Good Moms Bad Choices

Tribe, welcome back to Week 4 of Deeper December!

This week, Good Moms are joined by Grammy-nominated artist, and momtrepreneur, Kay Cola to discuss why you're not allowed to operate from a place of mediocrity when you have a higher calling over your life, the healing powers of gratitude, leaving relationships that no longer serve you, and.the inevitability of karma.

Kay Cola shares what it is like to co-parent with 3 different men and advises our audience to listen to their intuition if it's telling you to GTFO!

You can expect to hear:
- How to recognize trauma bonding earlier
- Why people who love bomb you are automatic red flags
- How the subconscious thoughts impact your conscious mind
- Kay Cola’s early phases of entrepreneurship and growing/scaling her business
- The importance of dismantling shame & guilt in order to genuinely heal
- Twin flames vs. soul mates

Connect with us:
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Youtube: Good Moms Bad Choices
Twitter: GoodMom_BadGirl
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@organigrowhairco
@theflavorofcreole
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Good Moms loves discounts and on this weeks episode Good Moms run down their Holiday Must Haves!

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Listen as we share some naughty stories (hello sex injury 🤣) and some nice ones 😇

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Connect with us
@GoodMoms_BadChoices
@WatchErica
@Milah_Mapp
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz82IahvZoDAi7Q7016pfNw/videos
Twitter: @GoodMoms_BadGirl
Patreon: www.Patreon.com/GoodMomsBadChoices
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This week, Good Moms are joined by the Host of Sex is Medicine Podcast, and the Founder of the ONLY government accredited school for Tantra, Devi Erickson!

In this episode, the ladies talk about how intimacy, sex, and Tantra is used as tool for deep inner healing.

You can expect to hear:
- Devi discuss her journey from being a stripper in Detroit to becoming a Monk at the age of 24.
- Erica share when she started accepting parts of her sexuality and how it made her more open-minded in accepting other people's pleasures/desires.
- Devi share interesting research about the first signs of self pleasure ex: babies self- pleasure in the womb.
- A discussion about how black bodies are living under attack in a capitalist society and the importance of comfortably living in your skin. .
Stay to the end to hear Milah's whorie about beckoning someone from her past through masturbation.

Connect with us:
@GoodMoms_BadChoices
@WatchErica
@Milah_Mappo

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@authentictantra
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Welcome to Deeper December.

This month, we are focusing on digging deeper into the self and unveiling traumas/ obstacles you thought that you have overcome.

In this episode, Erica talks about her recent visit to a psychic and her realization that she still harbored resentment towards her father that she had to address. Milah shares her first experiences in therapy and shares some intuitive inner child healing practices she’s implemented in the past.

In preparation of the new year, Good Moms invites you to go deeper internally to unveil, resolve or forgive the people in your life.

Connect with us:
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@WatchErica
@Milah_Mappo
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In this week’s episode, Good Moms are joined by a professional BDSM Dominant and fire play specialist, Sir Marvelous! Tune in to hear and watch him use fire on Erica & Milah’s body parts and learn about the BDSM industry!

You can expect to hear:
- How Sir Marvelous’ curiosity for kink turned into a career.
- A “non-traditional” definition of BDSM.
- The science behind fire play.
- Navigating working in the sex industry, fatherhood and co-parenting.
- Sir Marvelous’ dominance style epiphany while using Tinder
- Sex party etiquette & much, much more!

WARNING: It might turn you on 🤤.

Connect with us
@GoodMoms_BadChoices
@WatchErica @Milah_Mapp
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz82IahvZoDAi7Q7016pfNw/videos
Twitter: @GoodMoms_BadGirl
Patreon: www.Patreon.com/GoodMomsBadChoices

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@SirMarvelous

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It’s Mix It Up November & Good Moms want you to have better sex! In order to do this, Erica and Milah revisit the theme from last month, Uncomfortable Conversations October.

