Real Talk, Whole Life

Do I Have to Hate David Harbour Now?


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Stacy and Daynah dive deep into Lily Allen’s surprise divorce album, the internet-meltdown question of “Do I Have to Hate David Harbour Now?” and why pop culture feels so personal when the celebrity in question is someone we’ve all invited into our living rooms via Stranger Things. They discuss the album’s storytelling, the public fascination with Harbour’s alleged behavior, and the broader cultural work of women telling the truth about betrayal.

And because they contain multitudes, you'll also find Beyoncé references, dental anxiety, and all the good-bad TV they're watching.

  • 0:00 | Popcorn upgrades, dental chaos & anxiety
  • 5:00 | Buccaneers, anachronisms & period-piece comfort
  • 10:00 | Lily Allen’s album, David Harbour & the pop-culture spiral
  • 15:00 | Betrayal, storytelling & why this record hits differently
  • 20:00 | Music style, comparisons & where it lands culturally
  • 25:00 | Red flags, negging & the Harbour discourse
  • 30:00 | Gaslighting, boundaries & self-centering
  • 35:00 | Open marriage rules, cheating & accountability
  • 38:00 | Healing arcs, final track reflections
  • 41:00 | What we’re watching next
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