Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers | Mother Wound Healing

Has your narcissistic mother unleashed flying monkeys on you and you are struggling to stop them?
Most daughters of narcissistic mothers do all they can to try and set a boundary. What they don’t know is that flying monkeys are going to be unleashed and the drama will continue. 

A “No” to a narcissistic mother is often followed by enablers playing the role of flying monkeys. Does this have to be the doom of your boundary? No, it doesn’t. Learning to recognise, protect yourself and stop these flying monkeys is essential for your boundaries to count. And boundaries are necessary for you to recover from abuse and live a peaceful life.  

In this episode you will learn:

Once you’ve listened to this episode you won’t have to worry about flying monkeys again because you’ll know what to do.

Learn how to say No to your mother's drama and yes to your life!
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Enjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 82
5 Signs of Triangulation Between Siblings by a Narcissistic Mother & How to Stop It Now

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Have you lost all hope that your mother’s drama will end at some point? 
Most daughters of narcissistic and immature mothers have accepted that their life is going to be about survival and they have lost all hope that things might change. They have collected labels, beliefs and coping strategies that are now limiting their life and preventing recovery. 

Feeling unsafe to be yourself has been at the root cause of the limitations to your happiness. No matter the level of narcissistic abuse, this is true for every daughter of narcissistic and immature mothers. 

In this episode I offer a question you need to ask yourself that has changed everything for me. This question will create an opening in those beliefs that keep you stuck in the drama and bring back hope for you. 

I also share the most important foundation for you to shift from surviving to thriving, because surviving just isn’t good enough. You deserve to thrive!

Discover how much your mother’s drama is still impacting your life today – Complete the Drama Meter Quiz now – It’s free and takes less than 3 minutes.
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Learn how to say No to your mother's drama and yes to your life!
Check out our new complete self-paced course “No More Drama”
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Enjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 132
Healing mother wounds: this is stopping your healing. The 4 traps you want to avoid when healing mother wounds.
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Is your mother’s drama sucking the life out of you? Most daughters feel it’s wrong to say no to their mother, even when this means letting pain and abuse continue in their life.
As a daughter of narcissistic and/or immature mother you have been told a fundamental lie about what saying NO means, and this lie is currently keeping you stuck in drama and not allowing you to live your life.
Pattern of self-sabotage, people-pleasing and self-doubt come from this lie plus the need to survive amidst the drama and unsafety in your childhood.
In this episode I dismantle this lie for you, so that you can start saying No when is needed and saying YES to live your life.

Learn how to say No to your mother's drama and yes to your life!
Check out our new complete self-paced course “No More Drama”
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Complete the FREE Coping Pattern Assessment NOW👇
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Enjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 153
Minimising narcissistic abuse: a survival mechanism that will trap you in toxicity

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Do you fear you are being gaslighted but you are not sure? If your mother is narcissistic or emotionally immature, there’s a high chance you have been receiving some degree of gaslighting. 

Gaslighting is a form of manipulation that is causing you to second-guess yourself and doubt your perception of reality to the point that you end up depending on others and can’t rely on your own discernment. 

There are 3 main ways you might be gaslighted and probably you are only aware of one – by your narcissistic mother. 

In this episode you will learn to recognize the 3 main ways gaslighting might be used to control you and confuse you, so that you will be able to protect yourself going forward.

Recovery after being gaslighted starts with regaining control of your emotions (learning to regulate) and building a stronger sense of self.

Check out our new complete self-paced course “Regulate, Set Boundaries & Reclaim Your Authenticity”
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Enjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 137
20 things your narcissistic mother can say to invalidate your feelings – the impact it has on adult daughters of narcissistic mothers & 3 steps to heal

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Do you want to know why recovering from maternal narcissistic abuse feels so challenging? Why is the mother wound so difficult to shift? The answer is: there’s one specific block that truly holds you back.

Most daughters when asked what is the one thing they need to overcome they answer: guilt, anxiety, fear of rejection, people-pleasing patterns and so on… none of these things is the actual first block that needs to be shifted in order to heal and transform your life after narcissistic abuse. 

There’s one thing that comes first. Everything else will follow. 

Listen to this episode to learn what is the main block you need to overcome to fully recover from narcissistic abuse from your mother, what happens if you don’t and, most importantly, how to shift it so that you can move the needle and start thriving in your life. 

You shouldn’t feel like you don’t deserve the support you need to heal the trauma you carry and you won’t have to once you understand what is holding you back.

