Earn Your Happy

Jordan Lee Dooley is back to catch up on everything that’s been going on since she was last on the show for Episode 436! Jordan is a national bestselling author, speaker, founder and CEO of the Own It Academy, and host of the top-rated SHE podcast. She just came out with her latest book, Embrace Your Almost: Find Clarity and Contentment in the In-Betweens, Not-Quites, and Unknowns, which is perfect for the season of business that I’m in right now. It’s meant for the person who's like, geez, I've done everything right, and things still seem to be going wrong. Sound familiar? Because I know I can definitely relate. 

We discuss how to make peace with setbacks and unmet expectations, the role that adversity plays in our ability to gain clarity, and how to cultivate a life that you really like. Jordan shares some projects that have been healing and opening her mind to life outside of her business, and she offers suggestions for how other overachievers can find hobbies that they love. We touch on why it’s so important to lean into taking care of your well-being and get out of your bubble. Jordan has so much wisdom from what life is like when you’re in limbo, so listen in to hear more of her story. 

IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT:

• Knowing when it’s time to let go of a good thing 
• Creating healthy boundaries
• Making the middle less miserable 
• The difference between complacency and contentment 
• Finding tangible ways to serve yourself and your community 
• The benefits of picking up a new hobby (or revisiting one that’s fallen to the wayside) 
• How to see other people’s success as inspiration for what's possible, not just a reminder of what you haven’t achieved yet 

RESOURCES

• Thanks to Jenni Kayne for sponsoring Earn Your Happy. Get 15% off your first order at jennikayne.com and use my code LORI at checkout. 
• Thanks a Little Passports for supporting my show. Little Passports is offering new customers 20% off when you go to littlepassports.com/lori.
• Sign up for The Spritz newsletter at litepink.com!
• Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 for updates and a chance to be featured on the show!

CONNECT WITH JORDAN 

Follow her on Instagram: @jordanleedooley

Follow her on TikTok: @jordanleedooley 

Visit her website: jordanleedooley.com  

Buy her book:  Embrace Your Almost: Find Clarity and Contentment in the In-Betweens, Not-Quites, and Unknowns

Listen to SHE with Jordan Lee Dooley 

CONNECT WITH LORI

Follow me: @loriharder

Follow Lite Pink: @drinklitepink

Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy

Follow Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

Listen to Girlfriends & Business

ABOUT JORDAN

Jordan Lee Dooley is a National Bestselling Author, Speaker, Founder/CEO of the Own It Academy, and Host of SHE, a top rated podcast for women. Her trajectory started with a small Etsy shop she started in college, and now her mission is to help women live their purpose and create a livelihood doing what they love so they can leave a legacy. She also sits on the Board of Advisors for Liberty University’s School of Business, and has been featured on Forbes, Inc Magazine, SUCCESS Magazine's 30 Under 30 List, and more. Jordan is an Indiana native, an advocate of working in your slippers, and happily married to her college sweetheart, Matt.

I’ve definitely been guilty of deciding on something and then not fully committing to it, and let me tell you, it’s not a good feeling. Now, once I decide on something, I attach someone and something to it. I have an accountability partner and put my money where my mouth is, literally and figuratively. I’m sharing why making true commitments are so important and a few tools that I rely on when life comes at me and I’m really tempted to sell out my dream. If you know that deep down inside you’re not committed to something, it’s never going to happen. So, what’s stopping you? 

IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT:

• The meaning of the word ‘decide’ 
• Tony Robbins’ analogy for commitment that really resonates with me 
• Truly investing in your dreams and practicing integrity 
• Getting out of the instant gratification cycle 
• Why having an inner dialogue and coaching yourself actually helps and works

RESOURCES

• Thanks to Indeed for supporting Earn Your Happy. Go to indeed.com/happy to redeem a $75 sponsored job credit. 
• Sign up for The Spritz newsletter at litepink.com!
• Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 for updates and a chance to be featured on the show!