Erica & Milah provide 5 ways you can give your partner feedback in the bedroom. But, Milah warns you that you may in turn, have to hear some back, and shares a story about “her head game being on the high scale of mediocre”.

You can expect to hear:
Why women MUST prioritize their pleasure
Actionable tools you can implement in the bedroom TODAY
Why vocalizing your needs in non-sexual experiences impacts your sex life
How foreplay enhances sexual experiences
How affirming your partner regularly creates more room in the relationship for feedback

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Connect with us:
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@WatchErica
@Milah_Mappo
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Welcome to the second week of Mix it Up November.

In this week’s episode, @WatchErica and @Milah_Mapp are joined by former rapper and podcast extraordinaire @JoeBudden. The three talk about (00:03:00) play parties and voyeurism, (00:26:26) Joe’s claim that women empowerment is a myth, (00:39:00) why men think women cannot compartmentalize in a co-parenting dynamic, (00:41:00) and why most baby daddies “throw parties” when their ex finds love.

(00:06:00) The tone of this episode takes multiple turns. They start the conversation discussing sex parties and then dive a deeper into this week’s unconventional guest affirmation, “One day, I was going to kill myself, but then my pastor called me”.

(00:14:00) The ladies talk about the growth of the podcast space and Joe shares his experience within his 10+ journey within the emerging podcast industry.

You can expect to hear:
(00:38:16) Raising sons and the obstacles of co-parenting
(00:51:00) Non-negotiables and cheating not being a deal breaker
(01:02:00) The impact that turmoil can have on your growth and maturation.
(1:04:00) Joe’s strip club Whorie
(1:08:00) Astrology with Joe Budden

Connect with us:
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@WatchErica
@Milah_Mappo
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Tribe, Welcome to Wild Card November!

This month, we’re mixing it up and getting to know each other on a deeper level (if that’s even possible). We’re kicking off this week by playing the Instagram-famous card game,  We’re Not Really Strangers!

It gets real as Erica & Milah reveal secrets they don't know about each other before.

This week you can expect to hear

-  Milah confesses she once got her ex's name tattooed on her.  👀
-  Erica's first impression of Milah.

-  Learn why success scares Erica and Milah
 
Listen to the end to hear Erica call a friend LIVE on the podcast.
WARNING: It gets emotional 😭
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Welcome to the final week of Uncomfortable Conversations October.

This week, Good Moms are joined by certified life coach and trauma/narcissism expert Megan Dorty.

It can be difficult to differentiate between an actual narcissist vs your average asshole! In this episode, the ladies explore how to spot a narcissist and discuss some popular overt and covert tactics that are used to manipulate you.

Tune in to learn more about the root of narcissism, and some ways to work on healing after being drained by a narcissist.

Erica and Milah discuss how to empower their children to trust their own intuition, and Megan shares some tips to protect your peace while co-parenting with a narcissist.

In this episode you can expect to hear:
- The cycle of narcissistic abuse and how to spot cycles
- Impaired empathy vs. asshole tendencies
- How a Narcissist uses your energy as supply detached from real emotion
- The element of confusion and the role it plays in narcissistic manipulation tactic
- The spectrum of narcissism and how someone can be on the spectrum without actively abusing at the moment

Connect with us :
@GoodMoms_BadChoices
@WatchErica
@Milah_Mappo
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The first conversations that parents and other trusted adults have with children can impact their relationship to their body for life.

This week, Good Moms share 5 ways parents can talk to their children about body parts.

Milah tells a story about her first conversation with her mother and how it left her traumatized and a bit fearful.

Erica shares how her 5 year old’s reluctance to change her shirt in public initially seemed silly, but then later she learned that honoring her daughter’s privacy builds trust and empowers her self esteem.

Stay tuned to hear some tips that have helped the ladies talk to their children about their anatomy, and the importance of equipping their little ones with the proper language to protect themselves when necessary.

Connect with us:
@GoodMoms_BadChoices
@WatchErica
@Milah_Mappo

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