been diagnosed with mental illness of some kind whether it be clinical depression, anxiety, bi-polar, or anything else and these tools are meant for you to add to whatever medical regiment you are choosing to follow. I am 100% in support of therapy and medication. I am 100% in support of humans doing what they need to do to prioritize their mental and emotional health.

Your actions create your results. Your results are your reality. Your reality doesn’t have anything to do with anyone else’s experience because everyone can only create their own reality with their thoughts and feelings and actions. Your brain proves all of your thoughts true. Whatever thoughts you choose to believe, will become your reality because your brain will find evidence for that thought. Your brains job is t to help you, but to prove thoughts true. Your job is to choose the thoughts that you want your Brian to find evidence for- that will become your reality.

The lasting way to make changes in your life is to change from the worlds view which is muster up a ton of self discipline and take some action, then get a result which will make you feel better. This view is not a lasting way to make any changes. We only have so much will power to continue on like this. In order to really take the actions we want to take in life we must first choose thoughts and beliefs that will create the feelings that will fuel the actions we want.

We are just beginning to discover what feelings and emotions are. An emotion or feeling is what is felt in the body after you think a thought and the brain releases chemicals and hormones into the body. Your body was made to be able to handle ANY feeling and emotion. Everything you desire in life is because of a feeling you think it will give you. The worst thing that will ever happen to you is a feeling that you will feel. We create feelings to fuel our actions or inactions.

Thoughts are created in your brain and then your brain creates chemicals that are sent into your body. Those chemicals in your body are called feelings and emotions. Circumstances such as the weather and things other people do or say do not have the power to give you feelings. You have all the power. You create your feelings with your thoughts. This is great news!!

Your brain is a tool you’ve been given but it is not you. You are not your thoughts.