Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life

148: I Stopped Trying to Change My Husband


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In this episode, I'm sitting down with my dear client and friend Kristi, whose journey through unimaginable loss, a cancer scare, betrayal, and a crumbling marriage led her to one of the most profound transformations I've ever had the privilege of witnessing up close. What she shares about learning to stop controlling everything and finally come back to herself is the kind of raw, hard-fought wisdom that can only come from walking through the fire. If you've ever felt like the ceiling and the floor disappeared out from under you all at once, this conversation was made for you.


✨ Topics Covered

➡️ Navigating grief, a cancer scare, and betrayal — all at the same time
➡️ How anxiety and control were secretly running the show
➡️ The shift from trying to fix your partner to getting rooted in yourself
➡️ Asking the hard question: "Am I justified, or am I winning?"
➡️ What healing actually looks like when you stop trying to do marriage "the right way"


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