CONNECT WITH LORI

Follow me: @loriharder

Follow Lite Pink: @drinklitepink

Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy

Follow Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

Listen to Girlfriends & Business

Lauren and I are back with another BTS of building a business from the ground up! We’re talking all about female investors and building strategic partnerships. I share the moment that I realized that I wanted to expand the mission of Lite Pink and build this company with other powerful women. We discuss how to reach out to investors who bring value, audience, platform, skillset, and enthusiasm to your vision, and the role that their investment plays in your accountability and persistence. We also chat about why I decided to raise money instead of going the self-funded route and give a sneak peek at other conversations that you all can expect from upcoming episodes in this series. 

IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT:

• When I realized that for the right investor, it will never be the ‘wrong time’ to invest in Lite Pink
• My bring-me-to-your-knees moment of gratitude 
• The criteria that I have for bringing someone on as an investor 
• How my investors support me in ways beyond their financial contribution 
• When Lauren fully realized the mission, impact, and vision of Lite Pink 

RESOURCES

• Sign up for The Spritz newsletter at litepink.com!
• Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 for updates and a chance to be featured on the show!

CONNECT WITH LAUREN

Follow Lauren: @thelivelylo 

CONNECT WITH LORI

Follow me: @loriharder

Follow Lite Pink: @drinklitepink

Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy

Follow Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

Listen to Girlfriends & Business

If nothing was considered unrealistic or impossible, what would you want out of life? This question came up in a book that I’m reading, The Rhythm of Life by Matthew Kelly, and Chris and I discuss exactly what our answers are to that question. We’ve been putting so much thought into what it means to build a life that we love and what needs to happen in order to achieve that. Really getting clear about your answer to this question will help support and guide you when making bold and scary dream-building decisions. We also talk about the importance of taking on challenges and knowing when to close the chapter of something that you’ve outgrown. 

IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT:

• Why I was inspired to ask Chris what he wants out of life
• What we’re ultimately working towards 
• How challenges make you happy 
• Income opportunities that we chose to leave because they didn’t stretch us anymore 
• An exciting charity dinner that you can get involved with 

RESOURCES

• Text DINNER to 310-421-0416 to get more information about the amazing charity dinner event that we’re going to be at with other extraordinary people. 
• Sign up for The Spritz newsletter at litepink.com!
• Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 for updates and a chance to be featured on the show!

CONNECT WITH LORI

Follow Lori: @loriharder

Follow Lite Pink: @drinklitepink

Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy

Follow Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

Listen to Girlfriends & Business

CONNECT WITH CHRIS

Follow Chris: @chriswharder

Visit Chris’ Website: https://chrisharder.me 

Listen to The Chris Harder Show 

I recently met today’s guest at a dinner and knew that I had to have him on the show to share his story with you all. Keith Yackey is the founder and creator of Married Game and helps men win back their wife’s attraction so she will want to initiate sex again. He tells it like it is and has a proven formula to help couples get back the spark they had at the beginning of their relationship. Keith shares how he came up with Married Game and breaks down his signature five dial process. We discuss why women need to prioritize themselves, how his mindset about marriage has totally shifted, and the importance of discipline. Plus, we share our advice for women who feel like they can’t find their match and how to date as an alpha female. 

IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT:

• Why you need to work on yourself first to show up as the best version for your partner 
• The wakeup call that Keith’s wife gave him five years ago 
• Stepping into his role as a father 
• Finding a power balance in your marriage 
• Where compromise comes into play 
• Self-discipline and the 75 Hard challenge

RESOURCES

• Big shout out to Avast for supporting Earn Your Happy. Learn more about Avast One at avast.com. 
• Thanks to Better Help for supporting Earn Your Happy. For 10% off your first month, go to betterhelp.com/lori. 
• Sign up for The Spritz newsletter at litepink.com!
• Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 for updates and a chance to be featured on the show!

CONNECT WITH KEITH

Follow Keith: @keithyackey 

Visit the Married Game website: marriedgame.com 

CONNECT WITH LORI

Follow me: @loriharder

Follow Lite Pink: @drinklitepink

Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy

Follow Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

Listen to Girlfriends & Business

ABOUT KEITH

Keith Yackey is the founder and creator of MarriedGame.com. When his wife left him 5 years ago, he realized that he was the problem and that his wife was no longer attracted to him. Since getting her back, Keith has dedicated his life to teaching men how to get their wives to want to have sex with them again. By doing one simple thing, becoming the most attractive version of themselves. 