Check out our new complete self-paced course “Regulate, Set Boundaries & Reclaim Your Authenticity”
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To know more about the wound that holds you back listen to:
Ep 26 The Number One Wound From Maternal Narcissism & How It Impacts Your Life

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Do you ask yourself if your mother is truly narcissistic or “just” emotionally immature? And most importantly, does this make a difference for your recovery and healing journey?

Most daughters of either narcissistic or emotionally immature mothers don’t truly understand the difference, and get caught in trying to figure this out instead of focusing on their own healing. 

Listen to this episode to:

1-     Gain clarity on the real differences between narcissistic and emotionally immature

2-     Get clear on the common trait between the two that truly matters for your recovery and healing. 

Transforming your life is not about labels but about knowing what your next step is. Listen to the full episode to know to know how to heal the mother wound and shift from surviving to thriving. 

Check out our new complete self-paced course “Regulate, Set Boundaries & Reclaim Your Authenticity”
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To know more about if a narcissistic mother can have empathy listen to:
Ep 57 Can a Narcissistic Mother Have Empathy??
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As a daughter, do you want to know why guilt and enmeshment keep you stuck in a cycle of pain for life? Here it is: because your mother has conditioned to feel responsible for her moods and emotions since you were a child. 

As daughters of narcissistic mothers we are all familiar with the feeling of guilt that comes up anytime we want to set a boundary, but what about when that guilt is omnipresent any time your mother is upset? What can you do then? Whether your mother is narcissistic, emotionally immature or just self-absorbed, this conditioning is one you need to recover from in order to transform your life. 

In this episode I share when the conditioning actually started (most people don’t know this), the main examples of what your mother might be saying to you that has confirmed the patterns of guilt, and the impossible choice between being a “good daughter” if you please her or a “bad daughter” when you upset her that you should have never been forced to make.

Listen now to gain clarity on this mother wound that is controlling your life, and to know what you can do to break free. 

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To know more about breaking free from the guilt you feel listen here:
Ep 103 Guilt: the biggest mistake we make when dealing with guilt & 3 steps to heal it for daughters of narcissistic mothers

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Ep 60 Wedding Planning with a Narcissistic Mother - What can happen & How to deal with
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Have you tried everything to recover from your mother's abuse and yet you are still feeling stuck and not in control of your life? You are not alone. 85% of daughters of narcissistic mothers who have completed our assessment say they understand the problem but they don't know how to change it.
The first step in healing mother wounds and recovering from abuse is to become aware of what is happening, but what about when we get stuck there? 
Many remain stuck in a cycle of consuming podcasts, books, and labels without experiencing tangible change in their lives. 
In this episode I share how to avoid the trap you risk falling into that will hold you stuck in survival mode. 
You pain has lasted a lifetime, your recovery doesn't have to. 

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Related episodes:
Ep 77 A 3 Steps Process to Set Successful Boundaries with Your Narcissistic Mother

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Do you want to know how to break free from people-pleasing, procrastination and perfectionism? 
To do that there's one thing you need to understand about these 3 patterns... one thing all of them have in common.
By getting this one thing these patterns will stop defining you and you will be able to see a real shift in your life.

It is common to develop survival patterns when growing up with a narcissistic mother, actually it is nearly impossible not to. Learning that these patterns do not define you but can be shifted is a truly essential piece for your healing journey and recovering from maternal narcissistic abuse. 

Take the FREE assessment NOW to know which is your main coping pattern👇
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Related episodes:
Ep 133 - Perfectionism holds you back: 10 signs to recognise it and 2 steps to help. A quick test for you to know if perfectionism is holding you back.

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Do you want to know why most daughters of narcissistic mothers remain stuck in the cycle of pain and toxicity never fully breaking free? 

There’s an immense value in learning about maternal narcissism and the trauma we carry as a result of it. This helps bring awareness to the topic and give words to what we have experienced, or are still experiencing. But awareness alone is not enough to bring true resolution and healing. Awareness is the first step, not the only one. To fully recover from maternal narcissistic abuse, and not only that, but to fully break free, reclaim your life and be your authentic self, there are 2 more steps you need to take. In this episode I share what these 2 steps are and the fundamental difference between following old patterns on rehearsing, and actually resolving. 

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Related episodes:
Episode 155 The 4 main survival patterns daughters of narcissistic mothers must be aware of to heal and break free from abuse

Episode 150 How to break free from your narcissistic mother's abuse - this will surprise you

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