ShrinkChicks

Dear Em & Jen: Listener Advice


Listen Later

On this week's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are dedicating the full episode to answering multiple Dear Em & Jen questions! The first question is from a listener who is extremely frustrated with her current relationship dynamic. Her partner is not willing to do the work and she feels lost on how to reach him after trying for so long. They discuss defensiveness, the pursuer-withdrawer dynamic, and how our inner child's survival tactics can show up in our present relationships. Next, Emmalee and Jen answer a question about avoidant-attachment style. The listener is almost 30 and has never been in a relationship and wants to unpack why she fears closeness. She has incredible insight and awareness, so Em and Jen give her some action steps to take with her. Lastly, they tackle a question from a listener who doesn't like being in public with their partner. The listener is drained by their partner's social anxiety and isn't sure if this is a dealbreaker. They want to know what Em and Jen would do in their shoes and Em and Jen deliver just that! Tune in for some in-depth answers that can be applied to MANY different situations! PS: Fast forward to around 7:30 into their convo to skip the intro and get straight to today’s content.
Get Matched With One of Our Therapists!
ShrinkChicks on Instagram
Our Know Yourself Grow Yourself Journal!!
SHRINKCHICKS MERCH
Check out ShrinkChicks on YouTube by subscribing here! https://youtube.com/channel/UCrxuhDqoL4ML3UE8b2J2BBg
A special thank you to this week's sponsors for supporting ShrinkChicks! We have these exclusive offers for our listeners:
Beis: Get 15% off your first purchase by visiting beistravel.com/SHRINKCHICKS
Storyworth: Go to storyworth.com/shrinkchicks and save $10 on your first purchase!
Master Class: Get an additional 15% off an annual membership at masterclass.com/shrinkchicks
Apostrophe: Get your first visit for only $5 at apostrophe.com/SHRINKCHICKS when you use our code SHRINKCHICKS
Factor: Head to factormeals.com/shrinkchicks50 and use code shrinkchicks50 to get 50% off!
Quince: Go to quince.com/shrinkchicks to get free shipping and 365-day returns on your next order!
...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

ShrinkChicksBy Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT and Emmalee Bierly, LMFT

  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9

4.9

723 ratings


More shows like ShrinkChicks

View all
The Terri Cole Show by Terri Cole

The Terri Cole Show

1,374 Listeners

Almost 30 by Krista Williams & Lindsey Simcik

Almost 30

3,880 Listeners

Off The Vine with Kaitlyn Bristowe by PodcastOne

Off The Vine with Kaitlyn Bristowe

21,738 Listeners

Your Favorite Thing with Wells & Brandi by Podcast Nation

Your Favorite Thing with Wells & Brandi

5,516 Listeners

The Liz Moody Podcast by Liz Moody

The Liz Moody Podcast

3,049 Listeners

Wellness: Fact vs. Fiction by Danielle Belardo

Wellness: Fact vs. Fiction

1,347 Listeners

Dear Dr. Tracy by Cloud10

Dear Dr. Tracy

159 Listeners

Raw Beauty Talks by Erin Treloar, Podcast Nation

Raw Beauty Talks

221 Listeners

The WoMed by Podcast Nation

The WoMed

1,001 Listeners

Raising Good Humans by Dear Media, Aliza Pressman

Raising Good Humans

1,868 Listeners

Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments by Michelle Kenney, M. Ed

Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments

354 Listeners

Naked on Cashmere by Atticus & Podcast Nation

Naked on Cashmere

522 Listeners

Momwell by Erica Djossa

Momwell

303 Listeners

The Trip That Changed Me by Full-Time Travel, Podcast Nation

The Trip That Changed Me

145 Listeners

HERself by Abby and Amy

HERself

1,735 Listeners

Riled Up with Arielle & Matt by Podcast Nation

Riled Up with Arielle & Matt

3,036 Listeners

Seeing Other People by Ilana Dunn

Seeing Other People

571 Listeners

Sorry We're Cyrus by Brandi and Tish Cyrus

Sorry We're Cyrus

1,258 Listeners

The Mom Room by Renee Reina & Podcast Nation

The Mom Room

577 Listeners

FML Talk by Gabrielle Stone

FML Talk

502 Listeners

Something to Share by Sydney Lotuaco, Podcast Nation

Something to Share

195 Listeners

The Bravo Docket by Cesie and Angela

The Bravo Docket

2,443 Listeners

Welcome to the Collective by Brianne Helfrich

Welcome to the Collective

94 Listeners

Good Inside with Dr. Becky by Dr. Becky Kennedy

Good Inside with Dr. Becky

4,381 Listeners

We Can Do Hard Things by Glennon Doyle and Audacy

We Can Do Hard Things

41,435 Listeners

Financial Feminist by Her First $100K | YAP Media

Financial Feminist

6,282 Listeners

Tandia Talks Money by Tandia Financial Credit Union

Tandia Talks Money

2 Listeners

Tell Me More with Jesse & Meray by Tell Me More

Tell Me More with Jesse & Meray

0 Listeners

Let's Talk About Down There by Jennifer Lincoln

Let's Talk About Down There

78 Listeners

Invisible Scars by PodcastOne

Invisible Scars

11 Listeners

CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT by Calling Home

CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT

332 Listeners

Before We Go by Podcast Nation

Before We Go

293 Listeners

Nuance Needed by Amanda E. White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW

Nuance Needed

98 Listeners