Lindsey Schwartz is back on the show to discuss how we can better support ourselves and make the journey to reaching our goals more fun. We talk about ways that we’ve supported each other in the past, common mental blocks that come up when we ask for help, and some exciting news about how we’re holding each other accountable during the writing process of our upcoming books. We’re sharing how to re-imagine your scary, daunting goals as something that can be joyful and encouraging with the people who lift you up. 

IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT:

• What support can look and feel like 
• Turning support into something multifaceted 
• Recognizing the thought patterns that come up when you ask for help
• How I wrote 8 chapters in one week with the help of my friend Heidi
• Our plan for making the writing process more fun, efficient, and supportive 

RESOURCES

• Sign up for The Spritz newsletter at litepink.com!
• Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 for updates and a chance to be featured on the show!

CONNECT WITH LINDSEY

Follow Lindsey: @llindseyschwartz

Follow Powerhouse Women: @powerhouse_women

Visit the Powerhouse Women website: powerhousewomen.co

CONNECT WITH LORI

Follow me: @loriharder

Follow Lite Pink: @drinklitepink

Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy

Follow Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

Listen to Girlfriends & Business

ABOUT LINDSEY

Lindsey Schwartz is a best-selling author and the founder of Powerhouse Women. Fiercely committed to supporting other women, Lindsey invests her time in mentoring women and girls of all ages—from high achieving entrepreneurs to high school students. She’s also an investor in female-founded companies including beverage brand Lite Pink.

After seeing numerous women in her life stop short of pursuing their own entrepreneurial dreams because of fear and self-doubt, she saw the need for more honest conversations about the ups & downs of entrepreneurship in order to show women that they don’t have to have it all together to get started. From there, the Powerhouse Women community, annual event, and podcast were born, with the motto that we're not meant to do business (or life) alone!

Because this is my first time launching something in the product-based space, managing my expectations hasn’t been the easiest. Between timelines getting thrown out the window, working with multiple teams, and creating all kinds of contracts, Lauren and I have learned how to get super clear about what we can offer and what we need. Through this whole process, we’ve lived by the mantra that everything happens to us for a reason, and it’s helped shine some light on really difficult times. Today, we’re talking all about setting boundaries, silver linings of obstacles and hard conversation, and why it’s so important to be a vulnerable leader. 

IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT:

• Navigating collaboration with new teams 
• Being open and upfront about you capabilities and expectations 
• How to be considerate, yet forward when you need answers 
• How specific deadlines have added structure to our workflow 
• Valuing when people go above and beyond for you 
• Why it’s a blessing in disguise that we didn’t launch when we planned to last fall 
• Building momentum before a launch 
• How Lauren supports me in my role as a public-facing CEO

RESOURCES

• Sign up for The Spritz newsletter at litepink.com!
• Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 for updates and a chance to be featured on the show!

CONNECT WITH LAUREN

Follow Lauren: @thelivelylo 

CONNECT WITH LORI

Follow me: @loriharder

Follow Lite Pink: @drinklitepink

Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy

Follow Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

Listen to Girlfriends & Business

As we wrap up Women’s History Month, I couldn’t think of a better person to have on the show than Jaclyn Johnson to talk all things venture capital and showing up for women in business! It’s been almost four years since I’ve had Jaclyn on, and I’m in awe of everything she’s accomplished in that time. She’s the founder & CEO of Create & Cultivate, as well as her latest project, New Money Ventures; a venture capital firm and brand studio on a mission to fund and build the next generation of game-changing, female-led companies. 

We talk about how she stays motivated, her experience with selling her company, and the importance of setting boundaries. We also discuss how to overcome rejection, her advice for pitch meetings, and details on some of the amazing companies that she’s backing. No matter where you are in your entrepreneurial journey, Jaclyn has so much wisdom and inspiration to share with you all in today’s episode! 

IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT:

• How to tell when it’s time to start a new venture 
• Her experience with selling her business 
• When she started to see real results in Create & Cultivate 
• Creating mutually beneficial relationships 
• Breaking the cycle of women being pushed out of venture capital 
• Opening up conversations about building generational wealth 
• Her take on web3 and NFTs
• What she wants all women in business to know about raising money 

RESOURCES

• Thanks to Splendid Spoon for sponsoring Earn Your Happy. Go to splendidspoon.com/lori for $50 off your first box when you subscribe to the Breakfast, Lunch + Reset Plan, or the Breakfast, Lunch, Dinner + Reset Plan
• Thanks to Issuu. Sign up for a premium account and get 50% off at issuu.com/podcast and use promo code LORI. 
• Check out Jaclyn’s podcast recommendations: How I Built This and Modern Finance 
• Sign up for The Spritz newsletter at litepink.com!
• Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 for updates and a chance to be featured on the show!

CONNECT WITH JACLYN 

Follow her: @jaclynrjohnson 

Follow New Money Ventures: @newmoneyventures 

Learn more about New Money Ventures: newmoneyventures.co 

Buy her book, WorkParty: workparty.com/book 

Listen to WorkParty podcast 

CONNECT WITH LORI

Follow me: @loriharder

Follow Lite Pink: @drinklitepink

Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy

Follow Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

Listen to Girlfriends & Business

ABOUT JACLYN

Jaclyn Johnson created her career. A powerhouse entrepreneur, by the time she was 28, Johnson had sold her first business, invested in multiple female-owned startups and launched her second multi-million dollar company, Create & Cultivate. Johnson recognized a gap in conversations, resources, events and community for female millennial entrepreneurs and responded with a solution, Create & Cultivate, the wildly popular media platform and nationwide conference. In the process, Jaclyn’s own work-life philosophy, built on the cornerstones of female empowerment, hustling-hard and innovation have propelled her voice to the forefront of the discussion on workplace equality, a new thought-leader for millennial women and Gen-Z-ers on the career come up. This passion for supporting female entrepreneurs has sparked her latest endeavor, New Money Ventures; a venture capital firm and brand studio on a mission to fund and build the next generation of game-changing, female-led companies. 

Named a Forbes 30 Under 30, an Adweek Disruptor and profiled in Fast Company, the LA Times, Entrepreneur and more, Johnson has earned her way to the frontlines of a workplace revolution at a time when change-agents and disruptors are flexing real influence.

If you want to attract more, you have to become more attractive. I don’t mean you have to get glam, but rather do the things that make you like who you are and see your vision through. I’m realizing that there are challenges that I’m surrendering to that are stopping me from going after my dreams. It’s time for me to drop the excuses and dial in. I’m committing to showing up on social media and putting in the work to figure out how to succeed in that space. How might you be selling out and giving up on your dreams? Let’s talk about it. 

IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT:

• Examples of people who are really focused on attracting abundance 
• What I’m doing to boost my social media strategy 
• Recognizing ways that you might be self-sabotaging
• Getting real about the price we pay when we break the promises we make to ourselves 

RESOURCES

• Thanks to Little Passports for supporting Earn Your Happy! Get 20% off your purchase at littlepassports.com/lori. 
• Sign up for The Spritz newsletter at litepink.com!
• Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 for updates and a chance to be featured on the show!

CONNECT WITH LORI

Follow me: @loriharder

Follow Lite Pink: @drinklitepink

Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy

Follow Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

Listen to Girlfriends & Business

I’ve been wanting a place where I can bring you along on the journey of building Lite Pink, so we’re adding another weekly episode to the show to talk about all things launching a product-based business! My Chief of Staff Lauren will be joining me to discuss what we’re currently working through, wins and challenges of the week, and everything else in between. To kick off this series, we talk about the ‘why’ behind Lite Pink, how this podcast has helped me build my dreams, and what we’re learning about working with different teams. Listen in to hear more behind-the-scenes of Lite Pink. 

IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT:

• What keeps me going when things get hard 
• Why Lite Pink is more than just a beverage company 
• How my podcast has been one of the most powerful tools for building Lite Pink 
• Creating a two-way energy exchange with investors 
• Overcoming discomfort and fear around asking for what you need 
• Working flexibility into contracts 
• What we consider when we push back timelines 

RESOURCES

• Sign up for The Spritz newsletter at litepink.com!
• Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 for updates and a chance to be featured on the show!

CONNECT WITH LAUREN

Follow Lauren: @thelivelylo 

CONNECT WITH LORI

Follow me: @loriharder

Follow Lite Pink: @drinklitepink

Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy

Follow Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

Listen to Girlfriends & Business